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The Road to Equality

Barbara Boxer, the U.S. senator from California, understands why her gay constituents are furious over Rick Warren's role in the inauguration -- it feels like Proposition 8 redux.


In recent days, I have been overwhelmed by the number of Californians who are excited and hopeful about the change that is coming to Washington and our nation. I have also heard from many of my constituents who are upset about the inclusion of pastor Rick Warren in the presidential inaugural ceremonies.

As someone who saw, firsthand, the way the passage of Proposition 8 in California personally affected those who have struggled so long and so hard for equal rights, this controversy is understandable.

Proposition 8 overturned a California supreme court decision -- eloquent in its simplicity -- that made clear that California's constitution protects a fundamental right to marry that extends to same-sex couples. Chief Justice Ronald George, a Republican, made a strong legal case as to why setting up a different set of marriage rules is akin to setting up a different set of rules for people based on race or gender.

My views on marriage equality have evolved over time. At one point, I did think it was possible to substitute civil unions for marriage as long as couples had the same rights and responsibilities as everyone else under the law. But, as the California supreme court found, in order for full equality to exist for all of our people, you cannot have different standards when it comes to making the lifelong commitment to honor and love.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: gene
    Date posted: 1/12/2009 11:18:00 PM
    Hometown: Hallandale, Florida

    Comment:

    I thought there was supposed to be a separation of church and state. Why does the country condone any of this hocus pocus religious spook show stuff at the inauguration of a President. But then, I'm just an atheist. Maybe the religous right is right. Maybe all us gays are all going to hell. It'd be a lot better than going to wherever Rick Warren and his followers will be.

  • Name: William H Kavanah
    Date posted: 1/11/2009 1:39:00 PM
    Hometown: Tarrytown, NY

    Comment:

    Frankly, I'm just as upset that there will be an invocation as I am that Rick Warren has been invited to deliver it. I am no happier that there is a benediction no matter who delivers it. I look forward with great expectations to the poetry of Elizabeth Alexander and, of course, to the Obama speach itself. I expect great things from Barak Obama. When history is written and future generations of LGBT families look back to our time, no one will remember Rick Warren. Hopefully sooner than later.

  • Name: TBH
    Date posted: 1/10/2009 12:35:00 PM
    Hometown: La Mesa, CA

    Comment:

    Dear Timothy from Dana Point, It's quite clear you have a problem with your index finger...posting your hateful message multiple times. It's bad enough you posted it at all. I wonder how you would feel if some form of discrimination was directed at you? I'm sure you would feel totally different.

  • Name: David
    Date posted: 1/10/2009 9:30:00 AM
    Hometown: Athens, GA

    Comment:

    Following the Rick Warren selection, Mr. Obama responded: "We’re not going to agree on every single issue, but what we have to do is to be able to create an atmosphere where we can disagree without being disagreeable. That’s part of the magic of this country, is that we are diverse and noisy and opinionated.” Our single, solitary question needs to be: "Would you have chosen – in the spirit of diversity, noisiness, and being opinionated – a minister to deliver the inaugural invocation who had equated the marriage of a black man and a white woman with pedophilia and incest?"

  • Name: Channing
    Date posted: 1/9/2009 9:10:00 PM
    Hometown: Sacramento

    Comment:

    I so totally agree with you. My partner and I would move to Europe or Canada in a hearbeat if we could. It so upsets me and drains any 'patriotism' I had that the USA is supposed to be all about freedom and equality; yet, it is so far from the truth when it comes to gay people. After the passing of Prop 8 in of all places, California, I realized this country doesn't want me here and I don't want to be here anymore. I'm tired of paying outrageous taxes to a government that could care less about me and treats me like a second class citizen.

  • Name: Jamie
    Date posted: 1/9/2009 8:55:00 PM
    Hometown: Columbus

    Comment:

    Jim Wallis, the editor of Sojourners, was mentioned by one of the commenters here. He's also who I thought of when I thought of an alternative to Rick Warren. Rick Warren is like the Holiday Inn of evangelicals--the room that looks comfy, practical and familiar. He's made millions being a pop culture guy. Anyone whose work is something that can be condensed on a day by day desk calendar with tear off pages has commercial written all over him or her. Jim Wallis, on the other hand is a person who asks people to think. He's not as well known. He isn't as good looking as Rick Warren, perhaps. Rick Warren attracts the masses. Warren is a lousy decision. If there's a bully in your child's classroom, would you invite him to the birthday party and give him a place of honor--or the kid who is inclusive?

  • Name: Richard Myracle
    Date posted: 1/9/2009 8:44:00 PM
    Hometown: Wilmington NC

    Comment:

    Typical politician wallpaper!

  • Name: Harry Weston
    Date posted: 1/9/2009 6:59:00 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    From About.com: "Although Barack Obama has said that he supports civil unions, he is against gay marriage. In an interview with the Chicago Daily Tribune, Obama said, "I'm a Christian. And so, although I try not to have my religious beliefs dominate or determine my political views on this issue, I do believe that tradition, and my religious beliefs say that marriage is something sanctified between a man and a woman." He said he would support civil unions between gay and lesbian couples, as well as letting individual states determine if marriage between gay and lesbian couples should be legalized." -- basically he "isn't" for gay marriage and believes our rights should and can be up for a "popular" vote! Until he supports equality meaning federally supported same sex unions of some sort...he isn't really on our side when it comes to us being treated equally with this issue.

  • Name: Jeff
    Date posted: 1/9/2009 6:50:00 PM
    Hometown: Oakland

    Comment:

    Sorry, Babs, not good enough. I got married with a real license from the state, blessings of family, real cakes, a reception dinner, the whole nine yards. Prior to our marriage, my partner and I had a legally-recognized domestic partnership. That legal declaration took no license, just a notary public's signature. It affords us fewer rights, and either of us can end the DP without the consent of the other party through simple one-page form that requires no waiting period. On multiple levels, the voter-mandated reduction in legal status of our relationship to a domestic partnership couldn't be any more "back of the bus." The fact that Barak talks about gays being deserving of equality yet we shouldn't be allowed to marry clearly show's he's just another political opportunist who's mastered the art of talking out of both sides of his mouth. I gave the guy money, but as far as I'm concerned, he might as well be Bush 3.0...

  • Name: Tiffany
    Date posted: 1/9/2009 6:08:00 PM
    Hometown: Ann Arbor

    Comment:

    I find it really revealing that you have the first president who has ever included a non-discrimination statement inclusive of gender identity and sexual orientation in his administration's employment policy and you're getting hung up on something as relatively artificial as Rick Warren giving a prayer. Get your priorities straight. LGBT folks are starting to sound just like the NAACP, who spends more of their activist energies on cosmetic/image-issues than on ones that really effect the lives of people of color--like the prison industrial complex or unequal education. Everytime Barack Obama says he's against gay marriage, I will be the first one to call him on the carpet. But if he's going to help pass ENDA, I will forgive him for Rick Warren a million times over.

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