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Keeping It Real

Before everyone arrived... before names had even been exchanged, members of The Real World: Cancún cast asked the gay question. They knew there was one among them -- and his name is Derek Chavez.


Before everyone arrived, before all eight beds were claimed, and before names had been exchanged, members of The Real World: Cancún cast asked the gay question. They knew there was one among them. This year (the season kicks off on MTV Wednesday), Derek Chavez says he's anything but a token, for-your-entertainment gay. After taking a four-month break from earning his kinesiology degree at Arizona State University, the 21-year-old speaks of each real world -- the taped and the almost ordinary.

What motivated you to apply for this season?
It's something that I've always wanted to do when I was younger and growing up in a small town. TV was one of the only things you could do without getting into trouble. I've always watched MTV. After moving to Phoenix for school, I was offered the opportunity [to try out]. I was actually going to try out for the Hollywood season, but I was really sick and didn't go. Then all of a sudden, my roommate got an invitation to try for Real World 22. The line was about a mile long. When I was down there, I didn't think they would pick me because I was sick and didn't sound good. But as soon as they called me back from the first interview, I got my hopes up again and really wanted to do it again. If I did get picked for this experience, I just wanted to share my side of the story.

I'm not your stereotypical gay guy. I like to play sports; I'd rather go hang out at a straight club or do stuff outdoors.

How did you approach the tradition of having at least one gay housemate? Did you feel a need to set yourself apart from the others?
Yeah, I just wasn't going to go inside the house and say, "I'm the gay guy." I wanted the other people to see if they could figure out that I am gay. There were some suspicions going in; but when I told everyone, they said, "OK, we have a gay guy."

First off, I thought I was going into a house where people were uncomfortable or not used to having a gay person in their lives. I was going in with a wall up just to save myself for four months so I wouldn't be uncomfortable.

Describe your feelings on the flight to Cancú;n -- the quiet time when you got to think.
It was nerve-wracking. From the moment Jonna [a friend from home who, against standard Real World operating procedure, was also cast] and I left, a producer made sure we didn't talk to each other. I had time to think by myself, and all I kept saying was, "Derek, your life is going to change from this point on. The minute you land, this is going to start. It's going to provide opportunities to you." I was nervous, but at the same time, very excited and eager to see what was going to happen.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Paul
    Date posted: 6/30/2009 4:30:00 AM
    Hometown: Orange

    Comment:

    Get over it. Derek is a great guy. I have met him and he is awesome. When he says role model he wants to be there for someone who is scared to be themselves. He wants young gays to say hey this gay guy is on tv being GAY and everyone is ok with it. I am not sayin everyone in the world will be but Derek is tryin to show young LGBTs that they will be fine. stop hating on him. you all are probably old queens mad because your not on tv or in the spotlight. He may not sound the masculine type but he is faaaaaar from queen. he is very intelligent and well-spoken. People would be lucky to have him as a friend. He holds his own with any situation and i would be lucky to look up to him if i was a homosexual man. Give Derek a chance to see that he is a great guy and someone that and LGBT can relate to.

  • Name: J.Sean
    Date posted: 6/27/2009 12:42:00 PM
    Hometown: The Bay

    Comment:

    HAHA aw...i really did not get too offended by him saying he is not the stereotypical gay guy. I understand what he means. But I overall like this season. They seem fun so far.........

  • Name: Issac
    Date posted: 6/26/2009 1:56:00 AM
    Hometown: Logan Ut

    Comment:

    "I am not you typical gay guy" Amazing, and he is the person I should be taking advice from or follow his example? sorry I wont do that..

  • Name: josh
    Date posted: 6/25/2009 3:42:00 PM
    Hometown: michigan

    Comment:

    ok a role model on mtv thats what we need to show how evil we all are and how all we do is try to turn str8 men gay not that there str8 if we do this however lets i ont know stop making this a thing about whos str8 or gay and just live our lives hes gay big deal why dose that mean he gets to be a role model maybe we should lok up to good people str8 or gay and not wine when tv dosnt have enough gay men on it, personal i like gay men i just dont like them to be talling the world that its so great to be gay not that it isnt just we dont need to put it in peoples faces and go this is what gay is everyone is diffrent and so are gay men lets just live with that fact and stop putting young men out there as our spokesmen or "Role Model"

  • Name: Phillip Hardy
    Date posted: 6/25/2009 2:51:00 PM
    Hometown: Las Vegas

    Comment:

    How about a Real World... where everyone is gay... or maybe one straight cast member of the house? Now there's a thought!

  • Name: Eric M
    Date posted: 6/25/2009 2:57:00 AM
    Hometown: Columbia, SC

    Comment:

    Can we just call him 'Token'? It doesnt matter what his name is or what HE thinks his role is - he IS the token gay guy. That's how MTV rolls.... hell - just from looking at his picture, he looks like one of those stereotypical gay people that he says hes not - the ones that say the long drawn out hey ('heeeeeyyyyyyy') with the limp wristed wave.

  • Name: viking
    Date posted: 6/24/2009 10:37:00 PM
    Hometown: Long Beach

    Comment:

    "I'm not your typical gay guy." I'm so glad you can "pass." So, Derek, just what IS your concept of a "typical gay guy"? You got some stereotypes going there? Are you ashamed of those stereotypes? If you're not, then why deny them? "It's OK to be gay as long as you're not one of those stereotypical types." Great role model. NOT.

  • Name: Nick
    Date posted: 6/24/2009 5:58:00 PM
    Hometown: Joliet IL

    Comment:

    WHO CARE'S

  • Name: RR
    Date posted: 6/24/2009 4:34:00 PM
    Hometown: Richmond

    Comment:

    Ok great- another gay guy on The Real World (cast number 22!! for God's sake)- what a shock! How Risky! What a groundbreaking situation! Let's hope he turns out to be a nice guy who has some personal character and will make being gay look good rather than vapid. I am sick of gay guys who say they aren't "typical" gay guys. Proves we are still fighting our own stereotype. Having said that and having just watched the video clips, this kid is far from "masculine" (unless you are in WEHO) but that should be ok.

  • Name: K
    Date posted: 6/24/2009 3:57:00 PM
    Hometown: San Antonio, Texas

    Comment:

    Why do we need role models? Seriously. We should think for ourselves in this instance. Is having an openly gay guy on MTV going to stop a suicidal gay teenager? And stop gay teenagers from committing suicide or being self destructive is important. What exactly does having an openly gay person on MTV do for any gay person, other than sell more merchandise? I'm not trying to be mean, and maybe it's %5 "good" that there are gay role models on cable, but when everyone says something is good, you can bet something's wrong, somewhere.



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