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The Real Wendy

Wendy Williams is known for using gay catchphrases and dressing like a drag queen (her words). But a drag queen in the studio audience of her TV show? That's a completely different story.



Erickatoure Aviance. Photo by Wilson Models.

Radio shock jock Wendy Williams, a self-proclaimed "Queen of All Media," is known for her bold fashions, big wigs, and even bigger attitude. But when it comes to her new syndicated daytime talk show, The Wendy Williams Show , that sassy sense of style appears strictly reserved for biological women.

A longtime fan of Williams, drag performer Erickatoure Aviance attended a Wednesday, August 12, taping of The Wendy Williams Show in New York with gay singer-songwriter Adam Joseph and gay entertainer Jonny McGovern, star of Logo's The Big Gay Sketch Show .

"I decided to get dressed for Wendy because I thought she'd appreciate it," says Aviance, a fixture of New York City nightlife for the last decade. "It wasn't anything outlandish: It was a black baby-doll dress, heels, tights, and standard makeup -- not even anything sparkly. It was very demure, especially for me."

While standing in line outside the studio Wednesday morning, the group was approached by a female intern who noted the fact that Aviance was a drag queen. "She took my name down, so we thought we were about to get VIP treatment," Aviance recalls. "After another hour we got to the door, and there's this little white man standing there giving us the eyeball. He gets in our way to prevent us from going in, and he says, 'You're in violation of our no-costumes dress code. We usually don't do this, but we know you've been waiting out there for a while, so we're going to let you in. But you can't appear on camera, and if you get up for Hot Topics or try to ask Wendy a question, you'll be removed from the building.'

"I said, 'This is not a costume.' And he said, 'Well, it's a costume to us.' When Jonny asked him the reason behind the policy, he said, 'We don't want the show to turn into Let's Make a Deal , where everyone comes in crazy costumes.' I was like, 'So you're comparing me to a man in a gorilla suit?'

"It's not like I was wearing a big purple wig," Aviance continues. "I was wearing a ponytail piece and a bang piece. It was much less hair than Wendy was wearing and, p.s., much less hair than any of the other black women in the audience. There were big blond bouffants, lots of church makeup, party dresses, blue mohawks -- and I'm made to feel like some sort of clown? No, it definitely wasn't about what I was wearing. It was because I was a man in a dress. For someone who appropriates so much gay culture, you'd think Wendy's policies would be a little more celebratory of the community."

McGovern adds, "It was shady. We all thought Wendy would get a kick out of it." He immediately complained about the incident on his Facebook page.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Talie
    Date posted: 8/22/2009 12:19:00 PM
    Hometown: NYC

    Comment:

    Nothing about the outfit would have been considered inappropriate had it been worn by a woman. She wasn't wearing wings or bunny ears, she was wearing a dress and I'm sure she looked beautiful. I'm a straight woman and I sometimes wear dresses and sometimes pants. I have definitely worn a suit with a tie, and to work, where I'm definitely not allowed to wear a costume, but noone seems to mind when a woman dresses a little masculine. Definitely never been a problem. We live in a city where we are encouraged to express ourselves thru fashion. Would anyone have turned away an Irishman with a kilt? Wendy should definitely apologize on behalf of her show. She shouldn't piss off the few fans she has.

  • Name: drips
    Date posted: 8/21/2009 12:51:00 PM
    Hometown: NYC

    Comment:

    I agree that this article would have done well to include a photo of the outfit Ms. Aviance wore that day. Nonetheless, I think it's pretty apparent that this is a case of discrimination. If her outfit was deemed inappropriate then why would they first approach her and confirm that she was indeed a man? Otherwise it would be a simple matter of stating that her clothing did not fit the guidelines. The trickery involved paints the picture of trans discrimination. I am a straight guy and am absolutely appalled by this incident. I say "Sue the bastards!"

  • Name: Ogho32
    Date posted: 8/20/2009 12:46:00 PM
    Hometown: Philadelphia, PA

    Comment:

    From what I've heard on Ericka's spot on the Gay Pimpin' with Jonny Mcgovern podcast, is that from the standpoint of Ericka and her crew, they weren't so much offended by the policy as how it was enforced. Had the producers of the show not dealt with the situation in the underhanded and offensive fashion that they did, Ericka probably would have been more understanding of their decisions concerning her admittance and seating.

  • Name: ArtNOLA
    Date posted: 8/18/2009 5:06:00 PM
    Hometown: New Orleans

    Comment:

    I went to the Wendy Williams Show website and it clearly states (in bold writing): "Absolutely no hats, sunglasses, costumes, shirts with logos/writing, shorts, or casual tank tops will be permitted." Being that Erickatoure Aviance is a drag queen, and does not dress like that normally, it is a costume. She even said "I decided to get dressed for Wendy because I thought she'd appreciate it," that essentially admits that she was wearing a "costume". I would bet that Wendy has no idea what is going on outside or in the audience prior to the beginning of the show. The tickets to any television show are free, and they get to make their own rules, and as long as those rules are equally enforced there is no discrimination. I honestly don't understand what she is complaining about; they let her into the taping. She was there to watch the show, not be the center of attention. It's the Wendy Williams Show not the Erickatoure Aviance Show.

  • Name: MKGirl
    Date posted: 8/18/2009 12:22:00 PM
    Hometown: Burlington, NC

    Comment:

    Was Wendy ever a man?

  • Name: Jayce
    Date posted: 8/18/2009 1:20:00 AM
    Hometown: Jacksonville Fl

    Comment:

    @whilome actually black girls get the comments from black gay men.... don't get THAT twisted

  • Name: John
    Date posted: 8/17/2009 10:58:00 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    Reading these homophopbic comments by the black community on here perfectly illustrates why there's so much bigotry shown by the black community toward gays. I'm sick and tired of hearing the very same people who cry about being discriminated go and be the first ones to discriminate. No longer should the gay community stand for any type of discrimination, ESPECIALLY from those who know what it feels like to be discriminated. NO LONGER!

  • Name: Rick
    Date posted: 8/17/2009 8:04:00 PM
    Hometown: Boston

    Comment:

    what are you talking about - no two sides? they contacted the show and got a statement telling their side of the story. and they refer you here to another interview where wendy herself talks about how she feels about drag queens. sooo... i'd say that both sides are represented here. what more do you want? and yes, you've said it before and said it again... you've made your point. so hush now. we get it.

  • Name: ArtNOLA
    Date posted: 8/17/2009 2:41:00 PM
    Hometown: New Orleans

    Comment:

    I have said it before and I will say it again. Why do we always jump to the conclusion that we are being "discriminated against" for being gay without having all of the facts? I would like to see a picture of how she was dressed, before I pass my own judgment. As a gay man I am ashamed at how the gay community has become so reactionary without even hearing both sides of the story. Sometimes after hearing both sides we will still automatically say that the "straight establishment" is lying or trying to back pedal and cover up for discriminating against us. Yes gay discrimination definitely exists but it is possible that sometimes it isn't discrimination, and we just fell outside of a rule or policy. We will never get the equality we want and deserve if we keep reacting like this to everything, without getting both sides of the story.

  • Name: Mary
    Date posted: 8/17/2009 2:18:00 PM
    Hometown: Fullerton, CA

    Comment:

    I thought Wendy Williams was a drag queen.

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