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D.C. OK's Out-of-state Gay Marriage


The Washington, D.C., city council approved legislation 12-1 that would recognize same-sex marriages legally performed in other states and countries. If signed by Mayor Adrian Fenty, a marriage-equality supporter, the issue would then go to Congress, which has final oversight over the District's laws.

The single vote against the bill was cast by former D.C. mayor Marion Barry, now a council member, who had initially supported the measure. Barry said he had some "very agonizing and difficult conversations" about the issue. "I saw people demonstrating in the streets and I prayed," he said. "I have been a friend of (the LGBT) community and I will continue to be a friend. I don't want this (marriage vote) to be a litmus test, because if it's a litmus test, it's not a true friendship." Barry has marched in pro-LGBT parades, campaigned for LGBT support, and had previously pledged to vote for same-sex marriage when he was running for reelection.

Openly gay city council member David Catania responded, "This is about acknowledging our families as much as we acknowledge yours. If this is an issue of morality, I think it is immoral for you to be my friend on the one hand and on the other say, 'You are not entitled to the same rights and obligations as I am.'" Catania then suggested that saying one supports civil unions or domestic partnerships was just a way of saying, "I'm not that big of a bigot." He later apologized for the comment and clarified that he did not mean council member Barry was a bigot, but that his position was bigoted.

"I am your equal," Catania said. "I get up every day and serve the citizens of this city, just as you, and I deserve everything that you enjoy. I will not stop until I have that for every single resident of this city." Catania is one of two openly gay city council members; Jim Graham is the other.

Council member Yvette Alexander, an African-American woman who described herself as a Christian, noted that the Stonewall Democrats' D.C. chapter, the Gertrude Stein Democratic Club, had endorsed her based on the totality of her record in spite of the fact that she does not support same-sex marriage.

"So when I did not agree on that one issue, they did not negate all the good works that I had done. The ministers on the other hand," Alexander said, "the ministers have really upset me to the point that they have questioned my Christianity, they have questioned my morality." Alexander said some ministers had threatened to run a Christian against her in the next election.

Even though Alexander voted to recognize same-sex marriages performed outside the district, she added, "I can honestly say I'm still at odds with the issue of gay marriage in the District of Columbia -- I still want to learn more about that issue. But I do know one thing, I do know that everybody is equal under God."

After the vote was taken, the packed council chambers emptied into a scene of mayhem in the hallway outside. People chanted, "Take it to the polls" and "We need a new council" while TV cameras swirled among the action. A young African-American man stared flatly at the display with seeming resignation and mumbled to his friend, "This shit breaks my heart every time I see it."

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Frank
    Date posted: 5/6/2009 1:37:00 AM
    Hometown: Michigan

    Comment:

    I"ll bet my last dollar Marion Barry would have voted for it IF he was running for mayor or an even higher office!!

  • Name: rgmwdc
    Date posted: 5/5/2009 6:01:00 PM
    Hometown: washington DC

    Comment:

    Showing up for gay pride in Dupont Circle does not make Mr. Barry a friend of our community. Mr. Barry is just another philandering hypocrite. Apparently, his disregards for the "sanctity of marriage," as an adulterer and a divorcee, have no bearing on his moral compass or his "Christian faith." He was never a true friend of Washington's gay community - he simply wanted our votes (pre-crack). I hope Mr. Barry has enough sense to avoid gay pride this year. He is not welcome.

  • Name: Ben
    Date posted: 5/5/2009 3:33:00 PM
    Hometown: NY

    Comment:

    Nothing like a sanctimonious crackhead

  • Name: Jim
    Date posted: 5/5/2009 3:05:00 PM
    Hometown: Washington DC

    Comment:

    You are correct, J -- one and the same-- and he did time for it. And, as Vashti points out, Barry courted the gay vote heavily in 1976 -- his first bid for mayor. I was working for the DC Eagle when they held a benefit dinner for his cause. Many feel that due to the gay voters, he won. But now, it seems, he has his own fish to fry (as it were) what with his "forgetting" to pay taxes and "not realizing" what he was voting for today. Sad case: another questionable fool overtaken with senility....at least that's what HE would like us to think. Actually, once a crook....

  • Name: David
    Date posted: 5/5/2009 3:04:00 PM
    Hometown: Seattle

    Comment:

    ...I can definitely have faith in a system where we have do-overs because people didn't know what they were doing. Oh well, hope this goes the rest of the way without such foolishness.

  • Name: J
    Date posted: 5/5/2009 2:09:00 PM
    Hometown: Michigan

    Comment:

    this is the guy that got caught smoking crack with a hooker and was still re-elected, right?

  • Name: Vashti
    Date posted: 5/5/2009 1:50:00 PM
    Hometown: Boston

    Comment:

    I find this particularly ironic considering Mr. Barry marched in the first gay pride march we ever had in D.C., and courted the gay vote when he was running for mayor. But, then, he's pretty much tainted his own history, hasn't he?

  • Name: Marcy
    Date posted: 5/5/2009 1:47:00 PM
    Hometown: NJ

    Comment:

    Also, being a proud parent of my 28 year old daughter who happens to be a lesbian, I can say that Representative Briggs is the worst form of selfish ignorance there is.

  • Name: Marcy
    Date posted: 5/5/2009 1:45:00 PM
    Hometown: NJ

    Comment:

    Also, being a proud parent of my 28 year old daughter who happens to be a lesbian, I can say that Representative Briggs is the worst form of selfish ignorance there is.

  • Name: Lorraine E.
    Date posted: 5/5/2009 1:26:00 PM
    Hometown: San Diego, CA

    Comment:

    D.C. Mayor Marion Barry: the brightest crayon in the box.



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