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Everything They Always Wanted to Know About Sex

Because their health class doesn’t always include the safe-sex lessons that they need, some Chicago teens have taken matters (and the lessons) into their own hands -- by staging a new show.


Growing up the daughter of a conservative Chicago pastor, Pookie, a 16-year-old lesbian, learned little about sex at home, where “it’s all about God,” she says. A student at a high school on the city’s north side, Pookie says she isn’t out to her family because, if she were, “my dad would blow up. He’d try to get the lesbian spirit out of me.”

School hasn’t been any more enlightening: There, Pookie says in her rapid-fire way of speaking, sex education is “all about heterosexual sex and heterosexual diseases…all about a penis and vagina coming together to make a baby, or a penis and vagina coming together with a condom to not make a baby.” The only nod to LGBT students is typically a five-minute explanation of what the acronym stands for -- a lesson that benefited her straight classmates more than her, she says.

Whether they’re being preached to about abstinence until marriage, with nary a reference to HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases, or being taught safe heterosexual sex, chances are many gay kids aren’t getting the basic facts about their health needs in high school. If they speak out—like Pookie did, once challenging her sex-ed teacher on the lack of gay-specific info -- they’re often told such content isn’t in the curriculum. “It was pointless to try,” Pookie says.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Moondancer Drake
    Date posted: 8/15/2008 4:23:00 PM
    Hometown: Milwaukee, WI

    Comment:

    Looks like a trip to the Windy City is in order. What a great way to come together and spread the word. Way to go!



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