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Obama: Our First Gay President

In 1998, Toni Morrison dubbed Bill Clinton “the first black president.” Advocate contributor Charles Perez says President Obama is on track to earn a title of his own.

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COMMENTARY: Barack Obama could turn out to be America’s first gay president. Many of us thought it would have been Bill Clinton. It wasn’t. Excepting James Buchanan, our 15th and only never-married president, and Abraham Lincoln, who was rumored to have shared his bed with a male friend for reasons of economy and warmth, it’s beginning to look as if Barack Obama may be it.

Nobel Prize–winning author Toni Morrison dubbed Bill Clinton “the first black president” back in 1998. The first gay president may be the closeted Obama, who has stealthily hidden a very progressive gay rights agenda behind garments made of compromise and incrementalism. But now he’s stepping out. According to Andrew Sullivan in a recent Atlantic article, “He is coming through — more cunningly than most of us grasped.”

Two weeks ago, Atty. Gen. Eric Holder announced that the Justice Department will no longer defend antigay legislation passed by Congress and signed into law in 1996 by President Clinton. It was a bold move with little precedent.

According to the attorney general, both he and President Obama concluded that at least part of the Defense of Marriage Act is unconstitutional. At issue is the third section, which denies federal benefits to gay and lesbian couples married in states that recognize gay unions.

The decision came in part because of the marriage and death of Thea Spyer. Back in 1963, Spyer met and fell in love with Edith Windsor. The two went on to build a life together for over four decades, each wearing a pearl pin in place of a ring, so as not to give away their often-secret relationship. Finally, after a 40-year engagement, they were married in Canada.

Two years ago Thea Spyer died, where they lived, in New York State, leaving her estate to her wife, Edith Windsor. Though gay marriage is not legal in New York, the Empire State does recognize legal same-sex unions performed in other states, territories, and nations. The federal government, however, does not.

Spyer’s death not only brought an end to their 46-year relationship, it also brought a federal tax bill of $363,053. Windsor would have been exempt had she been married to a man.

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  • Name: Sloan
    Date posted: 3/17/2011 11:58:55 PM
    Hometown: Reston

    Comment:

    President Obama has a long record of standing up for equal rights, not just in words but in deeds. Even in the Illinois statehouse he was the lead sponsor and a driving force behind passing the statewide non-discrimination bill. As president, he's stood up for equality on issue after issue -- Hate Crimes, DADT repeal, ENDA, presidential appointments, Supreme Court nominations, ending anti-LGBT teen bullying, ending discrimination in federal agencies and benefits, NOT defending DOMA, etc. He stands up for fairness on most of our issues. Our community should spend much more time advocating for equality among those who are not yet supportive than we spend lambasting our allies. While our friends need to hear from us, the people who are not yet supportive need to hear from us even more about why equal rights are the right thing. Want equality? Call your member of Congress and two senators at 202-224-3121; tell them to pass ENDA. We can whine or we can win. The choice is ours.

  • Name: Mark
    Date posted: 3/17/2011 11:25:46 PM
    Hometown: Palm Springs

    Comment:

    Some of you are very immature. Change happens gradually, not overnight. Do you believe that McCain/Palin would have done more for gay equality? Hell no, they wouldn't.

  • Name: David da Silva Cornell
    Date posted: 3/9/2011 6:22:52 PM
    Hometown: Miami Beach

    Comment:

    Actually, Morrison didn't mean by her remark what most folks even today think she meant by it. In 2008, in TIME, Morrison commented (in response to a reader who inquired whether she regretted the remark): "People misunderstood that phrase. I was deploring the way in which President Clinton was being treated, vis-à-vis the sex scandal that was surrounding him. I said he was being treated like a black on the street, already guilty, already a perp. I have no idea what his real instincts are, in terms of race." (http://www.time.com/time/arts/article/0,8599,1738303,00.html) Morrison wasn't describing Clinton's heart, mind, or deeds; she was describing how the world perceived him and was treating him.

  • Name: Cameron
    Date posted: 3/8/2011 10:10:25 PM
    Hometown: Toledo

    Comment:

    Well, I wouldn't call him our first gay President(I thought it was silly to call Clinton the first black President) but he sure is the best advocate we've ever had. I do expect gay marriage recognition to become a reality(federally) under his watch. He will come out of the closet eventually and support Same-sex marriage openly. I have to trust that he's waiting on the perfect time. Yes, it's political, but he's a politician after all. He has to play the game in order to win. When he wins, we win.

  • Name: Reed
    Date posted: 3/8/2011 4:45:58 PM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    @Joe: Of course we're here trashing the President's "support" of gays. He trashes US everytime he says "I am against gay marriage", every time he has his Justice Dept. file a brief comparing gay marriage to incest, and every time he discharged a gay soldier (well over 500 times so far... and STILL happening since DADT hasn't been officially ended yet). We're way past the Bush administration, so lets quit dragging out the tired and annoying argument that "He's better than Bush/McCain/Palin/Romney/Satan". HE is the President, his job is not just to clean up after the last guy, its to keep the promises he made. And finally, the idea that he (and Democrats in general) somehow CAN'T come out in support of gay rights for fear of Republican backlash in 2012 is offensive and ridiculous. Republicans ALREADY think Obama is a Gay-loving-Communist-Socialist-Kenyan, so why can't he just come out and support the things everyone on the right already thinks he's for? Who is he fooling? Not me.

  • Name: Original Andrew
    Date posted: 3/8/2011 3:48:10 PM
    Hometown: Seattle

    Comment:

    This is moronic. Obama and Holder are still fighting against our rights in court even though they now state that DOMA is unconstitutional. At the very least, we've had a total failure of leadership from the president, and he's been dragged kicking and screaming into doing the right thing. Calling him our gay president is a huge insult to the countless advocates and activists who've actually made progess possible.

  • Name: corvo
    Date posted: 3/8/2011 12:23:19 PM
    Hometown: venezia

    Comment:

    It's sad how delusional this "thought piece" is. Wishing it just doesn't make it so.

  • Name: Joe
    Date posted: 3/8/2011 12:19:46 PM
    Hometown: Raleigh

    Comment:

    LOL. I knew that the comments section of this article would be filled with people trashing the President. We make it through eight years of a president who made the villainization of gays the crux of his reelection campaign, and finally elect a sympathetic character who is carefully navigating the cultural waters toward greater recognition of gay rights. He spearheaded the repeal of DADT, abandons support of DOMA, clearly signals by his "evolving" comments re: gay marriage that's he's setting himself up to be a supporter post-2012, but still this feigned outrage. I suppose some would prefer that Obama gun heavy for gay marriage this term, energize the Christian nutwing of the GOP, and then we get another religious fanatic like Huckabee in 2012? Please join the rest of us in reality. Anyway, I've discovered that most of the animosity directed at President Obama from the gay community comes from a vocal crowd of bitter Hillary Clinton supporters. As if she were some type of gay icon.

  • Name: Jackson
    Date posted: 3/8/2011 2:44:53 AM
    Hometown: Seattle

    Comment:

    I know Toni Morrison, I've worked with Toni Morrison, Tony Morrison is a friend of mine. Charles Perez, you are no Toni Morrison!

  • Name: Reed
    Date posted: 3/8/2011 2:07:32 AM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    This article represents the blind allegiance that too many Obama fanboys have toward the President. The President could come out tomorrow and declare his support for a nationwide ban on gay-marriage, and Charles Perez would eat it up and ask for more, justifying it as a "shrewd chess-playing move behind the curtains to back the Republicans into a corner" or whatever nonsense he described in this article. I don't understand how anyone could describe Obama as the "fierce advocate" he promised to be. Need I remind you that hate crimes and hospital visitation only help you if you are dead or close to it, and, wait for it, DADT is still in effect, not to be stopped for at least another year or more (there's no timeline for implementation). And he's still against marriage equality. I'm sick of hearing people say "he's better than the alternative" or "look what he's up against". The words that come out of his mouth don't get a congressional vote, so why hasn't he used his "bully pulpit" more?

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