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Remembering Matthew
Ten years after his brutal murder, those who knew him best -- and those who learned of him only at the end -- remember that week in October and reflect on the legacy of Matthew Shepard.
An Advocate.com exclusive posted  October 21, 2008
Remembering Matthew

On Wednesday, October 7, 1998, Matthew Shepard was found tied to a fence on the Wyoming prairie, barely alive, his skull fractured and his brain stem crushed. Comatose, he was taken first to a Laramie hospital, then to a better-equipped one in Fort Collins, Colo., where he died five days later. We may never know what his killers, Aaron McKinney and Russell Henderson, intended to do when they first approached Shepard at Laramie’s Fireside Lounge. We only know that, whatever their intention, they ended up murdering him.

Almost instantly, his death became a flash point in this country’s reckoning with gay people, and the cute, clean-cut 21-year-old became a symbol of the ravages of intolerance. The tragedy sparked vigils around the world and led to federal hate-crimes legislation that bears Shepard’s name, currently pending in Congress. (Democratic presidential nominee Barack Obama has promised to sign the bill if elected.)

Shepard’s impact can also be felt in the work of the Matthew Shepard Foundation, headed by his mother, Judy, whom we spoke with for the following oral history -- along with friends and Laramie residents; the police chief who oversaw the investigation into the murder; and artists influenced by that tumultuous week.

JUDY SHEPARD
When we got the phone call, they talked to my husband, Dennis. We lived in Saudi Arabia at the time. They just let him know that Matt was in the hospital and that his condition was critical.

TIFFANY EDWARDS Hunt, former Laramie Boomerang reporter
I was in the newsroom. I had the afternoon/night shift, and I heard some things on the police scanner. They had scrambled it, so I was trying to understand what kind of code they were talking. I had a vague idea of where they were because there’s a bike trail out there. I remember thinking, Oh, I wonder if this is a university hazing.

REVEREND ROGER SCHMIT, then-pastor of St. Paul’s Newman Center in Laramie
I got a phone call from parents of a university student. They lived very close to where Matthew [was found], and they said something like, “This is probably going to end up in your lap: They just found a student really injured badly. Seems to have been beaten out there at that fence.” Somehow they knew he had a University of Wyoming student I.D. card. Later I called the hospital and found out they had already taken him to Fort Collins.

ROMAINE PATTERSON, Shep-ard’s friend; now a Sirius OutQ show host
I was working at a gay coffee shop in Denver that Matthew had frequented. [Shepard lived in the city briefly before enrolling at the University of Wyoming.] One of our regular customers called and left a message for me to watch the evening news. He had seen a story that a young man named Matthew Shepard had been in a fight or something in Wyoming. The idea that Matt was in an altercation seemed absurd to me; I thought he must have a broken arm. I watched the news and called my sister Trish, who lived in Laramie. She said, “These two guys took this kid out to the boonies and robbed and beat him really horribly, and now he’s probably going to die.” I said, “I think he might be my friend.”

SHEPARD
We didn’t have any information. But I was pretty sure that someone had beaten him up because he was gay.

DAVE O’MALLEY, then–Laramie police chief
Aaron McKinney and Russell Henderson had been involved in a serious aggravated assault on two Hispanic guys that we had investigated the night before Matt was found. During that investigation Matt’s bank card was found in McKinney’s truck. About 18 hours later we got the report from a young man who had been riding his bicycle in the country and had found Matt tied to a fence there.

PATTERSON
I called all our mutual friends and after that was just alone with my thoughts. The early reports gave some of the basic information: He had been left overnight in the cold, he was possibly beaten with a baseball bat, his body was covered with red welts, he had possibly had his skin burned. I spent that first night just reliving what must have happened. I cried a lot. I didn’t sleep.

JIM OSBORN, Shepard’s friend; then-president of the University of Wyoming’s LGBT organization
I got an e-mail from friends who had been in contact with [police chief] O’Malley. They said that it could be a hate crime. I immediately got a second e-mail saying, “Don’t say anything to anybody, because we don’t want to compromise the investigation. We’re still trying to piece together where Matt was.” I said, “I need to talk to somebody, because I know where he was Tuesday night: He was at the LGBT meeting with me.”

BOB BECK, Wyoming Public Radio news director and University of Wyoming journalism instructor
A student in my broadcast news class called and said he needed to go to the hospital in Fort Collins. We had a major assignment due, and I said, “You’d better have a damn good reason.” He said, “I can’t tell you, but you’re probably going to report on it: A friend of mine was seriously beaten up.”

CATHY RENNA, then-director of community relations for the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation
I was in Washington, D.C. I started getting all these e-mails and phone messages. We heard from people across the country; they were outraged.

EDWARDS
The day after Matt was discovered there was a joint press conference between the police and the sheriff’s department, and they’d distributed a press release. After reading it I was motivated to ask, “Do you think this is a hate crime?” The sheriff’s deputy said yes. The Denver Post called me that night, and they asked me what went on at the press conference. I told the reporter that the sheriff said it was a hate crime. They published that, and that’s when the floodgates opened.

BECK
We were covering it like a murder. When you’re in Wyoming, you don’t have more than 15 [murders] a year. Then to go to the press conference and hear the sheriff call it a hate crime -- whoa. We’d never had anybody refer to anything in Wyoming as a hate crime.

JONAS SLONAKER, current Laramie resident
I was 42 then. A friend of mine called me up and said, “Did you hear about Matthew Shepard? This kid was severely beaten because he was gay.” I was getting ready to move from Laramie. When it happened I said, “Oh, I’m glad I’m getting out of this place.”

OSBORN
Thursday night I started getting phone calls from the campus paper. By the next day we were getting phone calls from Dateline NBC and Good Morning America. 

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  • Name: Jeff Mack
    Date posted: 2008-09-30 2:56 PM
    Hometown: Chugwater, Wyoming

    Comment:

    I too, was a friend of Matthew and was involved on the UW Campus as an admission counselor. That day became the day that I chose to dedicate my life to the equality of the LGBT community. I was born and advocate that day. We have come a long way but still have far to go. I can't believe we are still fighting the discrimination that we are. Proposition 8 in California is ridiculous! And there are still families kicking their kids out because of their sexual orientation or gender identity. I have worked for the Human Rights Campaign, then Outfest and now Point Foundation and am amazed at the dedicated individuals out there who are working to fight for equality. The top of the list is Judy. Judy is an inspiration to us all and my personal hero. What an amazing woman! We miss you Matthew. We are better for having known you.


  • Name: David Walker
    Date posted: 2008-09-29 1:26 PM
    Hometown: Hummelstown, PA

    Comment:

    I design sound for plays. I worked on a regional production of "The Laramie Project." Opening night was on an anniversary of the attack on Matt. It was horrible, chilling to go through that chronology and to know that on this day, this happened; on this day, Matt died. And I know that it also hit a lot of the audience that way, too. It was perhaps one of the hardest plays emotionally I've ever done, and certainly one that I was very proud to do. Understand, techies are part of the play, too, and take as much pride in our work as any actor. To be involved in telling Matt's story for a 4-week run was a truly unforgettable experience. And even now, several years later, when I work with an actor who was involved in that production, he or she will bring up "The Laramie Project" and talk about what it was like to be in that production.


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