Op-ed: An Open Letter to Mitch Mayne on Living Openly
BY Advocate Contributors
January 24 2012 3:22 PM ET
Mitch, congratulations on being appointed to a high-ranking position in your church. I was impressed last fall
to hear that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (Mormon Church) had
actually called on an openly gay member to serve. So of course I read with great interest your op-ed, “Gays and
Mormons, Do Unto Others,” in The Advocate on January 6.
I take some credit for
the Mormon Church’s new ways toward gays.
I am not sure if you are aware, but I was the person who uncovered the
fact the Mormon Church had taken over every aspect of the campaign to pass
Proposition 8 in California four years ago. I was following the money of all the big donors for my new
organization, Californians Against Hate — now Rights Equal Rights. Suddenly all these huge contributions began pouring in from individuals
whom I had never heard of. When we
Googled the names, we discovered that they were all Mormons. I gave the information to Mark Schools
at The Wall Street Journal, who spent a month researching and broke the story on
September 20, 2008, “Mormons Boost
Antigay Marriage Effort.”
Then we tracked all the
money, which jumped from a few thousand dollars per day to over $500, 000 per
day. It turned out that the
members of the Mormon Church, at the urging of church leaders, gave 75% of all
the money raised or roughly $30 million! I wrote many op-eds, did several press releases, and
talked to lots of reporters about this, all to shine a spotlight on the LDS
Church. One you should read is “Mormon Power Grab: Tearing
Then, after its successful
campaign to take away the right to marry for millions of LGBT Californians, the
Mormon Church filed its final campaign report with the California secretary of state. The Mormon Church said that it spent only $2,078 to pass Proposition 8.
I didn’t believe it. The church did so
much, which I detailed in the sworn complaint that I filed with the California
Fair Political Practices Commission. I was brutally attacked by church leaders and spokesmen who
called me a liar. Well, guess
what? The commission decided to
investigate my complaint. It was
the first time a church had ever been investigated for possible illegal
campaign activities. The Mormon
Church was investigated for 18 months, prosecuted, and found guilty on 13 counts
of election fraud and fined.
I took many more actions
against the church and some of its big-donor members with one goal: to get the Mormon
Church out of the anti–gay marriage business.
Then lo and behold, I
was given hundreds and hundreds of official Mormon Church documents that showed
that the LDS Church was not just running the Yes on Prop. 8 campaign in
California but had taken the lead on all the other 27 campaigns around the
country to ban gay marriage in those states and gay-bash, beginning in 1995
in Hawaii. Check out our website: Mormongate.com.
The church didn’t stop with
California either. It was were heavily involved in the successful campaign one year later in
Maine to repeal that state’s recently passed marriage
equality law. So off to Augusta I went and
filed a complaint against the National Organization for Marriage for money
laundering there. That
investigation is in its third year.
So maybe, just maybe, the
terrible PR the Mormon Church gets constantly now has opened the door ever so
slightly to allow you to serve the church and live a complete life as a gay man
like I am able to do. Sadly for
you and all other gay members of the Mormon Church, you can never have a
boyfriend again or get married to a man. I read the CNN story by Jessica Ravitz where you and a
church official said just that. As Utah gay activist Eric Ethington pointed out, “If he [you] falls in love again and
wants to be with that man, he won’t be allowed to serve.”
The LDS Church finally
supported a law that
would prohibit discrimination against LGBT individuals in the workplace and even testified in its favor at a Salt Lake City hearing. Hurray, real progress. The church's reaction to a crisis: Try to do
a few things to mute all the criticism.
I would love to sit down
with you and talk, Mitch. Let’s
see if we can’t work together to get the LDS Church to then sit down with us
and negotiate an end to its hurtful ways regarding the LGBT community. My goal is to keep the pressure on the church
until it changes its practices.
Then young lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people will be welcome
in the LDS Church and be able to love whomever they wish.
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