
Coming-of-age stories will always retain appeal for gay people. They remind us that we can emerge whole from family dysfunction -- even when queerness is seen as an unforgivable sin -- and that the unique unhappiness of other families can be fascinating.
Big New York publishing houses aim most of these types of novels at the teen market. So it’s refreshing to find that Backslide, by Teresa Stores, was written for adults. Don’t let the uninspired brown-and-red cover deceive you: The story, published by indie press Spinsters Ink, illustrates in living color what it was like to grow up as a Southern Baptist in the ’60s, navigating the bumpy road from loneliness and sexual denial to self-assurance.
The outlines of Virge Young’s fictional journey -- from an earnest young churchgoer smothered in polyester and panty hose to a spiky blond lesbian mother who defends her lifestyle on national TV -- are both familiar and idealized. But it’s the depth of Stores’s characterizations of the protagonist’s friends and family that give Backslide its resonance.
Told largely in flashback, the book centers on Virge’s youth in Jacksonville, Fla., in a working-class family, where she tries -- and fails -- to make herself invisible to her iron-fisted father. When Virge brings home her best friend, Ricki Ann, her father is enraged by the girl’s flirty blue eye shadow and tight “Snoopy for President” T-shirt, which he deems “unpatriotic.” But those charms aren’t lost on Virge, who agrees to practice kissing with Ricki Ann because they’re about to enter junior high and “should be all ready.” It’s a familiar scenario, yet full of yearning that becomes even more palpable after Ricki Ann drops Virge for more popular friends the following school year. It’s to Stores’s credit that Ricki Ann remains as vivid and shrewd a foe as she was a friend.
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