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Bromosexual

Can two straight men have sex with each other on camera? And if so, is it art? The new film Humpday explores the limits of male sexuality and what it means for two men to love each other.


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Last spring Mark Duplass wrote a one-line e-mail to Josh Leonard that would eventually launch their shambling careers in gay porn all the way to a four-minute standing ovation at this year's Cannes film festival. As actor-directors, they met on the independent film circuit. Duplass's Baghead had been a hit at Sundance, and The Blair Witch Project , one of Leonard's first acting gigs, was the most successful film ever to debut in Park City.

"I sent Josh one line: 'Do you want to play best friends in a movie this summer?' " Duplass explains over drinks at an outdoor café in Los Angeles's Silver Lake neighborhood. "And Josh wrote back, 'Hell, yes! What's it about?' And I said, 'Look, don't worry about that, it's going to be great.' "

Leonard, now sitting beside him, deadpans, "Don't ever let me agree to be in a movie again before I know what it's about."

Humpday is the story of two straight longtime friends who decide to have sex with each other and film it. It starts as a joke that becomes a challenge that then evolves in surprising and sweet ways into a genuine exploration of male friendship and the shape of desire. Ben (Duplass) is newly married and settling into domestic stasis when Andrew (Leonard) shows up from Mexico with ugly gifts and a beard to give him gravitas. On his first night back Andrew meets and introduces Ben to a polyamorous lesbian couple and their friends, who tell them about the Hump! festival, an actual and ongoing amateur porn showcase in Seattle produced by the alt-weekly The Stranger . "What kind of porn would you two make?" goads one of the women, played by Humpday director Lynn Shelton. "Two straight dudes having sex," Ben says. "It's beyond gay."

"You'll get the shit boned out of you," Andrew proclaims.

"No, you'll get the shit boned out of you ," Ben fires back.

Suddenly, it's on. Starting with a drunken, improbable double dare, Humpday follows these two friends over the course of a single weekend, from wicked hangovers the morning after to Ben's searing conversation with his wife to get permission for the "art project," ending up at the shoot in a hotel room. "We knew the concept was so absurd that the movie couldn't work on just the level of gimmicky hetero male one-upmanship," Duplass says. "There had to be a reason on an emotional level so that on a pillow at night, each of these guys had each picked this project to be a symbol of something missing in their lives."

In the film's trickiest and most refreshing angle, the obstacle to overcome is not the closet door.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Mark
    Date posted: 7/27/2009 10:46:00 AM
    Hometown: Wappingers Falls

    Comment:

    There are so many films and television shows dealing with "straight" people "questioning" what it might be like to be gay. Since straight people are so interested, I wonder why mainstream producers don't do stories about openly gay people, including gay relationships and gay families. There are many untold stories.

  • Name: Renate C. Baird
    Date posted: 7/21/2009 4:43:00 PM
    Hometown: Belo Horizonte - Brazil

    Comment:

    Bravo, Allan Hunter. I wish that more people would think like you and finally we could end up in a world where boundaries and labels are gone - and there are are only human beings, persons, and as such wonderfully diverse, different, complex, interesting, fascinating, weird, magical,intriguing - you go on with list. It is fairly long, I'd say. I will probably not see the film - independent movies have no big public in Brazil where I live - but I find the idea promising - when people are willing to talk about human behaviour and honestly try to find out what this is all about, we may see the light at the end of the tunnel. And Jeff, you are being as compartmentalist as the gay community has been struggling not to be dealt with ... if you don't want to be put into one box, why would you want to put yourself in another ? BTW, I am a "straight" 66-year old woman. But I refuse to be labeled as such ....

  • Name: Anthony
    Date posted: 7/21/2009 4:05:00 AM
    Hometown: Australia

    Comment:

    I'm also unsure why this movie is being promoted to gay men. I think it's the hint that there 'might' be some sex between two males. In my opnion this has nothing for a gay or bisexual male with regards to revelations about our own nature. I think it's more of a case of made by straight people for straight men and women to view, but I'm not sure they will. It may be exciting for straight men to dance on the line between the powerful dominant heterosexuality and the powerless dominated homosexual, but at the end remain self assured in their sexual identity because I am 100% sure the two men will not end up having sex at the end.

  • Name: Chris
    Date posted: 7/16/2009 5:30:00 PM
    Hometown: San Francisco Bay Area, CA

    Comment:

    I hope to see it this weekend, and like Allan, I think it's likely to be an interesting exploration of "humanness." Granted, it's not two gay guys having sex, but there's LOTS of places where you can see that. I'm not spending my film-going money on two straight guys having sex; rather, I'm hoping to learn more about what "common ground" a gay male (like myself) and straight males (like the 'actors') have, so I can better understand both homophobia and "homophilia" (male-to-male love, be it straight, gay, or bi) in today's American society. Although the article titillates, I expect very little in the realm of erotic sex that would interest me. I'll write a post-viewing review.

  • Name: Sandy Rhodes
    Date posted: 7/15/2009 7:25:00 PM
    Hometown: Pebble Beach

    Comment:

    I'm with Jeff. I don't think so.

  • Name: Jeff
    Date posted: 7/11/2009 10:12:00 PM
    Hometown: Denver

    Comment:

    So, I'm supposed to immediately drive to the nearest theater this thing is playing, and plunk down my ten bucks. To watch two straight guys get it on. And talk about it. And talk about it. And talk about it. But they're NOT gay. But this thing is being promoted on a gay website. So I can spend my money. On two straight guys. I don't think so.

  • Name: Allan C. Hunter
    Date posted: 7/11/2009 3:46:00 PM
    Hometown: Manchester, NH

    Comment:

    I find the premise for this film intriguing, and the article exciting. If nothing else, the idea alone lends itself to the notion that we're all human and love can exist between two people regardless of the sex and sexuality. It's the rigid morality of the past centuries that have led us into labeling these types of developments, which then lead into other types of societal controls. This film could be a breakthrough in helping us eliminate such labels gay, lesbian, straight, etc., and have us all be people, and letting us love one another as such.



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