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Jamie Lee Curtis to Bring LGBTQ-Supportive Mom's Story to Screen

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Curtis has bought the rights to a memoir by Sara Cunningham, who offers to be a stand-in mom for same-sex couples whose parents won't attend their weddings.

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Having fought the serial killer Michael Myers, Jamie Lee Curtis is out to battle homophobia.

The actress has bought the rights to the story of Sara Cunningham, a mother from Oklahoma City who offers "free mom hugs" to LGBTQ people and is willing to be a stand-in for parents who won't attend their children's same-sex weddings, NBC News reports.

Cunningham posted the wedding offer on Facebook last year. It went viral and led Curtis to send her a message on the site, although when Cunningham saw it, she was skeptical at first.

"I said, 'Of course, I'll call you right after I pray that I'm not getting catfished,'" Cunningham, 55, told NBC. But it was really Curtis, the star of Halloween, Trading Places, A Fish Called Wanda, and numerous other films and TV shows.

They met in September, when Curtis was in Oklahoma City for a speaking engagement. They talked about the possibility of Curtis buying the rights to Cunningham's book How We Sleep at Night: A Mother's Memoir, which she self-published in 2014. It details her journey to acceptance after her son came out as gay at age 21.

Curtis read the book, Cunningham told NBC, and "she shared it with her people, and they loved it, and they want to tell the story, and I believe the reason why is that at one time when I wrote the book, I thought I was the only mom in Oklahoma with a gay kid." Curtis's team confirmed that there are plans to craft a script based on the book, although the format isn't set yet.

Cunningham had long attended a conservative church, but her experience with her son led her to switch to an LGBTQ-accepting one. She founded the nonprofit group Free Mom Hugs to provide support to LGBTQ people, and she eventually became a minister, marrying both opposite-sex and same-sex couples. She posted the stand-in mom offer, she once said, out of frustration when she encountered many same-sex couples whose parents were boycotting their weddings.

She provided that service last November for a couple in Texas, and she's considering several other invitations. For those she can't accept, she's created a Facebook group to circulate them to other potential stand-in mothers.

Through Free Mom Hugs, she has several projects coming up, including a Valentine's Day party for transgender people, a tour of Oklahoma to share her story and hear those of others, and working on legislation to combat conversion therapy.

She knows it may take some time to see her story brought to the big or small screen, even with the help of a major star like Curtis, but she's willing to be patient. Curtis, she said, told her, "In show business, there's a saying that says 'stay tuned.'" Because of that, Cunningham told NBC, "I'm just staying tuned."

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Trudy Ring is The Advocate’s senior politics editor and copy chief. She has been a reporter and editor for daily newspapers and LGBTQ+ weeklies/monthlies, trade magazines, and reference books. She is a political junkie who thinks even the wonkiest details are fascinating, and she always loves to see political candidates who are groundbreaking in some way. She enjoys writing about other topics as well, including religion (she’s interested in what people believe and why), literature, theater, and film. Trudy is a proud “old movie weirdo” and loves the Hollywood films of the 1930s and ’40s above all others. Other interests include classic rock music (Bruce Springsteen rules!) and history. Oh, and she was a Jeopardy! contestant back in 1998 and won two games. Not up there with Amy Schneider, but Trudy still takes pride in this achievement.
Trudy Ring is The Advocate’s senior politics editor and copy chief. She has been a reporter and editor for daily newspapers and LGBTQ+ weeklies/monthlies, trade magazines, and reference books. She is a political junkie who thinks even the wonkiest details are fascinating, and she always loves to see political candidates who are groundbreaking in some way. She enjoys writing about other topics as well, including religion (she’s interested in what people believe and why), literature, theater, and film. Trudy is a proud “old movie weirdo” and loves the Hollywood films of the 1930s and ’40s above all others. Other interests include classic rock music (Bruce Springsteen rules!) and history. Oh, and she was a Jeopardy! contestant back in 1998 and won two games. Not up there with Amy Schneider, but Trudy still takes pride in this achievement.