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Something to Be

First he called Pat Robertson the devil. Then he used Huffington Post to call for an end to same-sex marriage bans. Rob Thomas is an ally -- one who didn't sleep with Tom Cruise, but loves that you think he might have.


When Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins used the 1993 Academy Awards ceremony as a soapbox to speak out against Haitians being detained in Guantanamo Bay for having HIV, they got themselves barred from ever attending the Oscars again. Two years later, they attended together -- and Sarandon won for Dead Man Walking .

Years before that, Jane Fonda was labeled a traitor to her country for her vocal opposition to the Vietnam War. Now, though some still question her tactics, Fonda is considered a pioneer and a hero by liberal antiwar activists.

There's nothing new about celebrities going out on a limb to shine the light on inequality and injustice -- but it doesn't change the fact that when they do, rest assured, they get attacked.

Take Rob Thomas -- smart, talented, certainly good-looking. As front man for the band Matchbox Twenty, he racked up a slew of hits. Partnering with Carlos Santana for the smash hit "Smooth" paved the way for a successful solo career, which has so far yielded the hits "Lonely No More" and the current chart-topper "Her Diamonds."

Up until recently, you'd have been hard-pressed to find much of anyone who has anything particularly negative to say about Thomas. Then he called Pat Robertson the devil.

He did it on Twitter ("If I believed in the devil, Pat Robertson might be him," were his exact words), and the hate mail started to flood in.

But that was just the beginning. The reference to Robertson was part of a bigger "Twitter-versy," as Thomas calls it. Thomas's big issue of the hour? "Why two people of the same sex shouldn't be able to make the same lifelong commitment and (more importantly) under the same god as straight people."

He followed it up with an excellent column for The Huffington Post . Titled "The Big Gay Chip on My Shoulder," the article, which Thomas wrote days before the California supreme court's decision to uphold Prop. 8, references McCarthyism, questions the motives of a "misdirected" Christian right, and suggests that straight people have an obligation to stand with their gay brothers and sisters for basic civil rights.

It's one of the most passionate pleas written on behalf of marriage equality, and it's written by a straight man who simply recognizes the need for "acceptance."

As he prepares for the release of his new album Cradlesong (in stores June 30), Thomas talked to Advocate.com about his passion for equal rights, his night with George Michael, and those "fucking great" rumors that his wife caught him in bed with Tom Cruise.

Advocate.com:It's been four years since your last album, (2005's Something to Be) -- did you finally take a break between projects or were you working the entire time?
Rob Thomas: Mostly working, because when we put out the last solo record -- [ laughs ] we… I have a problem with my pronouns, because I'm so used to being in a band. I put out the solo record and then, there was like a year of touring that record. And then, as soon as we were off the road, we took maybe a month or so and started with a Matchbox record -- recording that, promoting that, and touring that. Understand, I've had a real job -- this is better. [ Laughs ] But it just constantly keeps going. Because I chose to have the two jobs of Matchbox and the solo stuff -- this would normally be the break between Matchbox records.

So you're a workaholic, then?
Well, you know -- when you love your job, it's easy to not look at it that way. But my wife has to remind me sometimes to take a break.

The album is getting comparisons to all sorts of artists -- INXS, Tom Petty, Willie Nelson. Do you consciously try to channel certain artists when you're writing?
Sometimes you do that in the production stage. But for the songwriting I really try to have as little pretense about any of it as I possibly can. I just go into it with a melody in my mind and I follow that melody until it's a song. Then, later on, I worry about, sonically, how it's going to come along.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Ken
    Date posted: 6/16/2009 10:41:00 PM
    Hometown: DC

    Comment:

    Man, I just heard one of the songs off his new CD called Someday and I swear it could be the rallying anthem for the gay marriage movement. The melody is sweeping and the chorus goes - And maybe, someday We'll figure all this out Try to put an end to all our doubt Try to find a way to make things better, now Maybe, someday, We'll live our lives out loud We'll be better off somehow, someday... You can hear the whole thing on Itunes. (I think purchase price of single goes toward the cost of CD when it comes out in two weeks.)

  • Name: Scott J.
    Date posted: 6/15/2009 3:13:00 PM
    Hometown: Tampa, FL

    Comment:

    Oh, God . . . just what I need . . . ANOTHER excuse to LOVE Rob Thomas! I think I own everything by Matchbox Twenty and Rob and cannot wait for Cradlesong to be released on June 30th. This man is so talented and now, I find out, so much more!

  • Name: tom stanton
    Date posted: 6/15/2009 1:46:00 PM
    Hometown: aiken, s.c.

    Comment:

    what a nice guy. need more like him. best, tom

  • Name: Karlton
    Date posted: 6/15/2009 11:21:00 AM
    Hometown: Ashland

    Comment:

    I have just updated my CD collection with all of his music and I will be buying his new CD on June 30. I would imagine he may lose a lot of "red state" fans because of some of his comments and we need to support mainstream artists like Rob who are not afraid to stand by our side. (By the way, I'm realizing his music is great, so it's not exactly a hardship!)

  • Name: David A.
    Date posted: 6/15/2009 1:21:00 AM
    Hometown: Amarillo, TX

    Comment:

    Why does Rob Thomas get it when so many others don't? It's tolerance, acceptance, and understanding. I liked Rob before but I appreciate him on a much broader level now. Bravo, Rob, and keep spreading the word.

  • Name: Meredith
    Date posted: 6/14/2009 10:57:00 PM
    Hometown: Medford, Oregon

    Comment:

    I'm a straight woman, a parent of a lesbian and a HUGE Rob Thomas fan. His article in HuffPo was nothing short of amazing! We need more straight men and celebrities to come out in support of their gay freinds and fans. I hope he inspires them to do so!

  • Name: Muscle69
    Date posted: 6/13/2009 2:57:00 PM
    Hometown: Waycross, Georgia

    Comment:

    I LOVE Rob Thomas. I love the way in which he thinks.... I love the way he looks. I just love him. And I realize this is short of an intelligent answer at this point, however I just crawled out of bed. Rob, we need more men like you in the world. We defintely need more men like you in southern Georgia.

  • Name: Daniel "lynxy" kay
    Date posted: 6/13/2009 5:53:00 AM
    Hometown: clearfield utah

    Comment:

    I am a gay man myself an d we do need more men like rob in the world he is a great man who believes that everyone should be treated equall no matter what his words of equal marriage im sure has touched many gays, lesbians, and even homosexual supporting straight people. if there is ever a man who i would love to meet and thank for his support today it would be rob. Thank you rob very much

  • Name: Mike
    Date posted: 6/13/2009 12:29:00 AM
    Hometown: Houston

    Comment:

    ROB THOMAS is too gorgeous to even be considered as a gay joke coupling him with Tom Cruise. Cruise still looks like a chipmunk - THOMAS is all man, a handsome man inside and out. ROB never ceases to amaze me. I've bought every ROB THOMAS recording since 1997 when Matchbox 20 skyrocketed, plus the solo & that one outing with Carlos You-Know-Who. I'll keep supporting Mr. Thomas from 1997 till eternity not just primarily for the dynamic singer and superb musician he is, but because of his good deeds towards his fellow human beings as well.

  • Name: Shaun
    Date posted: 6/13/2009 12:14:00 AM
    Hometown: Louisville Ky

    Comment:

    Rob Thomas has always been an avid supporter for gay rights he is one of the very few straight men that love their gay fans and supports them wholeheartedly others that ive read backing us in interviews and such are Pete Wentz (Fall Out Boy) Justin Timberlake New Kids On The Block(They were quoted recently in an interview as saying they love their gay fans and would be nowhere without them) Those are just a few that i can remember off the top of my head I am sure there are more just cant think of them right now. These are all incredible artists with incredibly open minds and they all deserve their support musically cuz they are the ones that really care and use their celebrity to make good things happen



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