He was the church’s golden boy—and my domestic abuser
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. One man reflects on the partner who broke him, and the strength it took to break free.
October 27, 2025
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October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. One man reflects on the partner who broke him, and the strength it took to break free.
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