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08/30/08-09/01/08

California Prisons Prepare for Gay Weddings

Now that same-sex couples can get married in California, state prison officials are trying to figure out what that means for gay inmates.

No prisoners so far have sought to arrange weddings with same-sex partners since the state supreme court granted same-sex couples the right to wed as of mid June, according to Michele Kane, spokeswoman for the California Department of Corrections and Rehabilitation.

Nonetheless, department lawyers are drafting guidelines to bring the state's 33 adult prisons into compliance with the court's ruling that same-sex couples must be treated the same as opposite-sex couples under the California constitution, Kane said.

What they have determined so far is that would mean allowing gay inmates to marry someone on the outside, but not a fellow prisoner -- the same rules that apply to straight inmates, according to Kane.

"They will have the same marriage rights as other inmates -- they will be able to marry non-inmates, but barred from marrying other inmates in prison," she said.

Prison officials were concerned that allowing two men or two women in the same prison to get married would pose novel safety and security concerns, according to Kane.

"For instance, suppose a prisoner finds out another prisoner has money or other assets. They might find themselves coerced into a marriage with a more powerful inmate who might try to lay claim to half their assets," she said.

Department lawyers also are recommending that prison chaplains relinquish the job of performing weddings for inmates once the proposed policies take effect, Kane said. Turning over the rituals to outside officiants would not put chaplains who may oppose same-sex marriage on religious grounds in the position of presiding over some ceremonies and not others, she said.

If approved by the division that oversees adult prisons, the rule prohibiting two inmates from marrying would mirror the prison policy in Massachusetts, the only other U.S. state where same-sex marriage is legal.

Last year, California became the first state to allow conjugal visits and overnight stays for inmates with same-sex partners in the civilian population, Kane said. The department does not keep a tally of how many prisoners have taken advantage of the spousal bonus since then.

The department also does not have a recent count of how many of the 125,000 adults in its custody get married each year. Anecdotally, an average of two weddings each month take place at the medium-security prison in Solano that houses just over 6,047 inmates, according to Kane.

Donald Specter, director of the nonprofit Prison Law Office, which monitors the rights of California inmates, said he did not agree that allowing two prisoners of the same sex to marry created special security concerns.

But as long as the guidelines that corrections officials develop apply to all inmates regardless of their sexual orientation, they will be hard to argue with, Specter said.

"The law requires they treat people the same, so that's a good principle to have in mind when they are drafting regulations," he said. (AP)

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  • Name: Daniel
    Date posted: 2008-09-02 3:55 PM
    Hometown: Philly

    Comment:

    Practically-speaking, opposite-sex married couples that are both in prison are not (to my knowledge) allowed to co-reside. If this is the case then it would be preferential treatment to allow same-sex couples to be incarcerated together simply because they're the same sex. Going to prison is not, after all, supposed to be convenient nor is it the function of the penal system to help people form or maintain marital relationships. By definition certain freedoms are lost when one goes to prison.


  • Name: Joseph
    Date posted: 2008-09-02 2:36 PM
    Hometown: Montgomery, AL

    Comment:

    So two same-sex inmates will have the same "rights" as two hetero inmates? Hmm. How common was it for a male inmate and a female inmate to want to marry that a special rule had to be created to handle that type of situation? That whole "coerced marriage" comment made no sense. What's to prevent the "stronger" inmate from managing to be so charming that the "weaker" (but more financially well-to-do) inmate will want to marry him after one of them is released? Many "civilians" NOW get lured into relationships with convicts simply because the con manages to be charming enough to convince some poor (and very lonely) soul to feel sorry enough for him to get married without the state stepping in and preventing it. I call bull. Is the state as active in keeping a "weaker" inmate protected from being coerced into an unwanted relationship to avoid prison rape? Somehow, I doubt it. This just sounds like the state's way of getting around same-sex marriage in some fashion.


  • Name: chin again
    Date posted: 2008-09-01 12:54 PM
    Hometown: seattle

    Comment:

    Matthew, so one will be sent to a women's prison and one to a men's? cuz that would be the "same" thing. but of course that couldn't and wouldn't happen. so will they simply be sent to different prisons appropriate for their sex? is being sent to a separate prison than your spouse merely a consequence of sex segregation, or is it a fundamental part of the punishment for going to prison? i'm not trying to be obtuse, its just that i think we will inevitably get into some really tricky territory as we copy het models verbatim when in truth, alot of it simply doesn't apply. As we force comparison this will inevitably reassign new meanings to the het model as well. and i think legally speaking that is exactly what legislators have been dreading.


  • Name: Matthew
    Date posted: 2008-08-31 5:10 PM
    Hometown: Boston, MA

    Comment:

    Chin, the same thing that happens to their hetero counterparts. That's kind of the point of it all, isn't it?


  • Name: chin
    Date posted: 2008-08-31 2:42 AM
    Hometown: seattle

    Comment:

    what happens when two same-sex married people go to prison? will they then be unmarried? sent to different prisons?


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