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The Naked Truth: Patrick Henry

Patrick Henry strips down for our feature on the beauty and blemish of the human body.


Patrick Henry, 40
Taos, N.M.
Likes: chest hair and muscle
Dislikes: weight -- too skinny

Think puberty was hard as a teenager? Imagine going through it at age 30. “Doctors always said, ‘Well, different people have different body types’ or ‘Maybe you’re a late bloomer,’ ” says 40-year-old Patrick Henry, whose body didn’t mature into adulthood until after 1998, when doctors found a brain tumor that was preventing testosterone production. For Henry, the revelation was a godsend. “It was like the first time in history that a brain tumor has been good news!” he says, laughing. Three months after the tumor was successfully removed, he finally began to pack on pounds and grow body hair, leaving behind the skinny, hairless body that had made him “miserable” for most of his life. “People who knew me back then, some of them don’t even recognize me now,” he says.

Though he’d still like to put on more weight -- “Sometimes when I look in the mirror I still see that skinny kid” -- Henry says he’s at peace with his new body and his newly awakened sexuality. “It was always very frustrating for me because I didn’t have a sex drive,” he says. “I actually thought I was supposed to be straight!” Henry now competes in a gay rugby league and recently attended the Bingham Cup in Dublin, which he describes as “pretty much a wet dream come true.” The sport has helped him achieve the physique he’s always wanted. “Muscles are nice, but there’s that dividing line between guys who are muscular for show and guys who are muscular in a practical sense,” he says. “I don’t want pretty muscles to show off -- I want more pounds to make me a better athlete.”

The Naked Truth photography by Eric Schwabel: Patrick Henry 2 | Advocate.com

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Thomas Baker
    Date posted: 9/17/2008 2:03:00 AM
    Hometown: Fort Wayne, IN

    Comment:

    I'm glad you are getting hairy and gaining weight, just don't gain too much weight. You are looking good. I'm glad you got your brain tumor removed and you are doing great.

  • Name: Dray
    Date posted: 9/6/2008 7:22:00 PM
    Hometown: NYC NY

    Comment:

    He and we have much to be thankful for.

  • Name: woofydude
    Date posted: 9/6/2008 12:17:00 PM
    Hometown: bear

    Comment:

    Patrick, you are a fuzzy hottie. WOOOF Your smile alone would melt anyone's heart. Mega hairy muscle hugs. Thanks for being who you are, stud.

  • Name: Tyrone jackson
    Date posted: 9/4/2008 4:17:00 PM
    Hometown: New York

    Comment:

    Patrick, Your smile makes all of you totally sexy and handsome. Keep smileing!!!!!!!

  • Name: Don Pahl
    Date posted: 9/4/2008 3:03:00 PM
    Hometown: Buffalo, NY

    Comment:

    Patrick is definitely a very sexy guy. I'd love to have the body he has. It's amazing to see that anyone can have a bad body image, even those people who you would think would or should have no problem at all. Even though it meant dealing with the brain tumor, I'm glad things turned around for him. He seems like a great guy. All the best to him.

  • Name: Trevor Robinson
    Date posted: 9/3/2008 7:02:00 PM
    Hometown: Carson City, Nevada

    Comment:

    Patrick, You are truly one Beautiful man inside and out. Enjoy everything that this life has bestowed on you even if it took some time to manifest. Breathe Deeply and cherish every moment

  • Name: Michael Dill
    Date posted: 9/3/2008 12:45:00 PM
    Hometown: Topeka

    Comment:

    Touching story, great-looking guy with a beautiful smile. I wish the video had been posted too.

  • Name: Rodrigo Toledo
    Date posted: 9/1/2008 8:42:00 PM
    Hometown: rio de janeiro

    Comment:

    If u got 2 know this man u'd love him at 1st sight. not only is he beautiful on the outside but also hes beautiful on the inside too n thats why i love him :) being skinny is a dream for a lot of people, for others it could be a problem. it all depends on our perspective. miss u patrick

  • Name: Jeff Key
    Date posted: 8/30/2008 11:05:00 AM
    Hometown: Salt Lake City, UT

    Comment:

    Hey, I know this guy! ...and I'm lucky to do so. Beyond his incredible story he is also an incredible human being. He's the classic tender heart inside of a BIG man. Incidentally, yes, he's also another gay man with a great body who thinks he's too skinny. He's not as you can see from the photos. Self-criticism aside, he's pretty much the kind of guy you want as your best bud if you're married and if your single... as I believe he still is... guys you'd better jump on this one! You'd better be quick though, he's a fast runner. He and his rugby mates may just leave you in the dust! Jeff Key



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