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I'm Gay and Iraqi: Please Help Me!

The situation for gay Iraqis has never been more dire: With reports of torture, "anal gluing," and murder coming out of the Middle East, is the U.S. surge to blame for this sudden explosion of antigay violence?


COMMENTARY: "I am gay and I am Iraqi, please help me."

A contact of mine told me he came across this comment in an e-mail. The only thing more extraordinary than the message was the location. He was sitting in the U.S. embassy in Baghdad when he read it.

My contact said he was reaching out to me because things were "heating up" for gay men in Iraq. Over the years, he said he'd received several e-mails from gay Iraqis that came through the U.S. embassy's website -- they are a "single source of frustration, because I feel completely helpless and heartbroken reading stories about an Iraqi that is sending an e-mail probably just a few miles from where I am sitting in the embassy, and telling me that there is a militia coming just down the block and they have a list."

I traveled to Baghdad in the summer of 2007, during the height of the U.S. surge, to get a better handle on the situation for gays in Iraq. During my visit I met with a few gay Americans who worked at the embassy, all of whom spoke off-the-record when giving me quotes and providing information.

In recent months, things have certainly been "heating up" -- articles from The New York Times , the BBC, and the Los Angeles Times , as well as many other mainstream and gay publications, point to the horrors of what is happening in Iraq. Each article seems more harrowing than the last, attempting to make sense of something that's hard to fathom for the readers who digest these articles from the comfort and safety of an America where "dont ask, don't tell" and same-sex marriage make up the bulk of news coverage.

Some outlets -- particularly in the gay press -- point to reports by Iraqi LGBT, a London-based activist group reporting that gay men in Iraq are on death row and that they've received a letter from a gay Iraqi pleading for help, all of which has been next to impossible to verify. Others point to the reassertion of power by militias, particularly in Sadr City, a Shia slum within Baghdad where the Mahdi Army has for years engaged in a reign of terror against locals and the U.S. military.

In addition to the direct killings of gay men by the militia was the report of a fire-bombing of a neighborhood café popular among gay men. Still more articles look to the influence of militias in combination with family honor killings -- gay men who have been thrown out into the streets to fend for their safety, or Iraqis who have killed gay family members.

The most disturbing report comes from the Arab-language news source Alarabiya , describing the torture and killing of at least seven gay men who have had their anuses closed using a special glue, with Iraqi officers having forced them to take a medicine inducing diarrhea and death. While the English-language media has conflicting reports on what is happening in Iraq, this report, created by those who speak the language and have the best resources to interview local political and religious officials, gives perhaps the best indication of how terrible the situation has become for LGBT Iraqis.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: ayman
    Date posted: 7/18/2009 6:39:00 AM
    Hometown: yemen sana

    Comment:

    hi i ayman from yemen i gay i botom but i cant do here in yemen anythink i want move from yemen and live liek gay i virgin botom i dont do sex befor u can helep my to live liek gay anay where i need to move thx

  • Name: David P.
    Date posted: 5/3/2009 12:07:00 PM
    Hometown: Maryland

    Comment:

    Yes, America is to be blamed for everything, isn't it. And people say the religious right is irrational....

  • Name: M Danial Brewer
    Date posted: 4/25/2009 11:21:00 PM
    Hometown: Minneapolis

    Comment:

    Want to know another reason the fundamentalists in Iraq feel free to met out this kind of cruelty? Read the current article in Harper's regarding the fundamentalist Christian takeover of the US military. Let's at least clean it up at home first so that refugees from this kind of horror have a truly safe place to come to beside the Scandinavian countries.

  • Name: Roy
    Date posted: 4/25/2009 1:14:00 PM
    Hometown: Milwaukee

    Comment:

    Message to Michael, I wasn't trying to "skew the story" by mentioning the stabbings in Jerusalem. I was trying to make the point that certain individuals within every religion have not modernized. Think of the Catholics, the Mormons, the Angelical Christians, black Muslims, etc. There are many things about Israel that I admire a great deal. My very favorite film director is Eyton Fox. I love Dana International. I do have a problem with Israel's way of dealing with the Palestinians (Operation Cast Lead.) I also think that Islamic Fundmentalists are among the most dangerous people on the planet and have to be neutralized. Killing them only brings more converts to their cause. I am very concerned that once the Palistinians get their homeland Sharia law will prevail. That would be a disaster (for the Palestinian people) beyond anything we have seen so far.

  • Name: Mike
    Date posted: 4/25/2009 6:36:00 AM
    Hometown: Phoenix

    Comment:

    It's so painful to read about the persecution for gay men in Iraq by fellow Muslims and at the same time it's so hurtful to read about the hatred toward Islam by fellow gay men and lesbians. As a Muslim and as a gay man, I have struggled between accepting my sexuality and staying in the religion of my birth; a religion I love so much. I've looked into so many religions and especially Buddhism and they were all great but non of them could satisfy my devotion to God or answer my questions. Yes, let's write letters boycott products, and demonstrate and the most important thing is to pressure our government to give Iraqi gay men and lesbians asylum. But let's not forget that there are gay Muslims out there who their spiritual fulfillment can come only from Islam.

  • Name: Michael
    Date posted: 4/24/2009 9:52:00 PM
    Hometown: New York

    Comment:

    To answer your question Roy 3 gays were mildly stabbed by this fruitcake who will be spending the next 12 years in an Israeli prison for a hate crime. But isn't amazing that gay prides actually take place in Jerusalem? Israel also recognizes gay marraiges from abroad, let's gays openly serve in the military, has a federal law banning gay discrimination and had a transexual- Dana Intenrational- represent the country in the Eurovision in 1998. Also, 80% of Jews voted No on prop 8 in LA County. Stop trying to skew the story. we are concerned about Muslim homophobia that tortures gays and that needs to stop now!

  • Name: Michael
    Date posted: 4/24/2009 9:51:00 PM
    Hometown: New York

    Comment:

    To answer your question Roy 3 gays were mildly stabbed by this fruitcake who will be spending the next 12 years in an Israeli prison for a hate crime. But isn't amazing that gay prides actually take place in Jerusalem? Israel also recognizes gay marraiges from abroad, let's gays openly serve in the military, has a federal law banning gay discrimination and had a transexual- Dana Intenrational- represent the country in the Eurovision in 1998. Also, 80% of Jews voted No on prop 8 in LA County. Stop trying to skew the story. we are concerned about Muslim homophobia that tortures gays and that needs to stop now!

  • Name: Roy
    Date posted: 4/24/2009 7:53:00 PM
    Hometown: Milwaukee

    Comment:

    "Islam needs to reform just like Judaism and Christianity have." This observation makes me laugh. How many gays were recently stabbed by a Jewish nut case at a gay pride parade in Jerusalem?

  • Name: Michael
    Date posted: 4/24/2009 7:08:00 PM
    Hometown: New York

    Comment:

    You guys are speaking like abused women who defend their beating husbands. There are 7 countries where homosexuality is punishable by death ALL OF THEM ARE MUSLIM. In Iran Mahmoud Asgari and Ayaz Marhoni, two teenagers were put to death for being gay. Saudi Arabia constantly kills gay and in Egypt they are incarcerated. Palestinian gays constantly flee to Israel lest they be killed by family members. In the Netherlands and other parts of Europe where gays normally enjoy tolerance they suddenly feel threatened and are constantly beat up by Muslim immigrants who refuse to integrate and are very homophobic. In Georgetown Washington DC, a Muslim from Sudan threw a bottle into a gay man's face and said "in my country you'd be dead". Don't tell me that this happens in every culture/religion. Stop with the political correctness BS and face the facts: Islam needs to reform just like Judaism and Christianity have. Stop Muslim Homophobia NOW!

  • Name: Naahid Johnspoon
    Date posted: 4/24/2009 6:02:00 PM
    Hometown: Somerville, MA

    Comment:

    I'm a transgendered lesbian Muslim woman, and let me clarify: Islam is not about hate. Abuse by excuse of faith is not limited to Islam, it's just very visible at the moment.

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