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NCIS Star Pauley Perrette Takes On Prop. 8

NCIS star Pauley Perrette calls herself a "Christian, churchgoing, Bible-quoting, praying, thinking civil rights activist" -- which might explain the actress's passionate letter and grassroots efforts urging Californians to vote no on Prop. 8.
An Advocate.com exclusive posted October 27, 2008
NCIS Star Pauley Perrette Takes On Prop. 8

TV audiences know her as Abby, the kooky goth chick that works in the forensics lab and helps solve murders on the top-rated CBS procedural NCIS. But in real life the only thing that Pauley Perrette shares with her television alter ego is a tendency toward hyperactivity...and right now Perrette is pretty hyper over Proposition 8, the proposed constitutional amendment that would eliminate the right of same-sex couples to marry in the state of California.

Long a fan of the gays -- Perrette has said in interviews that she was virtually “raised” by the drag queens that worked in the bars she would sneak off to as a teenager growing up near Atlanta -- Perrette recently began a grassroots online effort to convince people to vote no on Prop. 8. She composed a heartfelt and passionate letter challenging the religious right’s allegations that legal same-sex marriage would negatively affect church rights and would be taught in schools, then sent it out to everybody in her address book.

Perrette, who recently got engaged to longtime boyfriend Michael Bosman, sat down with Advocate.com to talk about why the issue is so important to her, and how the outcome of the next election may influence her own decision to get married.

Advocate.com: What compelled you to write this essay?
Pauley Perrette: I’ve recognized for a long time that the discrimination of the gay community in so many ways mirrors that of the women's suffrage movement and the racial civil rights movement of the '60s. It's the same thing -- one group wanting to keep rights away from another group in the land of equality. When the government has the power to take away the rights of any group, all are vulnerable. We have given the government the power to strip anyone of their rights. I believe the civil rights challenge of the gay community is our generation's issue to fight and make right, just as brave Americans before us have changed the plights of women and people of color, and it’s important for evolved, intelligent, and passionate straight people to speak out strongly against the iniquities forced upon out gay brothers and sisters.

Who were you looking to speak to or reach with it?
Well, I would love for women, people of color, and churchgoers to read what I wrote. Women and people of color should relate completely to being discriminated against and should continue to always fight for the civil rights of all. The religious community...well, they try to accuse supporters of gay rights of being heathens, et cetera. Nope, I've read the same book, and I am in church on Sunday. I speak their language, and they are using the beauty of God and love to promote hate. For all those "Christians" out there who think they are doing the Lord's work with their campaign of hate and intolerance, I'm a Christian, churchgoing, Bible-quoting, praying, thinking civil rights activist, and I support gay rights and civil rights for all. Bring it on; I'm ready.

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  • Name: Mrs. Gloria J and Lonnie White
    Date posted: 2009-06-30 5:35 PM
    Hometown: Sulhur

    Comment:

    Paulette, we watch you alot on NCIS, and admire lyour work, and you are right Pastors use their attitudes like a Judge with a hammer in his hand, to get peoples attention, my husband says go for it, you are a Great Actor, and myself admire your boldness to stand for Christianity, gjwhite2009@yahoo.com, Sulphur, Oklahoma, 73086, and looking for Series 7 to come on, in Sept../ inamerica47@yahoo.com


  • Name: Michael Buchanan
    Date posted: 2008-12-10 4:58 AM
    Hometown: LA

    Comment:

    This person isn't 'doing' anything more than self-promotion. How does that help the cause? A few more gays watch NCIS? I don't see that helping anyone other than Pauley Perette.


  • Name: Matthew
    Date posted: 2008-11-25 4:47 PM
    Hometown: Hodges.

    Comment:

    Screw straight publications. Actually, screw any sexual orientation based label on a publication. Complaining about someone actually trying to correct a perceived injustice, and you complain because they didn't do it how you wanted them to. Boo hoo.


  • Name: Dave
    Date posted: 2008-11-11 4:52 AM
    Hometown: New Zealand

    Comment:

    I feel so sorry for you all over there in America, the land of the free.... One of our Cabinet ministers is openly gay and will soon be appointed Attorney General. NZ also had the world's first transexual politician, transvestite mayor of a major city and we have reformed prostitution bills and gay marriage is legal. And we didn't get any of it by moaning about the level of involvement from "straight Hollywood". Instead of falling into reverse discrimination for fear of ever being devoid of someone/something to complain about, the Kiwi spirit engenders unity from all communities to raise awareness and bring about change. Thank you Pauley Perrette for lending your time, your fame and your positive energy to the prop. 8 issue. I hope your efforts aren't wasted on a puritanical society that can't clean up it's own backyard, but insists on shipping troops into someone else's all in the name of God.


  • Name: Xavier Chapa
    Date posted: 2008-10-30 6:33 AM
    Hometown: Amsterdam, NL

    Comment:

    If you hold the 10% rule, does that mean there are only 90 gays in Tesuque, NM?


  • Name: Michael Buchanan
    Date posted: 2008-10-30 6:18 AM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    Mark, your gay credentials have now been called into question since you quoted that 10% figure. No gay person I know buys into that propaganda. That figure is reserved for those who want to remind us how powerless we are. Why should we listen to you anyway?


  • Name: Xavier Chapa
    Date posted: 2008-10-30 5:50 AM
    Hometown: Amsterdam, NL

    Comment:

    Mark, though I appreciate the efforts the straight celebrities are making, they weren't the ones initially pushing for gay equality. Yet, somehow they are the ones being highlighted in the media...especially the gay media. If they really cared about this issue, they'd use mainstream outlets to support us, because conservative straight voters aren't reading the Advocate. The Advocate is a gay publication. It should feature gay people who have courageously challenged the courts for our equality. Not another straight celebrity who is trying to win a GLAAD award.


  • Name: Michael Buchanan
    Date posted: 2008-10-30 5:23 AM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    Mark, are you being serious? How many straight christians do you think subscribe to the Advocate or even visit online? If you believe it is so crucial for Pauley to publish such a letter, then let her submit it to a STRAIGHT publication. We don't need to hear it, especially from B-list Hollywood actors. Preaching to the choir for praise is pretty shallow, if you ask me.


  • Name: Mark
    Date posted: 2008-10-30 4:11 AM
    Hometown: Tesuque, NM

    Comment:

    Xavier and Michael, yes, you are correct that prominent gay men and women do need to come to the forefront of this battle and be visible. However, it is good to remember that statistically, gays/lesbians account for 10% of the population. It will take more than that percentage to defeat Prop 8 which means the straight community must mobilize as well. Some more conservative straight voters will relate to other straight men/women speaking out to defeat Prop 8 better than they will a gay man or woman. Perhaps sad, but it's true. Therefore, straight men and women who wish to be on the side of equal rights, at least for me, are more than welcome and I thank them for their support.


  • Name: Xavier
    Date posted: 2008-10-29 12:40 PM
    Hometown: Amsterdam, NL

    Comment:

    Right on Michael Buchanan! When was the last time the Advocate featured an OUT gay person? This is part of the reason why gay equality progresses into oblivion because straights are the only ones being featured in the media speaking on our behalf--and what's disturbing is the gay press eats it up like it's making a whoop of difference. At the end of the day, THEY are still protected under the law, while my rights are being debated in courts. You think change would have still happened if MLK were white or if Gandhi were British? We need our own leaders speaking for us and we need the Advocate to cover them!


  • Name: Michael Buchanan
    Date posted: 2008-10-29 9:01 AM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    Hey Pauley, if Prop 8 passes, is the wedding off?


  • Name: Michael Buchanan
    Date posted: 2008-10-29 7:15 AM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    My beef is not with Pauley. She has every right to write any letter she wants. My beef is with this magazine that obviously favors the opinions of non-gays over the actual people suffering because of these propositions. It has been shown, over and over, that people who know gay people personally are more likely to support gay equality. Constantly presenting the opinions of heterosexuals does nothing to change the minds of Christians who have their minds made up. The Advocate could serve our community better by getting OUR stories out there.


  • Name: Michael Buchanan
    Date posted: 2008-10-29 4:45 AM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    This is exactly why Pauley wrote her letter so we can all praise her and tell her how wonderful she is. Where, oh where would the gay community be without people like Pauley to speak on our behalf. If prop 8 fails, it will be because Pauley Perrette decided to write a friggin' letter. Give me a break.


  • Name: Mark
    Date posted: 2008-10-29 3:14 AM
    Hometown: Santa Fe, nM

    Comment:

    Michael, in order to defeat Prop 8, it takes everyone to stand up and be heard! That means straight people!


  • Name: Kate Doolan
    Date posted: 2008-10-29 12:13 AM
    Hometown: Melbourne, Australia

    Comment:

    Thanks Pauley: If there were more Christians like you, the world would be a much better place for the LGBTI community. I am totally fed up with the so called arbiters of morality trying to push their beliefs on the rest of us. From an Aussie, please vote next week cause the world can't have four more years of the same!


  • Name: Art M.
    Date posted: 2008-10-28 10:41 PM
    Hometown: SF>CA>USA

    Comment:

    Abby (the CORRECT spelling of her character's name) does NOT work in the morgue. She works in the Forensics lab. Geez - Didn't ANYONE vet this story??? SORRY PAULEY!!! You have Gay fans who DO watch the show and know who you are!!!


  • Name: Wil Lavender
    Date posted: 2008-10-28 5:22 PM
    Hometown: Milliegeville GA

    Comment:

    I knew there was a reason I loved her. She is right. Most people read the bible and view it to serve there own purpose, right or wrong. I do hope they vote no on prop. 8. Then those who wanted to vote yes to it can focus on issues that can truly make us all equal. Love for all no matter who you love....


  • Name: Michael Buchanan
    Date posted: 2008-10-28 6:31 AM
    Hometown: Los Angeles

    Comment:

    Pauley Perrette is a nice girl, but come on, Advocate. Where are the interviews with people who are actually effected by this proposition? When do we get to hear their stories? Do we have to star on some TV show before you guys will interview us? I believe the attention she is getting for writing a letter is offensive to our cause. I know I'll be shouted down for not groveling at her feet, but we don't need straight Hollywood to speak for us any longer. We need to start speaking for ourselves. Thanks anyway Pauley, for putting your career on the line, but I'm tired of buying into this idea that straight actors are some how risking something by speaking out for gay causes. It seems to me that only gay actors are actually the ones risking their careers when they speak out about such issues. For the straights, it means more work, more interviews, more magazine covers, perhaps a GLAAD Award and maybe an Oscar. I'm tired of it.


  • Name: Mark
    Date posted: 2008-10-27 7:34 PM
    Hometown: Tesuque, NM

    Comment:

    Dear Pauley, Thank you for your honesty and your willingness to state your beliefs eloquently and heartfelt. Christians such as yourself give me hope that one day we may all be seen as equal in this country though I'm unsure it will happen in my lifetime. Thank you again for your support. Your fiancee is indeed a lucky man. For those Christians who may be reading this, perhaps this is something that will strike a chord for you. The Bible clearly states that, if we want to judge somebody, we should start with ourselves and our fellow believers (1 Peter 4:17). And if you're truly a Christian, it should also make you quake with humility that "judgment is without mercy to one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment" (James 2:13).


  • Name: Josh
    Date posted: 2008-10-27 6:38 PM
    Hometown: Detroit, MI

    Comment:

    Thanx for this story I have enjoyed Pauley Perrette on NCIS and it's nice to know that the actress is as likable and outspoken as her character. I'm not a Christian myself but I think the world needs more like her. Here's hoping she opens a few minds by being able to "speak their language."


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