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Side of Guac With Your Hate? 

L.A. eatery El Coyote, long known for attracting a heavily LGBT client base, is facing the heat now that bloggers have revealed one of the managers, who is a niece of the original owners, had donated to the pro-Proposition 8 campaign. El Coyote's answer: a free lunch/press conference giving her a forum to explain her decision. But the 70-some people in attendance were none too pleased with what they heard. Is a boycott the answer? 


The El Coyote Mexican café has been a staple of the Los Angeles restaurant scene for seven decades. Not too far from gay ground zero West Hollywood, the kitschy decor and cheap margaritas have been drawing customers for decades, particularly members of the LGBT community, who flock to the restaurant’s unofficial gay Thursdays for drinks and food.

But on Wednesday morning it wasn’t about enchilada plate specials. El Coyote opened its doors early to host about 70 opponents of Proposition 8, many of whom had been longtime customers. Marjorie Christoffersen -- a manager, regular fixture at the restaurant, and the niece of the original owner -- was revealed by bloggers and a local food website to be a $100 donor to the Yes on 8 campaign.

After getting hundreds of angry e-mails and phone calls, El Coyote staff invited customers to a free lunch with Christoffersen to explain her position. In the restaurant's back dining room, a visibly shaken and tearful Christoffersen trembled as she read from a prepared statement.

“I’m sick at heart if I offended anyone in the gay community,” Christoffersen said as family members flanked her. She pleaded with the crowd not to boycott the restaurant, telling them the only people to get hurt are the families of the El Coyote’s 89 employees. “This was a personal donation,” she said, “not the El Coyote’s.

“It saddens me that my faith may keep you away from the El Coyote,” she added.

But the press conference quickly went south when people in the crowd began asking questions. A man identifying himself as an ex-member of the Mormon Church asked if Marjorie was willing to donate to No on 8.

She started crying before saying... "I will not."

Chaos ensued, the crowd erupted -- many of them calling for a full on boycott of the restaurant.

Christoffersen and the employees of El Coyote are in the cross hairs of the next phase of the Prop. 8 protests. Will LGBTs punish businesses that espoused support for the passage of the marriage ban?

One of the restaurant’s managers, identifying himself as Bill, said he was upset by the reaction and the potential loss of loyal customers, but noted that so far business had “not at all” suffered since the news broke of Christoffersen’s donation. But Bill explained that the restaurant was making a donation to Lambda Legal and another LGBT-related charity, in support of what is expected to be a lengthy court battle over Prop. 8.

The debate on what to do continued after Christoffersen finished her remarks. A brief question-and-answer period deteriorated into a shouting match between some of the Prop. 8 opponents and Christoffersen. Her family then hustled her out of the restaurant.

One regular customer suggested Christoffersen didn’t understand what she had done. “We have to be compassionate,” he said.

Another Prop. 8 opponent disagreed, saying Christoffersen “is not taking any responsibility for how anyone feels.”

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Marc
    Date posted: 11/17/2008 7:54:00 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    The manager has ever right to donate money to whomever she chooses and I have every right to not to support an establishment that I choose. End of discussion! Marc Ex El Coyote patron of 30 years

  • Name: Gary R Cohan, M.D.
    Date posted: 11/16/2008 11:24:00 AM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    These hateful people who hide behind their "religion" and who deem it appropriate to quote selective passages from the Bible as a weapon in their culture wars are being faced with enormous embarrassment and a robust -- and thoroughly justified -- backlash. Though they quote Leviticus (20:13) in their self-justifications, whatever to the rest of that sectionor for that matter, what happened to Leviticus 19:18 ? "Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself" It has come as a BIG surprise to many closeted bigots-in-business who gladly take "gay dollars" on a daily basis to now see their names in print and their places of business being boycotted by the gay community for betraying their gay patrons. Boycotts and non-violent protests are legendaryily effective -- just think Gandhi and MLK. Our demands for full civil rights are non negotiable.

  • Name: Jeffrey
    Date posted: 11/15/2008 3:52:00 PM
    Hometown: Mount Vernon

    Comment:

    If the restaurant is giving to Lambda to support overturning the ban, and it truly was just a personal donation of one person, then I have to say that a boycott would probably do more harm to our community than good. About 10 years ago, we had a similar situation where I live, but the difference was the restaurant owner posted political signs supporting an antigay initiative in our state. We chose to boycott in this case, but the situation at El Coyote is different. It sounds like this is a predominatly gay-friendly business that employs gay and lesbian workers. Maybe it would be more productive if the community supports this business and continues communicating with the manager who is probably just doing what her priest tells her to do on Sunday morning. Maybe we can change her heart without hurting gay and gay friendly workers.

  • Name: Bill Wall
    Date posted: 11/15/2008 2:29:00 PM
    Hometown: Denver, CO

    Comment:

    I can understand a person having and acting on their personal convictions, but if one is in the public eye or owns a public business, then one must be prepared to accept responsibility for those actions. If the restaurant was here in Denver, we would definitely boycott.

  • Name: Allan
    Date posted: 11/15/2008 1:43:00 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    Hey Bob: It is plain to the average person that you are naive. Do you hate blacks? Do you hate hetersexuals? It most likely comes from an internal disdain for yourself. I can assure you that you are simply attempting to rationalize your own juvenile and selfish agenda. I respect your right and that of the homosexuals to protest with civility. However, I would imagine that if the protests continue to escalate, the conservative population, both black and white will turn against you in ways you cannot even comprehend. Why don't you go into the black communities and protest? You are aware that 70% voted to support Prop 8, yet you don't rally and rant in their neighborhoods. We both know why...it would not be healthy for you.

  • Name: Timothy
    Date posted: 11/15/2008 1:35:00 PM
    Hometown: Dana Point

    Comment:

    To the homosexuals - how narcissistic, self-absorbed, vain, egotisical, and narrow minded. Get over it! The discussion and debate is not whether you were born having physical attraction to the same-sex, but whether you CHOOSE to act on those feelings. So please, quit playing the victim and the martyr, you don't want equal rights, you want SPECIAL rights so you can assuage your feelings and justify your behavior.

  • Name: Bob
    Date posted: 11/14/2008 5:56:00 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    Allan writes: What a bunch of mean-spirited, spiteful, spoiled, little brats you are who take the position of hate. Quit throwing your tantrums. The election is over and you lost the vote by a majority of the population of California. Boy, it's a good thing those blacks in Alabama and Mississippi and Texas and everywhere else in the South didn't just "quit throwing tantrums" when they were discriminated against, huh, Allan? Or do you hate blacks and much as you hate gays? Honestly, are you so naive to believe that gays would just quietly accept bigotry, hate, and discrimination? Are we really supposed to just accept that businesses take our money and use it to discriminate against us? Are we really supposed to just let bigots suppress our rights without fighting back? So very naive.

  • Name: Ray T. Daniels
    Date posted: 11/14/2008 5:45:00 PM
    Hometown: Washington, DC

    Comment:

    I believe in using my money to support those that support me. I have said many times over that we are financing our own oppression. If we make this an economic decision, we will rapidly see how long people's "faith" lasts. But, if we really want to see legislation change, why not boycott the wedding industry? Stop doing bridal hair and makeup. Stop playing the organ and singing solos. Stop attending and buying gifts for those who deny you. The message will be delivered loud and clear. Those who are in alliance with you, will understand and not be offended.

  • Name: Barbara Karlin
    Date posted: 11/14/2008 5:05:00 PM
    Hometown: Boston

    Comment:

    I believe everyone has a right to believe as they will, and I believe I have the right to not support any business or person in return. So, if your 'faith' encourages you to be against a person's right to equal marriage under the law, my belief system tells me to boycott your business, performance, etc.

  • Name: Barbara Karlin
    Date posted: 11/14/2008 5:00:00 PM
    Hometown: Boston

    Comment:

    I think everyone has a right to believe as they will....and we have a right to not do business or in any way support them in return. People should be held accountable for their actions. So, feel free to honor your 'faith' and I'll feel free to boycott your place of business.

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