Letters to President-elect Obama: Pam Spaulding

Dear President Obama,

You have made history with your election; our country, left in tatters after abuse by the last administration, is awaiting positive change. Millions of Americans gave to your campaign and dedicated countless hours of their time and energy to support you and other Democrats around the country. Many of these generous people are part of the LGBT community.

This year, the Democratic Party presented a forward-thinking platform on our issues, and you as the standard-bearer made unprecedented statements on what civil equality for LGBT Americans means. That said, the gulf between your support for civil unions and marriage, as you well know, is still a challenge for our community. As a constitutional scholar, you know that separate but equal is a folly when it comes to civil rights. But we also know that support for equality continues to rise.

There are many things you can do to help move this country in the right direction; as you have said, your personal religious beliefs are not what should guide your decisions on civil equality for all citizens of this land. Building bridges is your strong suit--I am sure that these efforts could help close that gap:

* Appoint qualified out LGBTs to prominent positions in your administration. We care about the economy, health care, and our military presence abroad; we are not a single-issue constituency.

* Use the bully pulpit of the presidency to grow support out in the country--and on the Hill--for the repeal of "don't ask, don't tell," the passage of the hate-crimes bill, and other equality legislation that is on the table.

The LGBT community is just one of dozens, if not hundreds, of constituencies that have been waiting out in the cold for regime change, and they are all hungry to have their progressive issues at the top of the list. We know that the issues we hold dear are fundamental rights, and we also know that you have been left with an almost impossible list of issues that need urgent attention, given the debacle of eight years under Bush. We are eager to see what you believe should be the top issues on your agenda.

We are ready to move forward and plan to stay visible--and assertive--in working with the Obama administration and the next Congress to secure rights for all.

You and your family will restore dignity to the White House and the United States of America. Good luck, Mr. President.

Pam SpauldingDurham, N.C.-based blogger

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