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Daddy Dearest

Augusten Burroughs takes a long, cold look at his father in his new memoir A Wolf at the Table.



One of the most successful gay writers working today, Augusten Burroughs has made a career out of exposing his family’s and his own dysfunction with sharp wit and a taste for the absurd that belie the pain of growing up amid unchecked mental illness. But after two memoirs and two essay collections, what more could he have to tell? Quite a bit, it turns out. Set during Burroughs’s childhood in the years leading up to his parents’ divorce, his latest memoir, A Wolf at the Table, is the kind of read that grabs you by the neck and won’t let go until the last page. Readers looking for a reprise of Running With Scissors are in for a surprise: This tale is as harrowing and cathartic as a Stephen King novel.

Why did you choose to tell this story now?
It’s always been a story I wanted to tell, partly because of my father’s denial of his behavior—the way he called me and made threats to kill me, then denied it had happened. I really wanted to reveal him. Fans who have read my books feel my mother is this enormous driving force in my life, but my father was really the rocket fuel. Right after he died, about three years ago, I started writing this book. It was like something inside me was unlocked and set free.

Had you been in touch with your father?
We’d been in touch but hadn’t mended our relationship. He knew about my success as a writer but had no idea what I wrote about.

Are you in touch with your mother?
As far as I know she still lives in a small town in Massachusetts and still writes her poetry. I don’t talk to her.

How did writing about such a harrowing time in your childhood affect you?
Around the time I started this book my beloved French bulldog became paralyzed and I had to move into the basement of my house because he couldn’t climb stairs. So I was down there 24 hours a day. My father’s brother sent me up a huge box of family documents and photographs, new images I’d never seen growing up. I entered this peculiar state. I was working very long hours down there. I live in the woods, sort of like in the book, and I would have insomnia at night and I would cry. The whole thing was a real horror.

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