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Hilary Duff Wants You to Stop Saying 'That's So Gay'

“A mind is a terrible thing to waste.” “Friends don’t let friends drive drunk.” “Only you can prevent forest fires.” Since the 1940s the Ad Council has been impacting the culture with slogans like these. Now the venerable nonprofit organization is out to educate teens that antigay slang doesn’t cut it anymore -- and to kick-start the effort, it's recruited Hilary Duff.
An Advocate.com exclusive posted October 8, 2008
 Hilary Duff Wants You to Stop Saying 'That's So Gay'

“A mind is a terrible thing to waste.” “Friends don’t let friends drive drunk.” “Only you can prevent forest fires.” Since the 1940s the Ad Council has been impacting the culture with slogans like these. Now the venerable nonprofit organization is out to educate teens that antigay slang doesn’t cut it anymore -- and to kick-start the effort, it's recruited Hilary Duff. 

Developed in partnership with the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network, the organization that strives to ensure safe schools for all kids, the Ad Council’s new multimedia campaign is the biggest thing ever to address teen hate speech, according to GLSEN executive director Kevin Jennings.

“We were a little startled when they came to us 18 months ago and said, 'We’ve never done a campaign on LGBT issues before. We think it’s time, and we want do it in an education context,'" said Jennings, speaking to The Advocate on the Los Angeles set of the first TV ad. “So we were the natural partner at GLSEN, because our work is about education and about young people.“

Everyone agreed that the problem wasn’t hate but lack of awareness. “Sixty-eight percent of young people frequently or often say 'that’s so gay' to describe things they don’t like,” Jennings said. “Forty-seven percent frequently or often use the words 'fag' or 'faggot' to describe people they don’t like. But when you then ask students about their actual attitudes toward gay people, only 13% say they actively dislike LGBT people. Fifty percent of the students say ‘I don’t really care.’ So you’ve got a lot of kids just picking up the language that they hear other people use.”

The campaign’s strategy was to bypass the true antigay bullies and reach out to what Jennings called “the kid in the middle.”

“If we can get the bystanders to start saying this isn’t acceptable, they will shut the bullies up,” Jennings explained.

The TV ad campaign features slice-of-life scenarios in which celebrities walk in and remind teens that “so gay” is an insult.  While they’re at it, they dish out a dreaded teen punishment: embarrassment.   

In the first TV ad Duff overhears a pair of teen girls trying on clothes in a boutique. “Do you like this top?” one girl asks. “Totally gay,” yawns her friend. 

Enter Duff, who tartly shows the “that’s so gay” girl just how it feels to be ridiculed. She exits over the lines: “When you say ‘that’s so gay,’ do you realize what you say? Knock it off.”

According to Jennings, teens love the spots. “Nobody likes to be lectured, and also most teens don’t believe they’re bad people because they use they use this language, so to yell at them saying, 'You’re bad, you’re bad, stop doing bad things' just wouldn’t resonate with them. “

In a second spot teens get the “knock it off” message from Wanda Sykes -- a past master of the put-down.

Jennings said teens in focus groups asked for Duff and Sykes by name. “When we asked, ‘Who would be a good person for the campaign, Wanda and Hilary were names they offered. So we were incredibly thrilled when [the actresses] actually said yes." 

 

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Stockwell is an editor at large for The Advocate.

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  • Name: Nate
    Date posted: 2008-11-21 2:15 PM
    Hometown: rytuyrejk

    Comment:

    This is so gay! What a waste of our taxpayers money. Freedom of Speech people!


  • Name: Desiree
    Date posted: 2008-11-04 10:03 AM
    Hometown: Fort Fairfield

    Comment:

    (This comment to the poeple who made the gay comment). I dont my kids growing up thinking it is okay to say these kind of things. I think that you need to smarten up. How are you going to react when your children come home one day, and tell you that their gay. WHat are you going to do then? Thats what I thought.... Maybe you should stop!


  • Name: Lindsay Starr
    Date posted: 2008-11-03 5:28 PM
    Hometown: Washington, DC

    Comment:

    This has made me love Hilary Duff even more. I completely support the message in this video. I hate hearing people say "That's so gay" to describe something they dislike.


  • Name: Phil
    Date posted: 2008-10-10 3:39 PM
    Hometown: Reseda

    Comment:

    Yes, don't upset the "LGBT's". They're sensitives. Sorry to burst the bubble, but people are NOT objects. You are not a song or a dress or a movie. You can't objectify women but you must objectify gays? Don't think I'm not going to say it but I am. This ad campaign is gay. Chris Crocker gay.


  • Name: Caylis
    Date posted: 2008-10-10 1:36 PM
    Hometown: Dallas

    Comment:

    Wow. I suddenly find myself really liking Hilary Duff.


  • Name: John F. Reese, Sr.
    Date posted: 2008-10-09 3:57 PM
    Hometown: Phoenix, Arizona

    Comment:

    We need to educate the entire world to "celebrate uniqueness!!!" Were it not for people who "think differently or view the world differently," we would never progress. This is why it is important that the GLBT Community stands up and stands out; the more we are known, the more the straight community will realize that we are more alike than different. I applaud the Ad Council for their vision and proactive advancement of more noble ideals.


  • Name: Don Charles
    Date posted: 2008-10-09 1:16 PM
    Hometown: Kansas City

    Comment:

    I hope this campaign includes opposition to casual usage of "dyke" and "queer", but somehow I doubt that it will.


  • Name: David
    Date posted: 2008-10-09 12:49 PM
    Hometown: Toronto

    Comment:

    The ads are great, how would straight people like it if we said "that's sooo straight". Can't people just be people, straight, gay, black, white, etc.


  • Name: Micca
    Date posted: 2008-10-09 7:09 AM
    Hometown: Rockledge, Fl

    Comment:

    I would like to see one of the ads express this idea: To the older people as well as the younger people who do the bullying, I suggest to them that, "You are bullying these folks now... what will you do or say to YOUR child when he/she says to you mom/dad I am gay? How will YOU respond to them that they are being bullied by kids at school because they are gay?" I push this idea as often and where ever as I can!


  • Name: Steve
    Date posted: 2008-10-09 6:31 AM
    Hometown: Fremont, CA

    Comment:

    Vote Yes on Proposition 8. Protect families and marriage. Protect children from indoctrination.


  • Name: john in SF
    Date posted: 2008-10-09 1:18 AM
    Hometown: San Francisco

    Comment:

    I love this. I am gay and have a couple of friends that say this. I know they know I am gay and we are freinds, but I don't think they realize how it makes gay people feel. Often they will say oh, I don't mean that in a bad way, it is like 8th grade gay. WHat they don't think about is how I felt in the 8th grade. I remember that as a hard time and part of that was being called gay, so I can't really say oh, if that's what you mean, then it is okay. It is not okay. The Ad council is exactly right, a lot of people think it is fine, but if they stopped and thought about it, they wouldn't say that. So, knock it off. Think about other people's feelings.


  • Name: Dan
    Date posted: 2008-10-08 7:00 PM
    Hometown: St. Louis

    Comment:

    Anything that aims to eliminate inadvertent stupidity is a good thing. Way to go, Ad Council.


  • Name: Paul
    Date posted: 2008-10-08 6:41 PM
    Hometown: Winona

    Comment:

    Hilary duff is awesome now!!! This ad is funny and I love it, it has a great message!


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