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High School Harassment

Book excerpt: From the Closet to the Courtroom reveals the human story behind five lawsuits that advanced the LGBT movement. Here, a gay Wisconsin teenager is repeatedly victimized as school officials look the other way.

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For Jamie Nabozny, it all started in the seventh grade when some of his fellow students began taunting him with words like “faggot” and “queer.” By eighth grade, the harassment became physical. And by high school, it was relentless. One day, Jamie was in a bathroom at his high school when two boys attacked him from behind. One of the attackers forced his knee into Jamie, causing him to fall into a urinal, while the other proceeded to urinate on him. Crying and covered in urine, Jamie headed for the principal’s office — like he’d done so many times before — but was simply advised to go home and change his clothes. A couple years later Jamie found himself lying on the floor of his school’s library as a boy repeatedly kicked him in the stomach — a beating so vicious that he required surgery — while other kids cheered.

On countless occasions during those intervening years, Jamie and his parents pleaded with Ashland, Wisconsin, school administrators to stop the anti-gay harassment. But officials refused to get involved. In fact, no student was ever disciplined. This pattern of omission and neglect eventually led to a lawsuit, Nabozny v. Podlesny, in which a jury found that the school failed to protect Jamie and violated his constitutional rights. The school district then entered into a settlement agreement with Jamie that awarded him almost one million dollars.

The advancement of LGBT rights has come about through struggles large and small — on the streets, around kitchen tables, and on the Web. In addition, lawsuits like Jamie’s have played a vital role in propelling the movement forward. Prior to his case, the suffering of countless queer and gender non-conforming students went largely unacknowledged, but in the decade following the court ruling, school districts across the country agreed to pay over $4 million to LGBT students who filed lawsuits. In addition, several settlement agreements have required school districts to adopt policies, procedures, and training programs specifically aimed at addressing and preventing harassment of LGBT students. And most of those gains can be traced back to Jamie Nabozny’s courageous decision to sue.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: 1of18000
    Date posted: 6/24/2010 10:05:22 AM
    Hometown: London

    Comment:

    I strongly hope that Jonathan doesn't have any gay kids. He is the type of person who would abuse them.

  • Name: Robert
    Date posted: 6/24/2010 6:29:51 AM
    Hometown: Michigan

    Comment:

    And I ask again, what would Jonathan's kids say when they find out daddy is browsing gay oriented websites?

  • Name: Michael
    Date posted: 6/23/2010 9:53:45 PM
    Hometown: Cedar Hill, TX

    Comment:

    Jonathan, I hope one of your kids turns out gay. Then maybe you'll discover the heartache and thousand natural shocks that their life is heir to. And then, maybe you won't be such an asshole.

  • Name: Jonathan
    Date posted: 6/23/2010 4:12:28 PM
    Hometown: America--Red, White AND Straight!

    Comment:

    The children are fighting off their attackers. Good for them. They can prevent homosexuality from infestering. STAY AWAY FROM MY CHILDREN.

  • Name: Robert
    Date posted: 6/23/2010 2:57:11 PM
    Hometown: Michigan

    Comment:

    A pentecostal friend asked me once; "Why are you so angry?", assuming that it was because of my lack of "religion". My answer was simply; "Try to grow up being ridiculed, spit at, insulted, abandoned, abused by your classmates and then we'll talk about being angry." She's still my best friend and I'm happy to say that I did earn her respect.

  • Name: Jessica
    Date posted: 6/23/2010 2:38:16 PM
    Hometown: NJ

    Comment:

    Any school administrator or teacher that lets a gay bashing continue or knows that it happened in the past and does nothing about it should be thrown in jail for child abuse. Most schools have a zero tolerance for violence in schools but for some asinine reason it is perfectly OK to let it happen to LGBTIQ youth. This must stop, throwing those that let it happen and do nothing in jail is needed then it happens. The school is responsible for protecting it's students, all of them!

  • Name: mike
    Date posted: 6/23/2010 2:17:33 PM
    Hometown: cincinnati

    Comment:

    All straight people know that this bullying abuse takes place from the early grades in every school. They either participate in the ridiculing or just watch what happens. They allow this to continue. The teachers and administrators don't want to become involved at all. People like to play it off as childhood pranks. This is such bullshit. Gays put up with non-stop abuse until adulthood or even during adulthood. They are forced to pretend to be straight and to hide their feelings just to survive. The sporting programs have always promoted homophobic rhetoric. The mere mention of anything gay in a school is a battle cry by the right wing religious right. Teachers are in the front lines and should take all of the blame for what is allowed to occur in their classrooms. If you think about the number of schools in this country, you realize how much gay public sponsored hatred exists. Children can't be expected to fend for themselves. Adults, speak out for them. Stop hate!



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