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Many, Many Points for Us

It was a good week for gays in the news as Ellen and Portia marry, Rachel Maddow gets her own TV show, even Karl Rove says same-sex marriage is no longer a wedge issue, and Esquire asks the question, "What makes a lesbian top?"
An Advocate.com exclusive posted August 21, 2008
Many, Many Points for Us

It’s a major moment when the most mainstream of celebrity mags, People, devotes its cover and many pages inside to the highest-profile gay wedding of our time, that of Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi. It helps that the pair are supremely telegenic and Ellen has gone from showbiz pariah to media darling, but the accomplishment is no less astounding when you consider that we are just a few months from one of the most important elections of our time and shamelessly flirting with an issue that helped sink the Dems just four years ago.

Mark Pasetsky’s Cover Awards calls the moment “historic.” He writes, “When you see this cover of People magazine hitting newsstands on Wed, take a second to let it sink in. It’s Ellen DeGeneres getting married to Portia de Rossi on the cover of People. Who would have ever thought that we would see this day? For all the lesbian and gay partners in the United States, this is more than a magazine cover. It’s another sign that this country is finally getting its act together and treating all people as equal.” He ends his piece by praising People editor Larry Hackett.

DeGeneres’s marriage wasn’t the only hallmark event in gay and lesbian news making the papers. The California supreme court is seemingly unstoppable, issuing another historic ruling this week. Weighing in on a case against conservative Christian doctors who used the First Amendment as a cloak, the court ruled that doctors can’t refuse treatment based on religious grounds. In the original case, the doctors (giving all Christians a bad name everywhere) refused to artificially inseminate a lesbian, ostensibly because she was unmarried. This story was carried by many major outlets, including USNEWS.com, The Washington Post, the Chicago Tribune, and the Los Angeles Times.

Guadalupe T. Benitez of Oceanside sued the doctors when they refused to perform the insemination. She lives with her partner. The Los Angeles Times reported that Christine Brody, an obstetrician and gynecologist at the North Coast Women's Care Medical Group in Vista, refused Benitez's request because “her religious views prevented her from providing the procedure to a lesbian.”

Benitez told the Times, "This isn't just a win for me personally and for other lesbian women. "It's a win for everyone because everyone could be the next target if doctors choose their patients based on religious views about other groups of people."

A Times report from three years ago says Brody and fellow doctor Douglas Fenton refused to perform the procedure because Benitez was single, not because she was gay: “The physicians asserted that they would refuse to artificially inseminate any unmarried woman, regardless of her sexual orientation.”

The Times continued its run of great GLBT coverage with a piece about gay marriage and the black vote and a new ad that is indirectly about the forthcoming vote on Proposition 8 -- which aims to ban gay marriage again in the state. In Timothy Stewart-Winter's op-ed piece about the black vote he ponders Barack Obama’s black supporters coming face-to-face with the gay marriage question. Stewart-Winter thinks all this fretting might be much ado about nothing. He posits, “When constitutional amendments banning same-sex marriage were on 11 state ballots in November 2004, blacks in Arkansas, Kentucky, Michigan, Mississippi, Ohio and Oklahoma were at least one percentage point less likely than whites to vote for them, according to CNN exit polls. Only in Georgia were blacks slightly more likely to vote for the amendment. (The remaining four states had too few blacks to make a meaningful comparison.)”

He also cites a study by Gregory B. Lewis of Georgia State University that concluded “blacks appear to be more likely than whites both to see homosexuality as wrong and to favor gay-rights laws."

The story about the anti-Prop. 8 advertisement running on TV in California -- which depicts a man and a woman meeting a million and one physical obstacles at the altar before ending by asking the question, "What if you couldn't marry the person you love?" -- addresses whether the advert violates federal laws restricting campaign ads by tax-exempt organizations. Produced by Let California Ring, the ad has no mention of Prop. 8, but Frank Schubert, leader of the pro-Prop. 8 effort, quipped, “"It ain't for wedding gowns. Of course it is a campaign ad." 

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  • Name: sam
    Date posted: 2008-08-25 8:55 PM
    Hometown: los angeles

    Comment:

    Honey, And Portia di Rossi is famous? Give me a break. On the other hand, TR Knight is on one of the highest rating shows in America. It rates much higher than Ellen's. Yet People magazine gives his relationship with a man scant coverage. Keep in mind that nothing in the entertainment media happens at random - nothing. It happens by design. The powers-that-be have decided that girl-girl is hot but guy-guy isn't. It's a selectively homophobic hierarchy in the American entertainment media. Thumbs down to the media.


  • Name: honey
    Date posted: 2008-08-25 1:55 PM
    Hometown: seattle

    Comment:

    T.R. Knight does not have a FAMOUS boyfriend. And T.R. Knight isn't exactly A-list either. The Ellen n Portia cover isn't about triumphing over homophobia, it's about celebrity worship. I am loathe to judge our progress by how many magazine covers we make it to. Where homophobia does come in is that there are no OUT A-list gay male actors willing to have their relationships published in magazines.


  • Name: sam
    Date posted: 2008-08-25 7:37 AM
    Hometown: los angeles

    Comment:

    TR Knight of Grey's Anatomy has a boyfriend. Why doesn't People magazine put them on the whole cover? Face it - People magazine is part of a stable of magazines who think only girl-girl is hot. When it comes to guy-guy, they turn their proverbial tails and minimize the coverage or completely ignore them. It's a double standard. If you want to know why liberals don't deserve power, this is it. Thumbs down to People and thumbs down to the women who exploit the double standard.


  • Name: perspective
    Date posted: 2008-08-24 10:31 PM
    Hometown: seattle

    Comment:

    Um... to all the people who are busy bashing People Mag, for not having the courage to put a celebrity gay male couple on the cover.... WHICH GAY MALE CELEB COUPLES WOULD THAT BE??? People, no pun intended, are never satisfied, it's never enough to just mark progress. Give me a break, it's People Magazine, for one. And yes we need to keep pushing for better and more complete media presence, but DAMN! can we just be happy at how far we obviously HAVE come? Portia and Ellen are being covered in the same manner as the Bennifers and the Brangelinas and the other heterosexual CELEBRITY couple combos out there. I don't know of any out gay male celebs who have a celebrity partner. Save for Lance Bass/Reichen Lehmkuhl, and they're not even together anymore. So Umm... is People Magazine supposed to invent gay male couples to put on their magazine or what? Come on!


  • Name: sam
    Date posted: 2008-08-24 2:31 AM
    Hometown: los angeles

    Comment:

    When People magazine puts two men on the whole cover, I might then consider People to have a fair and balanced approach to homosexuality. But I'm not optimistic. People appears to be an example of a liberal media organization which practises a bisexual double standard: sexual fluidity in women, whether in the form of lesbians or bisexual women, is more celebrated than the male version. It's a sleazy double standard which panders to male heterosexual fetishes. A lot of gay and bi men are getting fed up with this liberal double standard in the media.


  • Name: mike
    Date posted: 2008-08-24 2:26 AM
    Hometown: los angeles

    Comment:

    Sorry to break it to you guys but the truth is this: in America, there is a double standard in how female-female is treated relative to male-male. Female-female is considered hot, male-male is considered gross. The people who practise this double standard are liberals and the entertainment industry. Yes, I concede that acceptance of female-female is phony. It's a phony acceptance based on titillation. Nevertheless, it is an acceptance that is not given to male-male interactions.


  • Name: Stacey
    Date posted: 2008-08-22 6:16 PM
    Hometown: St. Louis

    Comment:

    Adam: While I do agree that lesbians do seem to be more widely accepted than gay men, and although that is inarguably unfair, you must look at the bigger picture here. And today, the picture is on the cover of People magazine! As a community, we should be celebrating! Right now is no time to be bitter! That cover only proves that even if our govt. is not ready to accept us and give us equal rights, the general population across the country is becoming more open-minded than we could have imagined ten years ago! I think Ellen has been a shining example of how, if we would just be ourselves, not make a Jerry Springer show out of our lives, more people (and voters) will continue to wake up and realize everyone deserves equality. As for you deciding that you'll never vote liberal because of what Hollywood does, obviously that's your perrogative. On a personal note, Adam, if you're always looking for hatred and discrimination, you will ALWAYS find it.


  • Name: Paul
    Date posted: 2008-08-22 4:04 PM
    Hometown: San Francisco

    Comment:

    Adam, Perhaps you're unaware, but People magazine doesn't currently occupy and isn't running for public office.


  • Name: John
    Date posted: 2008-08-22 10:22 AM
    Hometown: Tampa

    Comment:

    To Adam in LA: How does "not voting for any liberal" advance your argument? Simply abdicate to the conservatives? What can you expect then?


  • Name: adam
    Date posted: 2008-08-22 6:33 AM
    Hometown: los angeles

    Comment:

    Would People put two men on the cover? I doubt it. People is another example of how the liberal entertainment/magazine industry in America discriminates against gay and bisexual men. Because of this, I won't be voting for any liberal.


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