What About the Men and Why Our Gender System Sucks for Men Too

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        What About the Men and Why Our Gender System Sucks for Men Too
     
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The Human Rights Campaign says the record of Trump's personal lawyer as acting attorney general shows why senators should reject his nomination to permanently lead the Justice Department.

Despite claiming to be a “pro-woman, pro-child” website, Reduxx went on to share more sensitive information about a minor.

The former mayor, out of City Hall for nearly 25 years, claimed without evidence that Mamdani’s child care proposal would push transgender identities on children.

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LGBTQ+ stories deserve to be told.

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The settlement also requires the nation’s largest pediatric hospital to revoke doctors’ privileges and open the clinic by October.

The actor and stand-up comic teased a few lyrics from a parody "love song" about Trump that she's "not allowed" to perform on TV.

Use of single-sex toilets, changing rooms and hospital wards in England, Scotland and Wales is now restricted according to a person’s birth sex, rather than the gender with which they identify.

A nine-year-old video published by Queer Kid Stuff outraged some parents with its message about activism and inclusion.

Sen. Erik Bottcher says HIV prevention has been transformed since the AIDS crisis, making it time to replace a 1980s ban with modern public health regulations.

The hospital chaplain defeated two rivals and is favored in November to become the state’s first transgender legislator.