When Ellen
DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi got married in California in
August, there were no protests, no career fallout, and no
media backlash, just congratulations from all.
It was an
archetypal People celebrity wedding featuring two of
the beautiful people, one in pants and the other in a
gown, and a dreamy setting with flowers, champagne,
candlelight, the whole romantic nine yards. No expense
spared, no fabulous purveyor left unmentioned.
(Mark’s Garden! Zac Posen! Neil Lane!) The only
thing missing: a groom.
But People
hardly noticed.
And that’s
what was most amazing about the August 16 marriage of Ellen
DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi: People and other
mainstream celebrity news sources didn’t treat
the event much differently than they would, say, the
arrival of Brangelina’s next children. CNN.com did
headline the word “marry” in scare quotes, but
the blogosphere outcry forced the site to make a quick
edit. Other than that there seemed to be no backlash
from the mainstream media or public.
What was once
California dreaming has turned into a Golden State reality,
and leading the way down the aisle -- as she has, so to
speak, for the past decade of gay progress -- is
DeGeneres.
She wasn’t
the first celesbian (k.d. lang, Melissa Etheridge, and
Chastity Bono were public about their sexual orientation
before she was), but Ellen’s coming-out was
certainly the most heralded. Who can forget the cover
of Time magazine in 1997 with the headline
“Yep, I’m gay”? The very
acknowledgment of that fact was news and even warranted a
full hour on Oprah. DeGeneres then turned her
eponymous TV show character into a lesbian, coming out
by sharing a kiss with guest star Laura Dern. And
offscreen she began unabashedly parading her relationship
with actor Anne Heche up and down red carpets.
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