
No one called for
a boycott of the WNBA after Sheryl Swoopes announced
she was gay. The league didn't ask for any of her MVP awards
back. Her sponsors are still writing her checks.
Any initial surprise has quickly turned to a
shrug of indifference, and even if the WNBA is not the
NBA in terms of public appeal, that reaction shows how
far society has come. And how far we still have to go. While
Swoopes is accepted whether she's a wife, a single mother,
or a lesbian, gay men are buried deep in the pro
sports closet.
"I don't see that happening any time soon,"
Swoopes said Friday about the possibility that a
high-profile male athlete might come out. "But you
know what? I didn't really see this happening either. At
least not now, and it did. I wish, as a society, as a world,
that this wouldn't be an issue anymore. Unfortunately,
it is."
Times have changed since 1981, when Billie Jean
King lost millions in endorsements after admitting to
a lesbian affair. Today, numerous athletes in women's
golf, tennis, and basketball are open about their
sexuality and aren't punished for it. Martina Navratilova,
Rosie Jones, and now Swoopes even added endorsements
from Olivia Cruises, a lesbian travel company.
There have been a few openly gay male athletes,
mainly in sports like figure skating. But football,
baseball, basketball, and hockey remain straight man's
land. There's never been an openly gay athlete in Major
League Baseball, the NBA, NFL, or NHL, and only a handful
have come out after they've retired. "We've been
socialized to put male athletes on a pedestal with
regard to their manliness, their toughness, their
strength, their machismo," said Peter Roby, director of the
Center for the Study of Sport in Society at
Northeastern University. "Because we've also been
socialized to think that anything that references a
less than macho image is negative or less than good, there's
created this phobia about homosexuals in a male locker room."
When there were whispers about quarterback
Kordell Stewart's sexuality, he set his teammates
straight in no uncertain terms. Mike Piazza felt
compelled to call a news conference three years ago to say
he's not gay. But the culture persists. Last year,
Miami Dolphins linebacker Junior Seau had to apologize
after he jokingly used the term "faggot" in describing
the relationship with his teammates.
"The display of masculinity, in too many cases,
is almost the essence of how we play the sport," said
Richard Lapchick, director of the Institute for
Diversity and Ethics in Sport at Central Florida. "That
does not make for a comfortable situation for an athlete to
come out."
So why should we care? Unless a crime is being
committed, what an athlete does off the field is
really nobody else's business. Except that sports are
the prism through which we view society. Real progress in
the civil rights movement didn't come until after
Jackie Robinson put on a Dodgers uniform. AIDS was a
disease for gay men and drug addicts until Magic
Johnson announced he was HIV-positive. Cocaine was a
"recreational drug" until it killed Len Bias.
Homosexuality is one of the most divisive issues
in this country today, with a debate raging about a
constitutional ban on same-sex marriage. But if an
openly gay male wore the New York Yankees' pinstripes or
played for the New England Patriots, it would take the
arguments in an entirely different direction. It's a
little hard to hate someone when he's hitting cleanup
for your favorite team.
"It will be a turning point on the discourse and
will signal that homophobia is becoming a thing of the
past," said Eric Anderson, a professor at the
University of Bath and author of In the Game: Gay
Athletes and the Cult of Masculinity. "It's
more of a benchmark of how we're doing as an American
people than sport in general."
We're not there—not yet. But maybe
someone like Swoopes moves us a little closer. She's a
three-time WNBA MVP, the female Michael Jordan, and the
first player after M.J. to get her own Nike shoe. And while
the WNBA is still on the fringe of professional
sports, Swoopes is the highest-profile athlete to come
out since Navratilova.
"I was concerned," Swoopes said. "I can see why
it would be hard for people to make that decision.
Seeing the reaction has been so good, it does make me
think, Why the hell did it take me so long?"
(Nancy Armour, AP)
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