week, I bought the gun. Yesterday, I wrote the note. Last night, I happened to
catch your show on TV and, just knowing that someday I might be able to go back
into a church with my head held high, I threw the gun into the river. My mom
never has to know." So read the email that a gay Iowa teenager sent to
Daniel Karslake, a producer here at In The Life Media (ITLM) in 1998. As the
executive director of ITLM -- which produces the award-winning newsmagazine, IN
THE LIFE -- I know
that media depicting LGBT people has the power to change lives. It can also, as
in this case, even save them.
As ITLM celebrates its 20th anniversary, we reflect upon how far we've come -- and
how far we still have to go for LGBT people to achieve full equality. We take
pride in knowing that, through our unique programming, ITLM has become so much
more than a TV show.
Twenty years ago, a group of individuals had a vision: to create a television
program featuring LGBT voices and culture. In the days before Ellen or Will & Grace, let alone Glee, it was all but impossible to
find respectful depictions of LGBT characters on television. Real LGBT people
were relegated to the spectacle of daytime talk shows. Many of the issues
important to our community were not covered by mainstream media in any
course, LGBT visibility in media is commonplace. While this has led to greater
acceptance for our community, visibility alone does not equate to social
is still prevalent. Countless instances of antigay legislation, policies and
behaviors take place throughout this country every day, often with little
notice by the general populace. However, in LGBT communities, the damage of
these discriminatory actions is acutely felt.
always recognized the imperative of truly educating the public about who we are
as LGBT individuals and the very real way issues, ranging from HIV/AIDS to
marriage equality to homelessness, affect our community. To us, this is crucial
to securing civil rights.
Our programming consistently exposes injustice, challenges perceptions and shatters
stereotypes. Here, in fact, "stereotypes crumble before your very eyes,"
according to TheNew York Times.
For instance, our media is being shown at universities to fight homophobia on
campuses around the country. Recently, our work has been used to inform
Congress, the U.S. Department of Education, UNAIDS, ACLU, Anti-Defamation
League, and scores of LGBT and allied groups, many of whom cannot afford to
create these materials on their own.
Our programming not only has political implications, however. It also improves
lives in very direct and personal ways. Case in point, we recently produced a
Spanish-language Web video for our "Marriage Matters" series profiling Cristina,
an American citizen, and her partner Monica, who is from Argentina. The couple
married legally in their home state but, because of the Defense of Marriage
Act, Monica faced deportation, since the immigration protections provided for
heterosexual couples do not apply to same-sex couples. With the help of our
video, Monica and Cristina won their legal battle and had deportation
proceedings against them closed by New York's chief immigration counsel. This
is a first for same-sex married couples.
That is one example of how ITLM is moving to the forefront of video journalism.
By developing model approaches to Web-based content, we are leveraging the
power of online communications to propelchange for the LGBT movement. Our provocative,
short-form videos created expressly for the Web address issues still ignored by
the mainstream, while utilizing the unique functionality, versatility and reach
of the Internet.
Another example is "Injustice at
Every Turn," our Web-exclusive video based on a report of the same
name examining discrimination against transgender people. Our expose gave
viewers a different perspective than did most media covering the survey, and
illuminated a difficult topic in ways that have a real and profound impact on
our community. I am proud to note that this video was used to inform the U.S.
Department of Labor about anti-transgender discrimination in the workplace.
Similarly, one of our most recent Web-exclusives, "A Day in Our
Shoes," told the stories of LGBT homeless youth forced to sleep on the
streets after having been tossed out by rejecting parents, grandparents and other
family members. The media was used as part of the Campaign for Youth Shelter,
which calls on New York City and State to provide increased funding for shelter
The movement has made great strides in the past decade. But the need for media
that educates and informs the public about LGBT Americans is as urgent as ever.
We all know that media drives public opinion and ITLM proudly provides a
counterpoint to the multi-billion dollar, antigay media machine that LGBT foes
have spent decades building.
opponents have vastly more
money to spend spreading propaganda and lies about us. To make matters
worse, our own community is less than fully engaged: only 4% of LGBT Americans
donate to LGBT organizations. In the era of Facebook, Twitter and the 24/7 news
cycle, it is vital that more people get involved and put our community on parity
with those who work tirelessly to deny us basic rights.
So, listen to the words of that Iowa teenager. Listen to the words of one New
Jersey housewife who wrote us last spring saying, "I was raised as homophobic
as any good Catholic could possibly be. About 15 years ago, I began to educate
myself about the gay community through IN THE LIFE... I subsequently went on to
organize a South Jersey chapter of GLSEN, become active in Garden State
Equality and serve as a commissioner on the New Jersey Civil Union Review
Commission. If it weren't for IN THE LIFE, possibly none of this would have happened."
Ultimately, media's greatest power is its ability to tell stories, to reach
into people's hearts by putting a human face on issues about which they might
have been previously unaware or for groups against whom they may have harbored
prejudice. As Iowa Senate Majority Leader Mike Gronstal said when asked what
would protect same-sex marriage legislation in his state, "Give me personal
stories. Tell me about real human beings and how their lives are different
because we have marriage equality. Personal stories have the greatest
influence." ITLM is proud to tell these stories, cover these issues and
chronicle the history that helps move our community forward. Thanks to our
viewers, I look forward to continuing our march together toward dignity and
respect for all.
MICHELLE KRISTEL is the executive director of In The Life Media. For more
information go to www.itlmedia.org.