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Beating Back Buyer’s Remorse

Beating Back Buyer’s Remorse


Overspending during the holiday season often leads to post-holiday blues. Here's what you can do to stop the cycle.

Buying frenzies followed by spender's remorse is a familiar feeling for many -- especially once the excitement of the holidays subsides and the credit card bills start rolling in. For those with additional impulse control issues, the problem is even more fraught.

According to the National Retail Federation's 2011 Holiday Consumer Intentions and Actions Survey, holiday shoppers said they plan to shell out an average of $704 on holiday purchases, a figure down only slightly from last year's $719. Overspending shouldn't be part of your purchasing habits, but if the deed is already done, don't despair. It's never too late to make a change. To start the new year off right, make a plan and stick to it. If you do, you're sure to find yourself in better financial shape the next time you hear jingle bells ringing. Here's how:

Make a Budget & Stick With It

Creating a budget is crucial to keeping your finances clean and your savings intact. Determine the exact amount you can spend on each item in your budget and be sure not to go over. If that's not simple enough, Google "create a budget" and you'll find plenty of online examples to use.

Remember, Cash is King

If you have trouble sticking to a budget, eliminate the temptation by leaving your credit card at home. It's easy to lose sight of how much you're spending when everything goes on plastic. Use only cash (or if you must, a debit card). This will keep you from spending money you don't have and keep you from being unpleasantly surprised when your monthly statement arrives. Remember though, some banks will let you overdraw your account with your debit card, so cash is the only true way to avoid fees.

Determine Your Needs vs. Your Wants

Is every purchase you're making a necessity? Before you buy -- stop, think, and determine if you really need the product or service, or if you merely want it. For items in the latter category, instead of buying, write them down. Keep a running list of things you want and at the end of the month, revisit the list and reward yourself for good spending habits with one or two of items on the list that you want the most.

Look at your spending habits and ask yourself whether a potential monetary outlay will fund an extravagance or a necessity. When you reframe your thinking to focus on your types of purchase -- desire and extravagance vs. need and necessity -- the equation becomes clear.

Work it Off

With each purchase you're considering, calculate how much time it'll cost you to work it off. If you realize that $200 coat means you have to work 20 more hours to pay it off, you might just reconsider the purchase.

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