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15 secret symbols queer people used throughout the ages

From pansies to pink triangles, these symbols have helped us identify and communicate with one when "out-and-proud" wasn't allowed.

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You won't believe the meaning of The Rock's beige handkerchief in 'GQ' cover

Dwayne Johnson wore a beige handkerchief in his back pocket – here's what that means in the Hanky Code.

30 Kinky Terms Every Gay Man Needs To Know

A handy guide for all your adventures.

Is This Raunchy Music Video Art or Explicit Content?

Citing George Michael, musician Brendan Maclean defended his depiction of explicit sex acts as a lesson in queer history that must be preserved.

Op-ed: Don't Mention Aaron Schock's Belt Ever Again

Aaron Schock's rise and fall shows that even gay people still cling to gay stereotypes.

Poppers are Dead, Long Live Poppers

Is alkyl nitrite the gay peyote or just a vestige of a different time that we no longer need?

Goodbye, last interesting person

It's week 14 of American Idol. That means you've been watching this show for almost four solid months. A little sad, isn't it?

18 Party Games for Adult Gay Men

Skip the bathhouse, and stay in with friends for a good old-fashioned party romp.

Artist Spotlight Michael Petry

Beutiful on the surface, Petry's work has depth in both wit and scholarship.

27 Dos and Don'ts for Folsom Street Fair

Before entering fetish heaven, know the ground rules.

Seat Filler The Advocates Guide to Theater July

For our second annual gay pride edition, your man on the New York theater scene overdoses on eye candy and goes solo with Joan Rivers, Jackie Beat, and Raven O.

16 Things I Learned From Having Sex With Trans Men

Sex is about a lot more than body parts, says gay sex columnist Alex Cheves.

Tokyo in Translation

When immersing oneself in unfamiliar surroundings, sometimes even the tiniest hints of familiarity can be misread. 

11 Gifting No-Nos for Gay Men

A gentle guide for our straight friends and family on holiday gifting faux pas.

Captain Save-A-Ho

This week's Project Runway = ruined sewing machines + hetero male rage + ugly pockets for Twiggy

Hot Sheet: December 20, 2013

The top 10 entertainment and events highlights this week include a sleigh full of holiday cheer and New Year's hope.