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06/28/08-06/30/08

Michelle Obama Says Husband Will Fight for LGBT Equality

Michelle Obama Says Husband Will Fight for LGBT Equality

Barack Obama will fight for equal rights for gays just as he fought to help working-class families overcome poverty, the Democratic presidential hopeful's wife told a gay Democratic group.

Recalling his past work as a community organizer to help struggling families, Michelle Obama said he would take the same approach as president.

''Barack believes that we must fight for the world as it should be, a world where together we work to reverse discriminatory laws,'' she said Thursday at a Manhattan fund-raiser for the Democratic National Committee's Gay and Lesbian Leadership Council.

Michelle Obama also drew a connection between the struggles for gay rights and civil rights.

''We are all only here because of those who marched and bled and died, from Selma to Stonewall, in the pursuit of a more perfect union,'' she said at the event, held days before the anniversary of the 1969 Stonewall riots between gays and New York police, and the city's annual gay pride parade.

''The world as it is should be one that rejects discrimination of all kinds,'' she said.

Touting her husband's record pushing for workplace discrimination legislation as an Illinois state senator and his support of civil unions, Obama noted her husband also had brought a call for equality to conservative groups, telling churchgoers they need to combat homophobia in the black community.

The Illinois senator opposes a constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage and says states should make their own decisions on the matter. He has said he's interested in ensuring that same-sex couples in civil unions get federal benefits.

His Republican opponent, John McCain, also opposes a federal constitutional amendment but worked to ban gay marriage in his home state of Arizona. McCain supports the military's ''don't ask, don't tell'' policy, while Obama has called it ''counterproductive.''

Michelle Obama's speech brought a standing ovation from the crowd of about 200 donors, who raised about $1.3 million, organizers said.

Earlier Thursday, she spoke in Manchester, N.H., and credited Hillary Rodham Clinton, her husband's rival for the Democratic nomination, with bringing the concerns of working families to the forefront of the presidential campaign.

She heard from New Hampshire women juggling such work and family concerns as child care and caring for aging parents. She explained her husband's plans to expand sick time and paid family leave, help parents afford child care, and make sure women get equal pay for equal work.

''We are closer to this America than ever before, and that's because of an extraordinary woman who's not in this room but she's traveling with my husband tomorrow, and that woman is Hillary Clinton,'' Michelle Obama said to sustained applause.

''I know that the folks here in New Hampshire know this better than anyone because you got to know the candidates up close and personal, but because of Hillary Clinton's work the issues of importance to women and working families are front and center.''

Clinton and Barack Obama are to make their first public joint appearance Friday in Unity, N.H. (Samantha Gross, AP)

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  • Name: P.J.
    Date posted: 2008-09-20 1:22 PM
    Hometown: Saucier, Mississippi

    Comment:

    We cannot count on states to individually do anything for the Gay community or to allow gay marriage. Let's be honest folks: Slavery would still be happening today if a President hadn't stepped in and done something about it, because the people of the USA, especially in the southern USA where I live, would have been perfectly fine still keeping slaves. THIS is the main reason why we can't count on states filled with biggoted people to do what a small minority knows is right. We need a President with the courage to publicly come out and do what other countries such as The Netherlands, Canada, Brittain, Spain, etc.. have done and simply sign into law equality. The religious wackos will get over it in time, and we will finally have equality, if only on paper.


  • Name: Eric
    Date posted: 2008-06-30 8:54 AM
    Hometown: Chicago

    Comment:

    I live in Chicago. FACT: James Meek's of Salem Baptist Church. appeared countless times for Obama's campaign for US senator. For all you non-Chicagoans, Meeks is the pastor there and also a state senator. Its a huge predominately Black Church on the southside of Chicago. And Meeks is a close pal of Obama's. His church has put on plays depicting gay people as messengers of Satan. And homosexuality as the 'biggest evil' in all of society. About 2 years ago the Chicago Sun-Times somewhat got after Meeks for all this. He remained defiant. And Obama did NOT say anything. Just letting you all know.


  • Name: Mike
    Date posted: 2008-06-30 8:53 AM
    Hometown: Boston

    Comment:

    Even if Obama (or any main party presidential nominee) supported full marriage rights, he wouldn't be able to say it. That would ensure that he loose the election. That's the sad commentary about this country. Therefore, I don't think we should force his hand on this. I sincerely believe he'll be more gay friendly than McCain. We're simply in the position of having to take what we can get. I do dream of the day when a presidential candidate can explicitly say "yes" to gay marriage, and STILL win the election.


  • Name: Xavier Chapa
    Date posted: 2008-06-30 7:47 AM
    Hometown: Hamburg, Germany

    Comment:

    It's hard to believe Michelle's words when her husband last week allowed Kirbyjon Caldwell to act as an official representative to his campaign. Kirbyjon Caldwell is a proponent of the "Ex-Gay" movement as is Donnie McCluking who was on the Obama campaign trail last year (Both think Gay people have a disease and that Gays should be "cured"). It seems Obama implies he is for gay equality on the one hand, but then has anti-gay bigots representing his campaign. So tell me why I should vote for him?


  • Name: Xavier Chapa
    Date posted: 2008-06-30 3:34 AM
    Hometown: Hamburg, Germany

    Comment:

    Jeff from Seattle Obama supports guns, capital punishment, and a pardon for fisa (domestic spying). You REALLY trust him to nominate someone capable to honor our rights in the supreme court? The guy thinks like a Republican. I say let McCain take the fall these next 4 years for all the havoc Bush has caused (besides McCain already declared he won't run two terms) and let's vote in Democratics in the Senate and House. If this isn't our year, than why rally behind someone who isn't totally good for us or the country?


  • Name: Jeff
    Date posted: 2008-06-29 11:59 PM
    Hometown: Seattle

    Comment:

    On one issue Obama is correct. The same sex marriage issue will be decided on a state by state basis. Once there are enough states that allow it, then it will be up to the federal government to make the anti gay states honor the unions of all Americans. But we have to elect marriage friendly representatives and senators IN OUR STATES to get the laws changed in our states. Then we need to elect federal representatives to go to D.C. and get the federal law passed. I can't see Obama vetoing a marriage bill, and he can't pass a law all by himself, so his position on the matter is not as important as who we elect to represent us in Washington. Obama is much more important in regards to Supreme Court nominations. He is the lesser of 2 evils, but he is much more likely to nominate gay friendly justices to the federal courts, so if you dont vote, or you vote against him, you are harming the LHBT community in its struggle for equal rights


  • Name: Mark
    Date posted: 2008-06-29 9:06 PM
    Hometown: Tampa

    Comment:

    Plenty of straight people choose not to get married, but at least they have that CHOICE. My partner and I (together 15 years) don't. And no matter how many legal documents we pay to have notarized, we still lack the same basic rights as a hetero couple who get drunk and go to Vegas and tie the knot under the watchful eye of Elvis. I don't want a church wedding (heavens no!), or to have anything recognized but the LEGAL CONTRACT between us. I don't even care if they call it "marriage." Hell, they can call it "Shirley" for all I care. Just make me equal to my hetero neighbors. Obama will not take us anywhere near this goal, but McCain will drag us backward.


  • Name: bill
    Date posted: 2008-06-29 10:23 AM
    Hometown: decatur ga

    Comment:

    who is kidding who, he will support gay s etc and this comes from his wife (if misplaced marriage certf. ever found or birth certf ever found fro child) he can not produce many family members where is his family is he ashamed of them or is the family ashamed of lies and the possiblity of changing back to a republican once in office we were fooled once but once fooled you never go back and become one. sorry once a democarate now ashamed we will vote republican to save this country


  • Name: Xavier Chapa
    Date posted: 2008-06-29 7:18 AM
    Hometown: Hamburg, Germany

    Comment:

    Mark my words: Obama will NOT do anything for gays if elected. You all said it already there are more important issues in the world. I say we as gays unite behind someone who DOES support our equality like Cynthia McKinney to prove to Obama that we CAN be instrumental in winning elections. We can not be ignored anymore! The time is now! And for those arguing in support of Obama for Supreme Court Judge...well his support for guns, capital punishment, states rights and a fisa bill compromise lead me to believe that he is NOT the right person!


  • Name: alex
    Date posted: 2008-06-29 1:26 AM
    Hometown: washington, d.c.

    Comment:

    Dear Steve B, Whatever Reverend Wright's failings, he actually has a very progressive attitude towards lgbt people. You can read/listen about this for yourself in a number of interviews. I would also say: guys, whatever you think about who should have won the primary, Obama is the candidate we have now, and he's a heck of a lot better for lgbt people (and the world) than McCain. And he has the same stances on lgbt rights (and basically everything) as Senator Clinton. Thank you, Advocate, for finally printing something that's not egregiously anti-Obama ... and please everyone, vote. Just do it. It will help so many people, not least of all the queer community, if Obama is our president come January.


  • Name: gary
    Date posted: 2008-06-28 10:35 PM
    Hometown: tampa

    Comment:

    My lover and I have been together for 25 years.........do we need to get married ? No we have a good lawyer. Should gay be given the right to marrige ? YES YES YES. The problem with this country is the bible thumbing christains


  • Name: scott
    Date posted: 2008-06-28 8:10 PM
    Hometown: somerville ma

    Comment:

    I am a volunteer and supporter of Barack Obama for president of the United States of America. Unfortunately I find one of his positions to be insufficient with what is needed for the full rights of LGBT Couples. LGBT should have the same civil rights as all people and deserve to be able to get married just like anyone else. Civil Unions are simply not acceptable.


  • Name: Steve B
    Date posted: 2008-06-28 7:41 PM
    Hometown: Tucson

    Comment:

    By the way, what does Rev. Wright and Barack's church, the one that he's being going to for 20 years, teach about homosexuality? I think we can infer what is preaches from Barack's and Rev.Wright's friendship with Rev. Farakhan. Has anyone looked into what his church says about gays? Hello Advocate? Talk radio and Sean Hannity aren't going to be checking into that for you. By the way, Hannity and LImbaugh are on the radio everyday ripping McCain because they will not compromise their integrity by selling out their personal ideology and values so that their party can win elections. Everybody's just going to drink the Barack Kool Aid punch? He will be elected to a 4 year term as President which is longer than he has been in the senate or that anyone here has known about him.


  • Name: Steve B.
    Date posted: 2008-06-28 7:16 PM
    Hometown: Tucson

    Comment:

    My point is exactly what Xavier said: They send Michelle out to do this so that Barack can get the credit for it but so that they can't use the soundbite against him on radio or TV. This isn't a good thing--it's an insult. It is a demeaning attempt to manipulate and appease you and by the comments above it seems to have worked. Last time I checked, she is not the one running for President. If you like what she said, vote for her.


  • Name: Craig
    Date posted: 2008-06-28 2:13 AM
    Hometown: Tampa, FL

    Comment:

    Hey Lee (California), Lucky you that you can talk like that from the more enlightened state where YOU live. Would you like to be able to visit your partner in the hospital if he were to become ill? Or would you condone some Bible-thumping nurse from the "Family Values crowd" to forbid you that right? Be able to inherit or bestow your property and house to your partner if one of you died? Be able to have the same tax advantages and write-offs as any other couple? It's not just a "piece of paper". You sound like you suffer from "internalized homophobia" (you can treat me inferior.....that's OK) or something. What do you think gay "RIGHTS" means? Come forward from the 1960's........please.


  • Name: ....
    Date posted: 2008-06-27 7:26 PM
    Hometown: Jacksonville

    Comment:

    These posters here are right... where was the advocate for the politicians who have been for us? Deval Patrick has been amazing! Dennis Kucinich, Cynthia McKinny, even former Senator Lincoln Chaffe (the first GOP senator to be in favor of gay marriage!), Ted Kennedy, (the first member of the US Senate to favor gay marriage!)


  • Name: Lee
    Date posted: 2008-06-27 5:01 PM
    Hometown: California

    Comment:

    Why can't gays get their act together aboutthis marriage thing, I as a gay man could care less about marriage, I've been with my partner for almost 30 years, and he also has no desire to get "married". With a piece of paper and words uttered to signify that we are married means nothing. We have lived our life with ups and downs just like straight folk, single or married, so why all the crap by gays about getting married? States like California who have domestic partner provisions available is wonderful and if one wishes to participate under the provisions I think this is great, but not all people care about participating. So I think this push about marriage between gays should take a back seat on the political front, there are more important issued to be address today than gay marraiges


  • Name: Craig
    Date posted: 2008-06-27 3:44 PM
    Hometown: Denver, CO

    Comment:

    Can't thank you enough for this observation. I wonder if Barack would feel good advocating a states rights approach to the civil rights of people of color. I can't for the life of me understand why Barack and his supporters think that his states rights approach represents "change". Sounds like more state and federal sanctioned discrimination to me. That is why I'm proud to support a candidate (Cynthia McKinney) who supports the full rights of all people - in all 50 states!


  • Name: Ronald
    Date posted: 2008-06-27 3:38 PM
    Hometown: Honolulu

    Comment:

    Even better, where are/were the Advocate stories on the candidates who do/did support us? Cynthia McKinney Ralph Nader Dennis Kucinich Mike Gravel


  • Name: Ronald
    Date posted: 2008-06-27 3:35 PM
    Hometown: Honolulu

    Comment:

    Thanks for the comments Mrs. Obama, but your embrace falls short when it comes to full marriage rights. You may appear to be pro-gay when in fact you and your husband both want us to continue our second class citizenship. Shame on you for trying to trick us, especially with the connection between Selma and Stonewall. I don't see your husband stating African Americans should only have civil unions! And, a gay person who votes for the lesser of two evils is a sell out who supports our second class citizenship. We will continue our second class status until the gay population WAKES UP and stops voting for people who only support us on a surface level so we will check off their name come election day. Only when our voting bloc shows we will not run like sheep to the candidate who "kind-of" supports us will things change. McKinney 2008--A true champion for gay rights, including full marriage.


  • Name: Advocatebias
    Date posted: 2008-06-27 3:30 PM
    Hometown: Purple state

    Comment:

    Nice to see the Advocte publishing something good about Obama. Where was the Advocate cover story when Russ Feingold became the first mainstream presidential candidate to support gay marriage? Where was the Advocate cover story when Dennis Kucincich became the first presidential candidate to support gay marriage. I wonder why they liked Hillary so much?


  • Name: L. Myron
    Date posted: 2008-06-27 2:23 PM
    Hometown: Edgewater, New Jersey

    Comment:

    Can you imagine Cindy McCain speaking before a group and drawing a parallel between Selma (Alabama) and Stonewall? NOT!!!!!!!


  • Name: Wallace
    Date posted: 2008-06-27 1:21 PM
    Hometown: Washington DC

    Comment:

    McCain and his wife are in the pocket of the Dominionists. They would have this country revert to a Christian theocracy, where gays and lesbians are treated like they are in the Middle East...hung and executed for being who they are! Even the children that are gay or lesbian! We cannot, in any degree of anger, frustration, or pettiness, allow McCain in office to be controled by the group that has sabotaged the Republican party, and want to destroy America, just like they have destroyed that party! Obama is trying, though it will be hard, and be against considerable odds, to knit this country back together. He is going to need our help. A gay person that votes for McCain, has got to be insane!


  • Name: J.E. Green, author of MERGING WITH MONSTERS
    Date posted: 2008-06-27 1:09 PM
    Hometown: Denver, Colorado

    Comment:

    Sen. John McCain "worked to ban gay marriage in his home state." Enough said. As demonstrated by Hillary Clinton, it is time for all Democrats to UNITE and support Senator Obama. Our community (regardless of our own differences) cannot afford another 4 years of having our concerns as gays and lesbians shown so little regard.


  • Name: Xavier Chapa
    Date posted: 2008-06-27 11:10 AM
    Hometown: Hamburg, Germany

    Comment:

    Nice words...but what is your husband doing or saying?


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