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Connecticut Gets Married 

This weekend, all 50 states participated in protests against the passing of antigay legislation in California, Arizona, Arkansas, and Florida. Gays and lesbians in Connecticut protested too, but they also had reason to celebrate. Last week, same-sex marriages got under way throughout the state.


Amid the roses and balloons, and the tears and cheers of joy, gay men and lesbian couples married in Connecticut last Wednesday -- the first day that same-sex marriages became legal there.

Barbara Levine-Ritterman of New Haven, Conn., and her partner of more than 16 years, Robin, were one of the eight couples who sued the state in 2004 after they were refused marriage licenses.

And so it was especially fitting that they were the first same-sex couple to obtain a marriage license Wednesday morning from New Haven City Hall -- only minutes after superior court judge Jonathan Silbert entered final judgment on the case just a few blocks away across town.

“It made me proud,” Levine-Ritterman said, adding that when she and Robin filed for a civil union three years ago, they were required to stand in a separate line from those who were seeking marriage licenses.

But she said it “felt very different” on Wednesday when the two women stood in the same line as every other couple -- straight or same-gendered.

“I’m proud that Connecticut is my home,” Levine-Ritterman said.

Connecticut became the third state in the nation to legalize marriage equality on October 10 -- joining California and Massachusetts -- after its supreme court ruled that denying gay couples the right to marry violated the state’s constitution.

Earlier this month voters in California passed Proposition 8, amending the state’s constitution to prohibit same-sex marriage. The state’s supreme court had ruled in May that denying gay and lesbian couples the right to marry violated the constitution.

Previously, Connecticut only afforded same-sex couples the recognition of civil unions.

But in Kerrigan and Mock et al. v. Connecticut Dept. of Public Health (the department that supervises marriage licensing in Connecticut), Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders, in conjunction with a team of Connecticut-based attorneys, argued that the state’s 2005 civil union law failed to provide same-sex couples with the equal protection guaranteed under Connecticut’s constitution.

Ben Klein, the senior GLAD lawyer who argued the marriage case before the court, said usually when final judgment is entered on a decision, it is done with little fanfare and generally handled by the court’s clerks.

But on Wednesday morning, he said, Judge Silbert chose to read aloud and then sign the ruling during an open court hearing -- an event that was attended by all eight plaintiff couples; Connecticut’s attorney general, Richard Blumenthal; and numerous gay marriage supporters and members of the press.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Wayne Sinclair
    Date posted: 11/20/2008 1:50:00 PM
    Hometown: Washington, DC

    Comment:

    Come on Advocate - "This weekend, all 50 states participated . . . Once again we forget those of us in Washington, DC where a large protest was held. Most articles say, "All 50 states and the District of Columbia . . ." Past atricles in the Advocate have reported that we have the second highest per centage of LGBT population of any city.

  • Name: Joe
    Date posted: 11/19/2008 11:29:00 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    Eric, I hope that you are not a young man. You have no heart. I don't think anyone could be as cold as to come on this website on such a wonderful occasion for people in your state and try to dampen their joy. What is so wrong in your life? I am very happy for all of the gay couples in Connecticuit. Please always be happy and never forget the joy you feel on that wedding day. May we all get the right soon! Love and Happiness always and forever.

  • Name: Eric
    Date posted: 11/18/2008 8:32:00 PM
    Hometown: Griswold

    Comment:

    I live in Connecticut, and I voted for a constitutional amendment to define marriage as between man and woman. I was outnumbered, but I have found that many individuals do not understand why I chose not to support gay marriage. The problem is purely scientific, as I have no personal bias against gay, lesbian, or transgendered people. There is a natural need to ensure successful reproduction of the human species. Unfortunately, homosexual individuals usually cannot successfully reproduce. The common presumption that there will be always be heterosexuals to reproduce is false. If it is true that homosexuality is not a "choice,” as homosexuals commonly argue, but rather a "disease" or "condition,” then it is indeed possible for homosexuals to one day outnumber heterosexuals and create a major problem for the continuation of humans. Unfortunately, being tolerant and allowing gay marriage only expedites this growing problem by encouraging the young generation to become gay.

  • Name: Bev Wilson
    Date posted: 11/18/2008 11:36:00 AM
    Hometown: Saylorsburg, PA

    Comment:

    Does any one know if you have to live in Connecticut to get married?

  • Name: janice
    Date posted: 11/18/2008 8:08:00 AM
    Hometown: new Haven

    Comment:

    I am so fortunate to live in this state. My partner and I will marry on Feb 14!

  • Name: LETICIA
    Date posted: 11/17/2008 8:01:00 PM
    Hometown: CALI

    Comment:

    IM MOVING TO CONNECTICUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Name: Brian
    Date posted: 11/17/2008 7:09:00 PM
    Hometown: Anahiem, CA

    Comment:

    My marriage was nullified here in California due to Prop H8. I am soooooo happy for the couples in Connecticut, may you all enjoy your freedom to marry the one that you love. Wish I could be there! Congratulations and a life time of love and happiness to you all.



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