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Gay Couple Barred for Life From Wal-Mart

Joe Paolucci and his partner, Thomas Hitchcock, have been barred for life from all Wal-Mart stores following a dispute over Bic lighters.

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Joe Paolucci and his partner, Thomas Hitchcock, have been barred for life from all Wal-Mart stores following a dispute over Bic lighters.

The Chicago lawyers visited a Michigan Wal-Mart with their two adopted special-needs 11-year-old sons in August. While Hitchcock bought groceries at a counter operated by a cashier, Paolucci went to a self-checkout lane to purchase, among other items, a package of lighters.

As the family left the store, an employee asked Paolucci if he had purchased the lighters and requested to see a receipt. The receipt did not show the lighters, and the family was asked to enter a detention room.

Paolucci refused and then asked store personnel to call police. Paolucci believed that a review of the security cameras would show that he had in fact purchased the lighters.

When the police arrived, Paolucci was immediately handcuffed without questioning and placed in the backseat of a squad car. Hitchcock was not handcuffed but was placed in the backseat of a second squad car.

The twins were turned over to the store's security personnel, who took them into the detention room.
 
Paolucci and Hitchcock estimated it was at least 45 minutes before officers told them they had reviewed the store's tapes and had determined that the lighters had not been shoplifted.
 
The two said they expected an apology and were surprised when personnel from the store instead read from a statement that Paolucci and Hitchcock had been barred from all Wal-Mart stores for life. Rather than shoplifting, the reason they were given was "being uncooperative," reports the South Bend Tribune.

"Everything they asked us to do, we did. We cooperated 100%," Paolucci argued. "We objected only when they tried to get us to go into the detention room."

Paolucci said he and Hitchcock asked the Berrien County prosecutor's office to file criminal charges against Wal-Mart's employees for injuries suffered by one of the twins as a result of the incident.

R. McKinley Elliott, the county's corporate counsel, advised against it. Elliott said a thorough review of the store's videotapes revealed nothing improper by either store employees or police.
 
"The prosecutor's office didn't see any basis for acting against anyone," said Elliott, according to the South Bend Tribune.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Me Myself I
    Date posted: 11/15/2009 12:52:06 AM
    Hometown: Portland, OR

    Comment:

    Wal-Mart sucks, but the more I read about this guy the more it sounds like he tried to steal the lighters and then threw a tantrum when he got caught

  • Name: Marc
    Date posted: 11/11/2009 11:51:46 AM
    Hometown: chicago

    Comment:

    I also know Tom, Joe and their sons. They are terrible examples of what good gay parenting should be. In fact, these two are the most obnoxious parents I've ever met. And the really terrible thing about them is, their behavior works against everything we are fighting for! No one should set Hitchcok and Paolucci up as our gay parenting saviors. I don't feel sorry for them and neither would anyone else who has to spend five minutes with this nasty, awful family.

  • Name: katherine
    Date posted: 11/10/2009 5:23:34 PM
    Hometown: chicago

    Comment:

    I KNOW THIS FAMILY! I'm surprised they are allowed into ANY store. And didn't the advocate already run a story about these two when their sons got kicked out of their first school, City Day. Paolucci - Hitchcock screamed "harassment", even though City Day had other same sex parents with no complaints. Instead of trying to grow from the experience the couple called reporters, screamed and threatened lawsuits against the school, the Head Mistress and kid's teacher. Next the boys got thrown out of St. Clement School, (in less than a month) and the couple again went ballistic, claiming that their son’s behavior was justified because they’re adopted. And just this past spring, Child Services of Illinois was called by a teacher at the boy's latest public school. Paolucci - Hitchcock again claimed "harassment", “gay hating” and “adoption” as an excuse. Later, threatening the teacher who cared about the welfare of their children. 

Blaming everyone but themselves for their complete lack of skills is norm for these truly bad parents. If you want to see the real kind of parents Mr. Paolucci and Mr. Hitchcock are, click on the South Bend Tribune article. 

In the interview, Paolucci and Hitchcock give out very personal and bizarre information about their kids in order to make positive points about themselves. 

These are either the most stupid parents on the earth or the most conniving, rotten parents ever. Either way, these kids are doomed

  • Name: Greg
    Date posted: 11/10/2009 10:42:30 AM
    Hometown: Providence

    Comment:

    Bic lighters? The parents are smokers??? (Gasp.) Call Child Protective Services!!! (And no you don't use Bic lighters to light a fireplace, you need the long Scriptos for that.)

  • Name: Tom
    Date posted: 11/10/2009 7:17:16 AM
    Hometown: Jacksonville, FL

    Comment:

    Scott in Portland...your wrong, store security does have the right to detain you until the police arrive. Above detaining you, it depends on the laws of the state you are in.

  • Name: What A Joke! (pshh)
    Date posted: 11/10/2009 3:47:38 AM
    Hometown: conservative california

    Comment:

    Only an individual from ARIZONA (yeah. let's not.) would make that kind of statement!

  • Name: Mark Sanchez
    Date posted: 11/10/2009 3:01:45 AM
    Hometown: Sacramento

    Comment:

    Shopping at Walmart? Ick. They should be banned from every gay bar for life.

  • Name: Glenn
    Date posted: 11/10/2009 2:05:13 AM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    It's a big pain and very embarrassing, but you MUST be cooperative with store authorities in situations like this. When the alarms go off, they're just doing their job. If you have nothing to hide, then the truth will come out. Being uncooperative will get you nowhere.

  • Name: TJ
    Date posted: 11/10/2009 1:30:33 AM
    Hometown: NYC

    Comment:

    Much more likely that they were banned for being obnoxious lawyers than for being gay.

  • Name: What a joke!
    Date posted: 11/10/2009 12:46:32 AM
    Hometown: AZ

    Comment:

    Only an individual from Ca. would make that kind of statement! I am sure they had their Gay signs on their foreheads. What a crock of crap. Most stores serve over 10,000 transactions a day, take that times over 3,000 stores and I am pretty sure they dont have time to ask for Gay cards.

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