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Friends With Benefits

What’s a little make-believe romance between acquaintances?


“That’s him,” Matty says through gritted teeth. “He’s right behind you.” Without hesitating, I seize Matty’s torso, push him against the bathroom wall, and shove my tongue into his mouth. Matty melts into the kiss. I grind my crotch into his, and he moans. Moments later, the bathroom door slams behind us.

I met Matty three weeks before at the same Toronto nightclub we’re in tonight. He’s a sexy 20-something with the metabolism of a piranha and the enthusiasm to match. It was your typical boy-meets-boy-for-the-night story -- eyes lock on the dance floor, bodies gravitate toward each other, and the next thing you know it’s morning and you’re looking for your socks on someone else’s bedroom floor.

We met for dinner a few nights later -- not so typical -- and both of us made a point of stressing that we weren’t looking for anything but friendship. He said he had just gotten out of a four-year relationship with an abusive, cheating boyfriend, and I was the first person he’d “met” since. I was only in town for a few months shooting a TV show, so anything more than friendship would be complicated -- particularly with someone, ahem, 10 years younger than me.

Our acquaintance has many perks. Looking at Matty is as addictive as his energy. And every 10 minutes he tells me how hot he thinks I am, which is exactly the ego boost I need to offset nine years in Los Angeles, where I feel like a complete turd. When he introduces me to his circle of friends, I’m given a hero’s welcome because Matty finally has a distraction from Jerry, the evil ex-boyfriend. These friends carried Matty through the years it took him to finally walk out, and they continue to stand by him as he pretends not to notice Jerry’s parade of new flings.

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