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Church Opens Doors for Homeless Gay Teens

A church-turned-shelter for homeless youth in Queens, New York is a far cry from sleeping on the streets after a $200,000 renovation and a partnership with the Ali Forney Center for LGBT youth.


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A converted church in Queens, N.Y., may look like a pleasant youth hostel, but many of its residents made a tough journey to find this new place to call home.

The Ali Forney Center, New York City's top service organization for homeless youth, found a partner in the local Episcopal diocese, which also took interest in the hardships that many LGBT homeless youths face. The partnership resulted in a $200,000 renovation of St. Andrew's Church in the Astoria neighborhood of Queens, where 16 young people can now sleep soundly.

Carl Siciliano, executive director of the center, says he's grateful for the church's philanthropic outreach.

"So many of these young people are rejected by their families because of religion," he says. "Kids come in who have been put through exorcisms, and we've had kids whose parents make them go see priests who tell them they're evil and hateful and that they're going to hell. It's a really upsetting and unfortunate situation that so many young people are put through this kind of trauma by their parents' religious beliefs, so it's very moving to see a religious organization that's able to say that these youth should be affirmed and cared for, so I'm very grateful to the Episcopal diocese of Long Island for their support."

Housing that addresses the specific needs of homeless gay young adults is crucial to their survival, Siciliano says, because they're "actively affirming that the kids are gay, not just tolerating it." When gay young adults and teenagers are left to live on the street or go to a shelter, Siciliano said, they would probably not choose a 200-bed shelter or, even worse, one where everyone has to sleep on a concrete floor.

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Reader Comments
  • Name: amy
    Date posted: 1/22/2010 8:23:20 PM
    Hometown: brooklyn

    Comment:

    At the Tillary Shelter in Brooklyn, there are violent attacks almost daily that tolerated. Last week, a woman in a wheelchair in the intake room got found herself in a fist fight with a 200 lb, 5'6 woman. Tillary does nothing to discourage violent out burst. Many of the girls say it is the worst shelter in the city.

  • Name: Jim
    Date posted: 11/27/2009 8:50:23 PM
    Hometown: Charlotte

    Comment:

    All homeless children need assistance straight and gay.

  • Name: Daniel
    Date posted: 11/24/2009 2:53:49 AM
    Hometown: Gold Coast

    Comment:

    I have to say it's refreshing to see there is still a heart in NY I cannot understand a religion that would have me disown my son or daughter because they happen to be homosexual... Knowing such beliefs exist is enough to give me a sickness of spirit and a nagging sadness! It is what makes us unique that makes us special. Thank God for the thinking people who offer a refuge for our most vulnerable and forgotten treasure. Our children!

  • Name: Scott
    Date posted: 11/22/2009 12:53:14 AM
    Hometown: Portland

    Comment:

    Rejected because of religion, wow that is so hard to understand. God is love but if you have a gay child throw them out of the house. Does not make any sence to me at all. I really wish I could find someone who could explain how they can reject their own offspring like that, that is awful. And it makes me so extreemly lucky that I have such a great family who loves me unconditinally and treats my partner with all the respect that he deserves.

  • Name: Ben
    Date posted: 11/19/2009 6:56:54 PM
    Hometown: NY

    Comment:

    A big thank you to the Episcopal Diocese of LI for showing the difference between a Christian in name and Christian in deed.

  • Name: Phillip
    Date posted: 11/19/2009 5:19:48 PM
    Hometown: Reseda

    Comment:

    Gee, I wonder what those kids will have to do to earn their keep. Hmmmmm......

  • Name: steel
    Date posted: 11/19/2009 12:55:47 PM
    Hometown: providence rhode island

    Comment:

    this is the same organization that Golden Girl Bea Arthur left in her will...it should change it's name to the Zbornak Center

  • Name: Carol
    Date posted: 11/19/2009 12:29:20 PM
    Hometown: MO

    Comment:

    So good to hear the Episcopal Church and Ali Forney is helping LGBT children and young adults to feel understood and cared for. The Churches who continue to jepordize the youth, and their parents who go to these Churches are missing so much in disavowing their own children. They are your childen people, learn from them.

  • Name: Brad Bailey
    Date posted: 11/19/2009 12:00:20 PM
    Hometown: Fayetteville, AR

    Comment:

    The last letter I wrote to the local paper mentioned the Ali Forney Center. It was a response to the op-ed of a notorious fundamentalist homophobe who runs the paper. He was waxing ecstatic about the Arkansas Baptist Youth Ranch, how it was turning kids' lives around and bringing them to Christ. I reminded him of the forty-percent of homeless youth who self-identified as gay, and how they were homeless in part due to the intolerance of the very same religious institutions he advocated. I wrote that places like the Ali Forney Center save more than souls. They save lives.

  • Name: Greg from Denver
    Date posted: 11/19/2009 2:48:42 AM
    Hometown: Denver, CO

    Comment:

    It is nice to be reminded that the Gay vs. Religion dichotomy, is if not false, at least definitely not universal. The people involved with this story show that we have allies in the Christian community. I believe that as members of the GLBT community protecting our youth has got to be one of our priorities. As part of the human community, I believe the same.



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