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Finding the Silver Lining in Defeat

Three weeks ago, like many LGBT Americans, I woke up with, to say the least, mixed feelings. The euphoria of Barack Obama’s election and the expansion of the pro-LGBT majority in Congress was tempered by sadness and anger at our devastating losses in Arizona, Arkansas, Florida, and, of course, California. The silver lining of these defeats has been a renewed focus nationwide on the issue of marriage equality.
An Advocate.com exclusive posted November 24, 2008
Finding the Silver Lining in Defeat

Three weeks ago, like many LGBT Americans, I woke up with, to say the least, mixed feelings. The euphoria of Barack Obama’s election and the expansion of the pro-LGBT majority in Congress was tempered by sadness and anger at our devastating losses in Arizona, Arkansas, Florida, and, of course, California. The silver lining of these defeats has been a renewed focus nationwide on the issue of marriage equality and an invigorated grassroots energy that has sent tens of thousands of LGBT people and our allies into the streets since the election.

These protests demonstrate that, despite the blow our community has been dealt, the struggle for marriage equality goes on. We anxiously wait to see if the California supreme court will again stand up for the principles of the California constitution and the equality of LGBT people by invalidating Proposition 8, a discriminatory referendum on our fundamental rights that should never have been put to a popular vote.

Regardless of the outcome of this case, we will remain focused on moving marriage equality forward in California and across the country. With this month’s election of greater numbers of fair-minded legislators, we have a real opportunity to pass a marriage equality bill in New York. There is also promise in several other states, including New Jersey, Rhode Island, and Vermont. And we will continue to look for opportunities to utilize the tremendous energy generated by our losses on November 4 to advance the cause of marriage equality on every front.

Our community must not lose sight, however, of the tremendous potential that the elections of Barack Obama and an increasingly fair-minded Congress offer for moving our nation, including LGBT people, forward. We are inspired that, in Barack Obama and Joe Biden, we have elected the most pro-LGBT leadership in our nation’s history.

Even as he prepares to take office, President-elect Obama has demonstrated that the commitment he showed to the LGBT community throughout his historic campaign will continue during the Obama administration. Within days of its inception, his Transition Project instituted a fully inclusive nondiscrimination policy for those applying for positions within the new administration. In addition, a number of openly gay people have been selected to contribute their considerable expertise to the transition.

But our community can expect much more than just fairness in hiring practices from the Obama administration. Last week, the Obama Transition Project published an extensive agenda for the next four years, including a section on key policies for LGBT people and families, on its website. The Obama-Biden plan reiterates strong support for inclusive hate-crimes and employment discrimination protections, repeal of the discriminatory Defense of Marriage Act and “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy, and a stronger and more strategic response to the domestic HIV/AIDS epidemic.

Never before have we had such ambitious leadership on LGBT issues in the White House. But none of these important goals can be accomplished without the support, participation, and vigilance of LGBT people and our allies. President Obama and our partners in Congress cannot win legislative victories without the active engagement of our community. Not every Democratic member of Congress is an ally, and not every Republican is an opponent. We must work with the Obama administration to utilize our community’s renewed energy -- both the excitement about our triumphs and the anger over our defeats -- to win a majority of votes in Congress on our priorities. 

I hope you will join me in working to ensure that the energy generated by our mixed emotions on the morning of November 5 drives the task at hand: making equality a reality for all of us.  

- Joe Solmonese is the president of the Human Rights Campaign.

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  • Name: Robert
    Date posted: 2008-11-29 11:17 AM
    Hometown: Brooklyn

    Comment:

    I am a member of HRC and remain angry with the limited response to the passage of Prop 8. The day after the passing of this "puttimg the rights of a particular group up for a popular vote" I contacted HRC in D.C. and was told that they have not planned anything at this time. When I asked about the planned march outside the Mormon Temple in NYC- again I was told that HRC was not responsible and was unable to speak to any action at this time. I asked about the validity of an email I received requesting I file a complaint with the IRS about the massive amounts of time and money the church put into it's campain of hate-again the HRC rep. simply said that "I know it's devastating but at this time HRC has no plans." This is unacceptable.


  • Name: Karen Green and Lynne Archbald
    Date posted: 2008-11-28 4:46 PM
    Hometown: Milwaukee, WI

    Comment:

    I am a member of the grassroots, disenfranchised who attended rallies to protest prop 8. I don't agree that leaders like Joe are missing the sounds of the grassroots protesters. I think we are all in this together, but we don't plan together, nor do we plan strategically. The 1950's civil rights movement had some excellent planners and we lack that. I agree with Joe Solmonese that the most effective action we can all take is to come out over and over again. Gayness is not hereditary so our children do not pick up the mantel. Each one of us, in each generation, makes a choice, to fight for our rights or to shut up, put up, and pretend to be straight.


  • Name: Jim Debakis
    Date posted: 2008-11-28 1:36 PM
    Hometown: Salt Lake City

    Comment:

    Dear Joe As a long time HRC Federal Club member, I say, HRC is irrelevant and totally out of touch. Sitting high atop the HRC world headquarters you missed the sound of the grass roots marching in the streets. You missed the anger and pain. You missed the people you are suppose to represent. You are 'input' impossible. HRC has lots of web sites but nothing to get input from the community. Nothing. It is like the grassroots are all just a pain, an obstacle to your progress. Good for nothing but sending checks. Where was the leadership and logistical help for 300 marches in cities across America? HRC missed the biggest GLBT moment of our lifetime,. Issueing outdated press releases and calling on the community to be loving and kumbia-like, So, Joe, your latest idea of 'moving beyond prop 8' is nothing new. You and HRC moved on-- the night after the election. Enjoy sitting on the throne in DC, being irrelavant and tone-deaf to the community. As it will not last long.


  • Name: Jeff Nelson
    Date posted: 2008-11-26 1:23 AM
    Hometown: Denver, CO

    Comment:

    You know, it's really interesting what the so-called "gay press" and our leaders think is worth getting riled up about. I live in Colorado, and two years ago, not only was gay marriage banned, but all co-habitating relationships, gay and straight, were banned from any sort of recognition. I don't remember seeing any of it on the news, gay or straight. The one good thing about this debacle is that the movement has switched from being led by the wealthy elite of our community, to a real grass roots movement from the ground up. People of lesser means are using the net to rip away the masks of our so-called "friends" , and activists are starting to worry and get angry more about their civil rights, rather than their paychecks. It's about damn time.


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