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WATCH: Tegan & Sara Recall Weighing Whether To Be Out
In this interview with The Advocate's editor-in-chief, Matthew Breen, Tegan & Sara recall the moment they realized that being gay might impact their career in pop.
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          Apr 03, 2013
          
        
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Tegan & Sara are on the cover of the newest edition of The Advocate. Check out the cover story and watch the second part of the interview in the video below.
 
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WATCH: Tegan & Sara Recall Weighing Whether To Be Out

In this interview with The Advocate's editor-in-chief, Matthew Breen, Tegan & Sara recall the moment they realized that being gay might impact their career in pop.

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