What Do Adults Fantasize About?

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What Do Adults Fantasize About?

Apparently, Republicans and Democrats want different things in bed.

Source: Psychology Today, “Fantasy Island: Research Probes the Science of Sexual Desire,” July 2, 2018. Based on research in Tell Me What You Want by Dr. Justin Lehmiller.

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What Do Adults Fantasize About?

Apparently, Republicans and Democrats want different things in bed.

Source: Psychology Today, “Fantasy Island: Research Probes the Science of Sexual Desire,” July 2, 2018. Based on research in Tell Me What You Want by Dr. Justin Lehmiller.

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A Democrat and software engineer, Montgomery ran on a platform that prioritized affordability and divestment from corporate interests.

The gay state senator unseated Republican Congresswoman Victoria Spartz.

In addition to Senator-elect Chris Pappas, voters sent several out candidates to Washington, D.C., as well as state houses across America.

The longtime organizer made history in the deep south.

Actor, writer, producer, director, and activist Doug Spearman is very comfortable on both sides of the camera.

He repeatedly defended individual rights and liberties in a combative conversation.