Jane Lynch and the Mommy Track (Suit)
BY Diane Anderson-Minshall
September 12 2011 4:00 AM ET
In the early ’90s, when you were maybe 30 or 31, you went through a grunge phase. Was this before you came out to your parents? Yes. In fact, when I came home for Christmas that year with the long underwear and flannel boxer shorts, my mom and dad told me later that they kind of shared a look like, Uh-oh.
Clearly your style has evolved a great deal. You and your mom watch a lot of What Not to Wear. Yeah, we love it, can’t get enough of it. I love fashion, and I love seeing it on people, I have a hard time with myself, though. I’m hard to fit. I have a skinny neck and a little head and a big ass. It’s hard to dress that. [Laughs]
And you’re six feet tall. Right. I look like a tall person being consumed by her collar.
Do you think being openly gay helps your work in any way? No. If anything, I think people respect me for not hiding. But what it comes down to is we’re all just people. And at the end of the day, I happen to go home to a woman. In Hollywood, all that matters is…do you do your job and do you do it well and is this somebody you want to have around? The place where it’s hardest is for lead actors and actresses who are supposed to be the love interest. Yeah, I think that’s still a tough arena — we haven’t cracked that yet.
Do you think that we’ll be able to crack that lead actor slash romantic love interest barrier? Oh, yeah, absolutely. I think everything’s just a matter of time. As much as we have our puritan roots in this country, and we kind of fight progress, we end up making the progress [happen]. What is it Winston Churchill said? Americans will always do the right thing after they’ve failed at everything else?
One of the more touching stories in your book is about your best friend, Chris, who you break up with essentially because he’s gay. That’s a tough story. Right. And the reason I tell the story is I want people to know I wasn’t above it. It’s condemning that which you’re not expressing. It’s going on all over the place: A lot of the people who are the loudest voices going against gay rights are fighting an inner gay within. Chris is very open, and he was basically, F you if you don’t like me. He dressed the way he wanted to dress, he dyed his hair, got a perm, he was wearing parachute pants — and I had such a hard time with that. I was like, You don’t flaunt that stuff. Since we had never come out to each other, this was just so unconscious on my part, hating that which is inside of you that you haven’t accepted.
What do you take away from that these many years later? That’s one of the great things I’ve learned in my life, is that stuff — that subconscious stuff that swims around in there and causes you to lash out at people — needs to be brought into the daylight. If not, it kicks you in the butt. Everything’s going to come out. I have a psychological understanding of myself and it’s the truth for me, and I apply that to every character I play. I don’t do this stuff consciously anymore, but I ask myself, What is their big secret? What are they afraid of?
You were a snotty kid. Do you pull a lot of that into Sue Sylvester? Oh, absolutely. I know where that bitchiness comes from. Sue is a warrior, but she is defending a very tender part of herself, and it’s manifesting in that sister of hers with Down syndrome, who she’s been taking care of and protecting from the cruelties of the world all of her life. I think that was a brilliant, brilliant story point that they gave me.
Sue feels abandoned by her mother too. Absolutely. The orphaned, thrown-away child, who’s forced to fend for herself and her vulnerable sister.
On a happier Sue note, your “Vogue” video made Ryan Murphy’s gay dreams come true. But it sounds like it wasn’t that easy for you. I’m not a dancer. I am a woman who knows her limitations. But that doesn’t mean I won’t work really hard and try. They say you only have to get it right once, and luckily we were rolling the one time I got it right.
It is surprising to learn that you’re deaf in one ear. Back in the old days, when there were transistor radios, my brother kept switching his ear with the earphones. I said, “You can’t do that.” And he said, “Yes, I can — I can hear out of both ears.” And then I realized that uh-oh, I only hear out of one. But instead of making me feel different, it made me feel special.
Has it ever affected your work? No, no. The only thing it’s affected is if I’m in a crowded restaurant, I have to make sure of where I sit. I have to make sure the good ear is toward the person I’m talking to.
During your early theater days, you worked with a veritable who’s who of comedy: Will Ferrell, Steve Carell, Stephen Colbert, Andy Richter, Amy Sedaris. Did that breeding ground shape you as an actress? Oh, yeah. Everybody was very can-do, and it was, you show up with your own thing, and you got an idea, you wanted to be in it, and it’s very much a group effort. It was a group of people who made things happen for themselves. And you had to…create your own party and not wait to be invited.
With so many famous names coming out of that whole scene, is there anybody you worked with then that you were surprised didn’t become a big star? Yeah. I feel so lucky. I know there are a lot of talented people out there who just didn’t have the happy accidents that I had. And I can’t say it’s because I’m a better person, or I did something right and they did something wrong.
The way things have come together for you have looked like happy accidents. For such an anxious kid, that’s a bit of a surprise. Absolutely, but one thing it did for me, that anxiety, is that it caused me to grab at everything that was offered to me without really thinking about it. There are some things I probably should have left on the wayside, but I learned from everything. My back was up against a wall trying to redeem kind of crappy projects that I’d get involved in and trying to make them mean something for me. I always worked hard. I never was half-assed, and I think that served me.
Going back to your struggle with alcohol—you started out drinking Boone’s Farm in eighth grade. Do you think Boone’s Farm is a gateway drug for teenage drinking? [Laughs] Boone’s Farm, that’s a gateway drug. I think it’s cheap. And it gets you drunk, and it’s sweet, but boy, it makes you sick. I remember a friend walking home through the park in the snow leaving a trail of bright red vomit.
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