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Lesbians Object to Doctor's Comments During Clinic Visit

News 2008-06-24 Lesbians Object to Doctor's Comments During Clinic Visit A Michigan hospital is investigating a claim by a lesbian couple that a physician told them same-sex unions are contrary to his


A Michigan hospital is investigating a claim by a lesbian couple that a physician told them same-sex unions are contrary to his Christian beliefs.

The incident occurred at Spectrum Health's South Pavilion in Cutlerville. Ashleigh Haberman notified Spectrum by e-mail that she and her partner, Erica Schaub, had gone to the urgent care center for treatment of Schaub's lingering cold.

Schaub told The Grand Rapids Press for a report published Sunday that the doctor asked who she was in relation to Schaub, and Schaub replied they were "life partners."

"She didn't even have that out of her mouth before he said, 'So what do you guys feel about your ruling in California?"' Haberman recalled. "As soon as he looked at us, he knew we were gay, and he was looking for an opportunity to start that conversation."

Haberman said they told the doctor they agreed with the ruling allowing gay couples to legally marry and that they had been married in Canada.

The doctor then allegedly said gay marriage "shouldn't be called marriage" because it is a religious-based word and, as a Christian, he did not consider gay marriage legal, Haberman said.

Spectrum Health's investigation probably will not be complete until sometime this week, spokesman Bruce Rossman said.

"We expect our physicians and staff to provide high-quality care in a professional manner," Spectrum said in a statement.

Rossman declined to identify the doctor, who did not return calls from the Press for comment.

Haberman said she and Schaub did not want the doctor fired and do not plan to file a lawsuit. "I didn't want it to happen to somebody else," she said. "I'm not asking him to be OK with it. I'm asking him to do his job." (AP)

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Rick
    Date posted: 6/24/2008 4:29:00 PM
    Hometown: Grand Rapids, MI

    Comment:

    I must comment on the treatment my partner and I received at Spectrum Health's main hospital in Grand Rapids. My partner (short and hispanic) suffered his first bout with kidney stones. He is on my insurance and I, of course, accompanied him to the ER. No one questioned who I was (tall and white) or what I was doing there. The doctors and nurses all were wonderful to us. They discussed diagnosis and treatment freely with the both of us. I hope the experience Erica & Ashleigh received at the other facility is a fluke.

  • Name: Jim Wildman
    Date posted: 6/24/2008 4:28:00 PM
    Hometown: Wichita, KS

    Comment:

    Just another case of ignorance. I was in the ER at a local Catholic hospital. The doctor wasn't concerned about me being gay until my partner showed up with our power of attorney for health care. It was only when he realized that I was gay that he asked if I was HIV positive. My partner asked if they asked that question of all patients and was told no they didn't. The doctor should have approached me with the assumption that I was HIV positive and never asked the question. Doctors are just as bigoted as the general population. When you're in the bible belt, you just expect it. Heck, queers in Kansas can't be assured of housing or jobs. Sexual orientation isn't protected here.

  • Name: Amy K
    Date posted: 6/24/2008 12:27:00 PM
    Hometown: Tulsa

    Comment:

    In my 27 year medical career I have never heard or witnessed such stupidity by a physician or other heath care professional. We are there to treat the patient with dignity and respect. Our personnal opinions are just that and are to be kept to ourselves. Why should they be expected to igonore this??? If the doctor had been making racial comments to a black/white couple then he would have been highly reprimended. It is time for all gays and lesbians to demand the same respect. Yes, some people just need to grow up and get over themselves. And Mike from Seattle....we hold DOCTORS to a higher standard in this society.

  • Name: Bonnie
    Date posted: 6/24/2008 11:16:00 AM
    Hometown: White Plains

    Comment:

    There was no reason for the doctor to go into his religious beliefs with them. He was there to treat an issue she had. If he does not agree with their relationship, he should keep that to himself. People need to grow up and respect others. Besides, if he has an issue with the community, he should not be a doctor. Hypocratic Oath? Keep a smile on your face and love in your heart!

  • Name: Fruit Rollup
    Date posted: 6/24/2008 10:54:00 AM
    Hometown: Indianapolis, IN

    Comment:

    While the physician is completely entitled to his opinion, that was not the time or place to discuss it. They went there for his opinion on her cold, not their partnership.

  • Name: Mike
    Date posted: 6/24/2008 1:00:00 AM
    Hometown: Seattle

    Comment:

    Yeah, but, really, so what... the doctor was expressing a dumb opinion, but, should that be illegal now? Should we have thought police and syntax police watching everyone, reporting them, maybe even arresting them for saying bigoted things? It's fine that the women reported the problem to the HMO, they were bugged by it and they're entitled, but beyond that, it's not a news item, and I would say, get over it.



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