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Are You Ready to Say "I'm Gay"?

Casting producer Adam Drucker and Showtime are looking for people who are ready to come out of the closet on television on the new series Way Out.


From the creative team behind A&E’s Intervention comes Way Out , a show that hopes to help people who are still closeted come out to family, friends, coworkers, and, in the process, anyone with a subscription to Showtime. But casting producer Adam Drucker says that unlike most reality shows that find entertainment in people’s pain, Way Out is really about helping families come together. Drucker sat down with Advocate.com in the hopes of finding a few good people to film the show’s pilot episode.

Advocate.com:When word first broke that Showtime is producing a show about helping people come out to their families and friends, gay people were understandably skeptical. But hearing that it was from the same team that produces Intervention sort of softened the blow. How did working on Intervention prepare you for this show?
Adam Drucker: I worked on Intervention in the first season. Working on that show was incredibly rewarding. Initially, when they first approached me with Intervention, I had some skepticism. Would it be exploitive? I wanted to make sure their goal was in no way, shape, or form to exploit people’s pain for entertainment. My argument was this: Do these stories need to be televised? But I found that you help an enormous amount of people if you show these stories, and Intervention was my first exposure to the power of something like this.

With Way Out, it all depends on the execution and the people we find –- finding people who absolutely want to take part in this. We don’t want anyone who’s even remotely unwilling.

I’m sure you heard from a lot of people, "Why do we need a show about coming out?"
Oh yeah, people said, "Come on, were sort of past the coming-out story." My response … and what I've seen…is that as much as we are trying to reach a gay audience, we’re trying to reach an audience that’s universal. While the idea of a coming-out show might be trite to certain communities of gay people, it's still not understood by the masses. Prop. 8 shows us that. The choice is not whether or not you choose to be gay, it’s whether or not you choose to come out. That’s a much easier choice in places like Los Angeles, San Francisco, and New York.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Christopher Bailey
    Date posted: 2/16/2009 7:13:00 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    YES, I am interested. I would love to have the opportunity to educate and illuminate issues. Every person created adds something to this world! I would love to share my view point. This would be a fantastic idea, especially now that Obama is President and has promised to help us as American Citizens because we are Americans like any other subgroup and a part of this country's history and fabric.

  • Name: Jude Bienvenu
    Date posted: 2/9/2009 10:55:00 AM
    Hometown: Falls Church, VA

    Comment:

    I checked out the website, they only want folks within a 150 mile radius of Los Angeles. Now, while I can completely understand this, in terms of their production costs, I would submit that LA might be one of the better regions in the country to come out in. What about a small town in Louisiana (where I'm from)? The Deep South? The Midwest? If the purpose is to help folks, maybe they should try to spread it around, nationally, a bit more. Oh, and by the way, I was looking because I'm trans, and planning to come out in June-August to everyone and transition at work. The show's website clearly stated "lesbians and gays". Thanks a lot.

  • Name: anto
    Date posted: 2/8/2009 2:32:00 PM
    Hometown: dublin

    Comment:

    gowd how I hate reality sludge tv, and this just makes feel sick, why o why do people go on these things, are we not more than this type of tripe offers, what ever happened to proper tv, bring back repeats of the Golden Girls, Ab Fab, all I can say is RUN FOR YOUR LIVES, anto

  • Name: Donna Messier
    Date posted: 2/8/2009 1:06:00 PM
    Hometown: Lewiston

    Comment:

    I think this is a wonderful idea for a reality tv show. I'm 58 years old and I only came fully out of the closet last year, but there is no way I would have stayed out if it hadn't been for an on line support group for lesbians just coming out that I joined. I'm sure that I would have jumped back into the closet if it were not for that group. And, I really liked what Shirley Drouin had to say in her comment about us just being normal, every day people. That support group I joined not only helped me with my coming out issues, but with the very painful stuff around some recent deaths in my family. I'm so glad that you are not going to make it a "Jerry Springer" type show. If your show is going to be as you describe it, I will even upgrade my cable to receive Showtime. I totally support the idea of a real down to earth type show where we homosexuals can just live openly in society without turning any heads. We are still normal human beings after all.

  • Name: John
    Date posted: 2/7/2009 8:10:00 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    I'm in the industry and want to WORK on this show!!!!!

  • Name: Shirley Drouin
    Date posted: 2/7/2009 1:55:00 PM
    Hometown: Paducah, Ky.

    Comment:

    Personally I think if the Straights could see a wide range of relatively well functioning gay people who are decent neighbors, family members, co-workers and friends, they have a chance to open up hearts and minds in a positive way. All too often, we are maligned and marginalized due to unchallenged lies and ignorant bigotry. The so called Rev. Fred Phelps comes to mind. This man is totally EVIL!! My Partner and I will be 70 & 72 years old in a few months . Been together 47 years. We are a solid couple. We worked all our lives, paid our taxes, gave to the less fortunate, served our country and try to help our straight neighbors and our gay friends. We ask nothing except to live our lives in peace. We would gladly go on this show to try to enlighten people. And coming out in Kentucky is no easy task!!

  • Name: Wolf
    Date posted: 2/7/2009 10:54:00 AM
    Hometown: Tallahassee Florida

    Comment:

    Having come out on National Television myself, I can tell you it is scary at first. Although I would do it again as it did have a profound effect on my well being and how I viewed life after

  • Name: Harry
    Date posted: 2/6/2009 9:51:00 PM
    Hometown: Brooklyn, NY

    Comment:

    If the producers get willing participation, they won't get much drama. If someone is living a fairly open gay life -- certainly if he or she is living with a partner -- family and friends know this person is gay, even if they don't admit it. Also, the show seems to be targeting an older demographic. Among the 20- and 30-somethings I know, being gay is a totally unremarkable fact, like being left-handed.

  • Name: Allen White
    Date posted: 2/6/2009 4:18:00 PM
    Hometown: San Francisco, California

    Comment:

    Placing something so sensitive as coming out in the hands of reality tv show producers is the act of a fool.

  • Name: parker
    Date posted: 2/6/2009 11:27:00 AM
    Hometown: wichits

    Comment:

    This was done in the United Kingdom in the late 1980s. Forget what the show was called but it was youth orientated and was on gay pride day or something like that. Premise was teens coming out to their friends and families. never got the shock value that was intended.



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