The reality TV show's star, Patti Stanger (above), added to erasure by claiming bi men don’t exist. Stanger said she wouldn’t marry a bi guy: "Uh, never! Never. Never. And if they're bisexual, they're gay!" Then, on the second season of her own show, Stanger told a client that bisexual women “are not the women you want to be the mother of your children,” reported Out. Stanger loves the gays but is no friend to bisexuals.