Op-ed: The Mystery of Gay Republicans
BY John Carroll
November 27 2012 12:19 PM ET
I was hiking through Patagonia when I heard the news of President Obama’s reelection. I like to say that sentence in the voice of Maya Angelou — I feel it makes me sound more important than I actually am.
The hotel I was staying at had only four rooms and not one of them had a television set. Being that there was no boob tube, I held my breath and relied on texts from my husband, back in the States, to keep me informed on Election Day. When I got word that “we” had won, I felt like I could finally breathe again. We had four more years with a president who, unlike his opponent, believed whole-heartedly in LGBT equality.
I returned home with renewed vim and vigor, so much so, I did bell kicks through U.S. customs (Note To Reader: Enforcement officers do not appreciate the Broadway bell kick). You could imagine my shock a few evenings later when I was introduced to someone at a friend’s party as, “This is Mark, he’s a gay Republican, he supported Romney.”
Now, I had heard rumors there were such things as gay Republicans, but not having known any personally, I wasn’t 100% certain they actually existed. However, there one was, in front of me, reaching out to make contact. I felt like I was in a natural history program and the voice of Sir David Attenborough could be soothingly heard overhead, “Here we have the elusive gay Republican. Don’t get too close, their archaic political views make them extremely dangerous and unpredictable.”
In the movie in my mind, when Mark went to shake my hand, I held tightly onto him with a firm grip, looked sternly into his eyes and gave him an impassioned speech that would put Julia Sugarbaker to shame. “And that Mark, just so you will know, and-your-children-will-someday-know…!” However, none of that happened. I was so shocked by his political views that I had to excuse myself and walk away.
What kind of internalized homophobia and self-loathing must one possess in order to stand behind a political party that would put our civil rights’ accomplishments back decades when President Obama and the Democratic ticket were so vocal in their belief in LGBT equality?
Not only did the Democratic Party make a significant effort to include LGBT rights in the DNC platform, but President Obama signed into law the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act, supported the Employment Non-Discrimination Act and issued an executive order requiring all hospitals receiving Medicare or Medicaid funds to respect the right of all patients to choose who may visit them in the hospital and ensuring that the decision-making of LGBT patients is respected. President Obama signed into law the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Repeal Act of 2010. He announced the Department of Justice would no longer defend Section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act, expanded federal benefits to same-sex partners of federal employees and issued a presidential memorandum that directs all federal agencies engaged abroad to ensure that U.S. diplomacy and foreign assistance promote and protect the human rights of LGBT persons. President Obama and his administration encouraged LGBT youth who are being bullied by joining the “It Gets Better Campaign” and, perhaps most significantly, President Obama officially endorsed same-sex marriage.
Do gay Republicans who voted for a party that says marriage is only between a man and woman believe they themselves are not worthy of love? Do gay Republicans who voted for a party that says gay people should not be allowed to adopt children believe they themselves are not worthy of family? And what would gay Republicans, who voted for Mitt Romney’s version of America, do when their beloved jobs that gave them their beloved money were taken away from them because they were gay? Who would they call: Lambda Legal, HRC… Ghostbusters?
I have heard gay Republicans say they vote according to their fiscal needs. So basically a vote is cast for their bank account while they remain spiritually bankrupt. What does it say about someone who puts money and monetary possessions above one’s self, spirit and equal rights?
Gay Republicans are today’s version of Uncle Tom. They give their time, money and voices to a political group that aids in LGBT oppression. To me, it’s as if, in 2012 you heard of an African American writing a check to support the KKK or of a Jewish person defending the work of skinheads.
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