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In Florida the Earth Has Shifted

Former TV news anchor Charles Perez celebrated the end of Florida's gay adoption ban and looks back at the tireless efforts of many that brought us to this day.


CHARLES DABNEY PEREZ X390

COMMENTARY: At 12:21 p.m. on Thursday, Miami time, an e-mail came across my desktop. It read, “Victory! The Florida Law Banning Gay Adoption Is Unconstitutional!”

After sitting on it for 13 months, Florida’s third district court of appeal finally issued its ruling. Immediately, I forwarded the e-mail to my husband, Keith. Twenty minutes later he called me. “I couldn’t stop crying,” he said.

What had just happened was a momentous thing. The earth had shifted a bit.

Martin Gill and his partner just wanted to adopt the two boys they’d been fostering since 2004. They wanted to make the only stable home the boys had ever known permanent. You’d think it would have been an obvious choice and a speedy decision to reach. It wasn’t. Overturning established law is no easy thing to do. For Martin Gill, however, it was much more personal.

I’ve met Martin Gill. He is a gentle man with a strong sense of purpose — to love his family. For Rosie O’Donnell, it was the same when she helped lead the effort to overturn the state’s ban back in 2004. They took it to the voters and it failed. Cynthia Nixon has taken a similar stand, hoping to take the issue before Florida voters again in 2012. But if Thursday’s ruling teaches us anything, it is this: Rights and privileges for the few are rarely extended by the hand of the voter at the ballot box. That’s why we have the courts.

In America slavery did not end until 1865. Women did not gain the right to vote until 1920. Black students in Arkansas could not attend Little Rock Central High until 1957. And interracial marriage was not legal throughout the land until 1967. In each case change came without the consent of the majority. As the framers of our Constitution knew, justice should not always be up for a vote.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Doug
    Date posted: 9/26/2010 1:46:00 PM
    Hometown: Manchester CT

    Comment:

    Old saying: The arc of the universe swings toward justice.

  • Name: howard
    Date posted: 9/25/2010 7:14:13 AM
    Hometown: ft. lauderdale

    Comment:

    The fact that the courts finally overturned a law that is on its face unconstitutional is a victory, but an exasperating one. Hopefully, it will also not be one short-lived. We must stay vigilant.

  • Name: Steve
    Date posted: 9/25/2010 2:56:26 AM
    Hometown: Miramar

    Comment:

    AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME

  • Name: CountryBoy
    Date posted: 9/24/2010 9:44:45 PM
    Hometown: MO

    Comment:

    I'd pay GOOD MONEY to know what Anita Bryant is thinking, right now...

  • Name: Michael Groger
    Date posted: 9/24/2010 4:56:26 PM
    Hometown: Jacksonville/Miami

    Comment:

    Great article Charlie! This is an unbelievable accomplishment long overdue... Cant wait to read your book!!!

  • Name: Robert Goodman
    Date posted: 9/24/2010 1:04:32 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    Here! Here! Great article. There are 100,000 children in the US in the public system who are available for adoption. To deny these children a loving, permanent home is criminal.

  • Name: R G ODOM
    Date posted: 9/24/2010 12:10:49 PM
    Hometown: LAUDERDALE BY THE SEA FLORIDA

    Comment:

    FINALLY FLORIDA HAS GRANTED HUMAN RIGHTS, NOT ONLY TO THE ADULTS WANTING TO ADOPT, AND THE THOUSANDS OF DESERVING CHILDREN WANTING A LOVING HOME. I AM ADOPTED, I HAD LOVING PARENTS WHO CARED FOR ME, EDUCATED ME, TOOK CARE OF MY HEALTH, AND TAUGHT ME THE SOCIAL GRACES REQUIRED IN SOCIETY. I WONDER WHICH PENAL INSTITUTION I WOULD BE LIVING AT IF I HAD BEEN LEFT IN THE HANDS OF THE STATE OF FLORIDA, AND THE SHORT STAFFED FLORIDA SOCIAL SERVICES, WHO LOOSES CHILDREN IN THEIR MASSIVE SYSTEM.

  • Name: Cynthia Gaynor
    Date posted: 9/23/2010 9:10:33 PM
    Hometown: Lauderdale-by-the-Sea, Fl

    Comment:

    So many children, so few homes to guide them through life. Finally Florida has grown out of a misconception of who has the right to guide our children of the future. A loving home with the proper discipline is really the topic not what a couple of any gender is doing as a couple. So many children have suffered the abuses of a double gender home, it seems to me that a single gender parenting will provide better guidelines because of the scrutiny they feel they must not allow their children to experience. I'm a grandmother from "the old school" of proper Bostonian thought, who has watched the world evolve in an entitled milenium filled with nannies and political correctness that has failed our youth. Love and nurturing can come form any animal in the chain of mamals. It is truly a waste of time to deny "the children" from this wonderful nucleous of direction. Love begets goodness and growth. It is not defined by gender. Never was.

  • Name: Abel Cruz
    Date posted: 9/23/2010 8:14:26 PM
    Hometown: Hollywood, Fl.

    Comment:

    It is about time! As a kid growing up I never had any real "gay" role models. Always felt like sort of an outcast and that I would never be allowed to have a "normal life". Normal Life meaning; house, marriage, kids. It's another step in the right direction and I am pleased to get to see this in my life time.

  • Name: Donna Ellis
    Date posted: 9/23/2010 7:24:51 PM
    Hometown: Chandler, AZ

    Comment:

    Oh yes, I am celebrating with you today as well.... When we see so much abuse, how can any state deny a loving home to any child? We in PFLAG get furious over these homophobic "rules" directed at our family, which have no basis. Will our country never learn? I celebrate this one victory and hope we'll also see the end of DOMA, ENDA and DADT. But our family will celebrate (yes, with tears of joy) with you that children will be saved and given good loving homes, and parents who WANT them will also be given beautiful children who need moms and dads too! Thank you for wanting to raise them from a PFLAG mom....



 
 
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