|| Military ||
1 2 3 4 5 NEXT  Page 1 of 5

Sailor Speaks Out

Sailor Joseph Rocha endured years of hazing until he spoke out — then he was discharged for revealing his homosexuality. Nonetheless, the 23-year-old is itching to suit back up.


1 PIXEL GIF | ADVOCATE.COM

It took two years of unconscionable abuse as a Navy dog handler in Bahrain before Petty Officer Third Class Joseph Rocha spoke out about being harassed. However, his openness about being hazed by his fellow sailors ended up getting him kicked out of the service under “don’t ask, don’t tell.” Since going public with his story in June, the 23-year-old has become an outspoken proponent for the repeal of the military’s ban on openly gay service members. Leading up to the U.S. Senate’s yet-to-be scheduled hearing on repealing the 16-year-old policy, Rocha is finding his voice in fighting the ban — especially because he hopes to rejoin the Navy eventually. Rocha opens up to Advocate.com about the hazing, his decision to tell, and life as a full-time political science major at a Catholic university.

JOSEPH ROCHA PORTRAIT X560 DEEPER (COURTESY) | ADVOCATE.COM

Why did you enter the Navy?
You know, it was my sophomore year [of high school]. Having grown up amongst violence and drug abuse, well. not myself ... just growing up in a violent household, I was confident that I wanted to dedicate my life to public service. And then my sophomore year, 9/11 occurred and I kind of decided my direction regarding my public service. I knew then that it would start with military service.

What was your experience in Bahrain from 2005 to 2007?
Well, when I first got there I was one amongst several hundred military police officers, and at first it was great. I was respected by my peers, I trained with the Marine Corps, I was respected by them, and my sexuality was never, never remotely questioned. It wasn’t until about six weeks in that I decided I wanted to become a part of a more elite, a much smaller unit of only two dozen, that I started coming under question in regards to my sexuality. And that came about through the normal procedure of trying to earn my place amongst their unit, but unbeknownst to me I was walking into an environment that condoned and propagated hazing before I even got there. And the difference with me was that hazing took its focus, as ordered by my chief, was specifically based on my sexuality. So because I trained with the Marine Corps, because I wasn’t interested in their conversations of sexual intercourse, it became a question of, Are you a homosexual? Why aren’t you interested in these things? And then the hazing demonstrated their intent of punishing me for what they considered to be my being a homosexual.

What kind of hazing did you have to endure?
Well, it started with just, like I said, just started with normal stuff, and it escalated to being hosed down in uniform to being forced to act out scenarios, homosexual scenarios on tape with military attack dogs, to being hog-tied or tied to a chair and left in a dog kennel with feces. These are the things that are documented by a naval report into this and a larger case of abuse in the kennel.

Follow us on Twitter Follow us on Twitter. Follow us on Facebook Follow us on Facebook. 1 2 3 4 5 NEXT  Page 1 of 5

FILE UNDER:  DADT

Reader Comments
  • Name: Wendy
    Date posted: 8/10/2010 2:17:23 PM
    Hometown: Rockford, IL

    Comment:

    If you're against homosexuality, why are you on this website? Just sayin...

  • Name: jeff
    Date posted: 11/25/2009 2:05:53 PM
    Hometown: west hollywood

    Comment:

    when i was a young man, i wanted so much to serve our country. but, i never enlisted in fear of the possibility of facing discrimination and/or a dishonorable discharge for being gay. some times i regret not signing up. but, it's moments like this that make me feel glad that i didn't sign up.

  • Name: George Deeming
    Date posted: 11/17/2009 6:11:29 PM
    Hometown: Galveston, Texas

    Comment:

    I'm a Viet-Nam Navy Veteran that was given an Unfitness Discharge back in '67. I was pulled off of the destroyer that I was serving on off of the coast of Nam (SAR)--- I had re-upped on the way over there. I eventually had the discharge upgraded to Honorable --- The whole experience with the Office of Naval Investigations was degrading, embarrasing and even worse. After I got home, it was nearly a year before I'd go out in public again. ONI and the discharge left me traumatized. It was an experience that any human being should not be put through and especially when it was done by your own government.

  • Name: Charles
    Date posted: 11/14/2009 8:47:31 AM
    Hometown: Austin, TX

    Comment:

    I'm glad Joseph Rocha is no longer in the U.S. military. Rocha is too sexy to serve for an ungrateful nation. I think the Gay community should boycott serving in the military until we are recognized as full and equal partners. Besides, I much prefer our Gay brothers and sisters to live rather to die in unneccessary wars. Hopefully in the coming century we will transcend war and the military will become obsolete.

  • Name: Steven Kopstein
    Date posted: 11/7/2009 10:42:07 PM
    Hometown: New York

    Comment:

    Thanks for speaking out and trying to make the world a better place for all our future gay brothers and sisters. To the haters out there - I have travelled the world and there are gay people in every single culture, in every corner of the world. Always have been and always will be. Some cultures even revere their gay folks by asking them to care for the children or to lead significant spiritual leadership roles. We are happy to be alive - we provide a different perspective on life and are often some of the nicest people you will ever meet. We don't overpopulate this overcrowded planet and we just ask to be treated as equals. So, why all the fuss? We're not trying to make anyone gay, we were born this way and we have nothing to apologize for. Gay is good.

  • Name: Fred Stanley
    Date posted: 11/6/2009 9:51:40 PM
    Hometown: Palm Springs, CA

    Comment:

    I served as a Captain in the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War. I did not try to hide anything. No one seemed to care. All I had to do was a good job, and it had its own rewards.

  • Name: Ken
    Date posted: 11/5/2009 2:26:46 PM
    Hometown: Houston

    Comment:

    Kristie, apparently you are not of God yourself. The scripture says to avoid the appearance of evil. If yuo know what this site is, then WHY come here? You are not avoiding the appearance of "Evil" by actually commenting in a GLBT website. by coming here, it could "appear" that you are attracted to someone of the same gender just by knowing how to navigate to this article and taking the time to comment... :D so, please keep your comments and hatred to yourself. If Jesus had NOTHING to say against Homosexuality, then Neither should you.

  • Name: Stuart
    Date posted: 11/4/2009 10:26:28 PM
    Hometown: Burlington, Ontario

    Comment:

    I have to laugh at how backwards the US Military is on this issue. I am a gay soldier in Canada, and nobody here cares. I had one person that had an issue, I called him out on it and now we're friends. It shouldn't matter who you sleep with, just that they've got your back if you're in trouble. The book Unfriendly Fire deals with this issue very well.

  • Name: Alex Held
    Date posted: 11/4/2009 12:15:29 PM
    Hometown: Wichita, KS

    Comment:

    I can't believe the U.S. military would do something like this not only do they think it's okay to haze Iraqi POWs, but apparently it's okay to haze and harass our own soldiers who are dying to fight a stupid war so our government can have access to vast oil reserves. Do some people in the military have a morals? Don't Ask Don't Tell should be repealed, and to all homophobic military personnel the only reason you have a problem with other people's sexuality is because you have a problem with you're own sexuality.

  • Name: Pete
    Date posted: 11/3/2009 2:42:38 PM
    Hometown: Melbourne, Australia

    Comment:

    This is a story of commitment, dignity and respect - and this young man is a shining example of all of these attributes. In a world where we are still being compromised personally and professionally, Rocha demonstrates that being committed to a cause or an ideal does not come without personal sacrifice. For those that continue to drag out the lines from the old testament, you cant pick and choose. You could be stoned to death for wearing 2 different fabrics - and there are a great many polyester trousered, woollen cardiganed Christians not adhering to that piece of scripture. The dignity and respect with which this young man goes about his life, and work should remain a beacon to us all - not that he is hot, cute or otherwise, but that he is committed to a day when we can live our lives as fully as anyone else, with no regard to what we do sexually. Congratulations and deepest respect to you soldier.

 PREVIOUS 1 2 3 NEXT  


Don't Miss
  • Best of Broadway Smash: Why You Will Love It

    Craig Zadan and Neil Meron, two of the producers of NBC’s new critically acclaimed musical series, explain why the backstage drama of creating a musical about Marilyn Monroe has mass appeal and why big stars like Anjelica Huston, Uma Thurman, Bernadette Peters, and Nick Jonas were eager to appear in it.

  • Best of Broadway How Broadway Does a Flea Market

    Find out why actress Kathleen Chalfant calls the annual Flea Market and Grand Auction in Times Square "the most glamorous flea market you've ever seen." It raised half a million dollars to fight HIV/AIDS.

  • Travel Slideshow Flag Gayest Cities in America, 2012

    It's no secret that megalopolises New York City, Chicago, and Los Angeles have robust LGBT life — and we've even heard tell of little queer hoods like the Castro and P-Town. This isn't that list.

 
 
Advocate Subscribe Promo Banner 300x50
 
Follow Us Follow Us on FacebookFollow Us on TwitterSubscribe to our RSS feedsDownload our app
Facebook Activity
 
1056 COVER X135 | ADVOCATE.COM
Today's Headlines