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Grace Under Pressure

Worlds away from writing speeches for Jerry Falwell, out Soulforce director and reformed evangelical Mel White joins forces with screenwriter son Mike (School of Rock) for The Amazing Race.


 Mel and Mike White

Mel White has never been one to run from a challenge. A former speechwriter for evangelicals like Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson, White came out of the closet in the early '80s and wrote a best-selling autobiography, Stranger at the Gate: To Be Gay and Christian in America. Countering the homophobic rhetoric of his former employers, he also founded the gay social-justice organization Soulforce, which sponsors Equality Rides to Christian campuses to spark peaceful dialogue. He then became an ordained minister in the gay-affirming Metropolitan Community Church. In 2002, White and partner Gary Nixon even leased a home across the street from Falwell’s Lynchburg, Va. church just to keep the legendary holy roller in check.

Starting this week, though, White will be running -- traversing nine countries across 40,000 miles on the new season of CBS’ The Amazing Race. Joining him on this grand adventure is his award-winning screenwriter son Mike (Chuck & Buck, School of Rock), who is openly bisexual.

“Mike’s a massive fan of the show,” says White, 68. “He auditioned on his own and was accepted, but the person he signed up with bailed at the last minute. I was the backup plan.”

Among the far-flung countries the show’s contestants visit in its 14th season are India, China, Russia, Switzerland and, for the first time, Romania.

“I’ve traveled a lot more than most people, but there’s nothing that can really prepare you for this show,” White explained. “You’re racing the clock -- the whole thing is such a rush.”

Deciphering clues and overcoming challenges designed to test their endurance, intelligence, and cunning, the team that crosses the finish line first walks away with a cool million dollars.

Just before the show’s February 15 premiere, we spoke with the veteran activist to find out what it was like running the race of a lifetime and why gays still need to stand their ground against the Christian right.

Advocate.com:Were you familiar with The Amazing Race before you entered?
Mel White: Not so much -- Sunday isn’t a good TV night for a clergyman. Mike showed me a lot of old episodes, though, and I really got into it.

Did the producers know who you were when you signed on?
I don’t think so, or at least it never came up during our conversations. I don’t think they did any research into my activism. They wanted me as Mike’s dad, which was fine with me -- I was delighted to be billed as “the gay father.” It gave me a chance to talk about not just being gay, but being a gay parent, without the perceived stigma of being an activist. Of course, I wore my Soulforce hat everywhere, hoping it’d spark some interest.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Evan
    Date posted: 2/12/2009 11:36:00 AM
    Hometown: Atlanta, GA

    Comment:

    "Mike who is openly bisexual." I guess he learned to deny who he is and to lie about his sexual orientation from his daddy. Medical science and common sense both show that there are no bisexual men, only liars and those who cant fully accept who they are.

  • Name: Rick
    Date posted: 2/12/2009 12:39:00 AM
    Hometown: Charlotte, NC

    Comment:

    Mel White has been such a champion for gay Americans. And Soulforce has been on the front lines in the struggle for LGBT equality. I'm looking forward to seeing Mel and Mike on "the Amazing Race."

  • Name: Randi Reitan
    Date posted: 2/11/2009 3:14:00 PM
    Hometown: Eden Prairie, MN

    Comment:

    Great story! We are so excited to watch the race and we have our money on Mike & Mel. The racers need not only amazing energy but quick minds. No one has more energy or a quicker mind than Mel. He will do the amazing race in an amazing way ... just as he has done his activism all these years. We are grateful for all he has done to see the day of equality for our gay son. It will be a joy to cheer him on each week.

  • Name: David Watson
    Date posted: 2/11/2009 2:16:00 PM
    Hometown: Seattle WA

    Comment:

    Thanks Mel for “Stranger at the Gate”, it's help to understand why I can’t stand phony people hiding behind God’s skirt in her name.

  • Name: Tom Kidd
    Date posted: 2/11/2009 10:00:00 AM
    Hometown: Decatur, Illinois

    Comment:

    I'll REALLY be watching this season's Amazing Race. You go, Mel & Mike!!!

  • Name: Eric P.
    Date posted: 2/10/2009 11:57:00 PM
    Hometown: Pasadena, CA

    Comment:

    We are so fortunate to have a role model like the Rev. Mel White for today's GLBT young people.

  • Name: Rick
    Date posted: 2/10/2009 11:53:00 PM
    Hometown: Bellingham, WA

    Comment:

    Mike White is Mel White's son? Which means Mike's formative years occurred when Mel was composing speeches for Jerry Falwell while suffering his own private agony. Wow. Suddenly I understand why Mike has such a sharp eye for the looniness of American culture (i.e., "The Good Girl,""Freaks & Geeks," "Cracking Up" et cetera).



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