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The Floodgates Are Open

With same-sex marriage no longer grabbing front-page headlines and Lindsay Lohan's sexuality becoming old news, the media turns its attention to Obama, gay men who "suddenly realize they are straight," and some drag queens who were kicked out of Rockefeller Center.
An Advocate.com exclusive posted August 8, 2008
The Floodgates Are Open

Right: Deval Patrick

It seems that same-sex marriage has already become so blasé that the incremental removal of barriers no longer calls for front-page headlines. Americans met the news of another breakthrough for gay marriage -- Massachusetts governor Deval Patrick’s signing of a bill revoking a law that had barred out-of-state same-sex couples from getting married -- with a yawn. Then they rolled over and went to sleep when L.A. police chief William Bratton declared that Lindsay Lohan had “gone gay."

Yep, it’s just another Week in Gay.

Though the Massachusetts story got good coverage nationally, with major papers such as The Boston Globe and The New York Times and wire services picking it up, the response seemed less urgent than May's coverage of California’s breakthrough court decision and New York governor David Paterson’s subsequent order that state agencies must recognize same-sex marriages conducted in other states. (As expected, there’s a footnote to Paterson’s actions: According to The New York Sun , the state supreme court is considering whether it will hear a case brought by the Arizona-based Christian group the Alliance Defense Fund, which is suing Paterson based on the dictionary definition of the word marriage and claiming that Paterson’s order was an illegal breach of separation of power.)

The Massachusetts bill that Patrick signed revokes a 1913 law originally intended to keep interracial couples from marrying, a law then-governor Mitt Romney defiantly revived in 2004 after same-sex marriage was made legal in the state.

In a Fox News story, Governor Patrick noted wryly: "In five years now, … the sky has not fallen, the earth has not opened to swallow us all up, and more to the point, thousands and thousands of good people -- contributing members of our society -- are able to make free decisions about their personal future, and we ought to seek to affirm that every chance we can."

More proof that the personal is political: Gay couples tying the knot are using their nuptials as a way to get the word out about the upcoming California ballot initiative in November. An AP wire story notes that couples are using inventive ploys such as putting “Vote No on 8” on cake toppers, or accepting donations toward the No on 8 campaign in lieu of gifts.

Which may be needed, according to The Wall Street Journal, which reported that California gay marriage opponents have thus far raised more funds than gay rights organizers.

“Proponents of Proposition 8, a ballot initiative that would ban same-sex marriage, raised about $3.7 million from January 1 through June 30, according to state filings," the article stated. "In contrast, gay rights activists who oppose the measure raised about $2.5 million through June 30.”

However, according to a story by Julie Bolcer for Advocate.com, published the same day as the WSJ article, gay rights groups had raised $4.1 million compared to the proponents' $3.7 million -- a figure confirmed with the secretary of state. This puts opponents of the measure squarely in the lead in fund-raising, and -- as only 41% of Californians said they are planning to vote for the initiative, according to a July Field poll -- in popular opinion as well. 

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  • Name: Keith
    Date posted: 2008-08-18 2:27 PM
    Hometown: Seattle

    Comment:

    Sexuality IS fluid, but what we're talking about here are labels...Our feelings and emotions vary daily and how we physically respond to those feelings are how others define us..Should we choose to slap that label on ourselves, then we are free to peel it off and slap another one on at our leisure. The sticking point is, are we using those self-applied labels to avoid a cultural "wagging finger" simply to avoid the on-going pressure to conform to the "norm"? One of the greatest gifts of the Gay rights movement was the ability to express our sexuality without the burden of restrictive "check this box" catagorization. Life is all about variations. It is not carved in granite.


  • Name: Frank
    Date posted: 2008-08-13 3:20 PM
    Hometown: Miami

    Comment:

    I was gay, now I'm straight... why do people feel they need to explain this away. people change in so many ways over their lifetime. its not internalized homophobia. its not brainwashing. people like one thing today, another tomorrow.


  • Name: Jeffrey
    Date posted: 2008-08-13 11:30 AM
    Hometown: Boston MA

    Comment:

    I think Kinsey was right. Keep in mind that when describing fluidity he suggested that a self identified straight man, for instance may seek physical intimacy with his wife, but seeks emotional intimacy with male friends. That is just one of hundreds of examples of the sexual-emotional continuum that Kinsey proposed. I think the gay or straight thing is an artificial construct. Human sexuality is far more complex


  • Name: David
    Date posted: 2008-08-13 7:29 AM
    Hometown: Sydney, Australia

    Comment:

    It amazes me how some people keep relying on what Kinsey said about human sexuality. Can't they think for themselves what is logical and what is not? The idea of sexual orientation being fluid just sounds a little ridiculous. Sexuality may appear to be fluid because the state of mind is. The fluidity has nothing to do with the actual sexual orientation. People who can't accept labels are, in my opinion, still harbouring internalised homophobia. Why is it so hard to accept the fact that they're gay, and to be OK with that gay label? Straight people have no issue with their label, so why should we? Those gay men out there who are more mentally evolved will probably not find sexuality fluid either. It's just the ones with a problem with homosexuality that believe that sexuality is fluid and who have to blindly hang on Kinsey's theory to fall back on.


  • Name: Don Charles
    Date posted: 2008-08-12 12:32 PM
    Hometown: Kansas City

    Comment:

    I will not accept what is not true. Sexual behavior may be fluid, but sexual orientation isn't. If you've experienced real sexual attraction to women and men, even at different times of life, you are bisexual. It's high time bisexual folk (like a certain sex columnist named Tristan Taormino) stop masquerading as Gay or Straight and come clean about who and what they are. To do otherwise confuses a subject (human sexuality) that should not be confusing.


  • Name: Tom
    Date posted: 2008-08-11 7:15 PM
    Hometown: San Jose

    Comment:

    Straight men who think they're gay.... Kinsey posited in the 40's that sexuality was not black and white, but could me measured on a continuum from totally gay to totally straight, with all shades of grey in between. Why are we so hung up on black-and-white labels. Sexuality is fluid. Accept that.


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