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Lilly Wachowski, Like Her Sister, Comes Out as Trans

Lilly Wachowski, Like Her Sister, Comes Out as Trans

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Lilly, half of the famous duo behind the Matrix movies and hit series Sense8, comes out in an open letter and blasts so-called bathroom bills.

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Lilly Wachowski is now the second Wachowski sibling to come out as transgender, penning a funny, heartfelt open letter that critiques tabloids, anti-trans legislation, and the gender binary.

In her open letter to the Windy City Times, Wachowski described being pursued by tabloids like London's Daily Mail. Wachowski started the letter with a sensational headline to poke fun at gossipy rags: "SEX CHANGE SHOCKER -- WACHOWSKI BROTHERS NOW SISTERS!!!"

Wachowski then told the story of Lucy Meadows, a trans teacher who ended her life after the Daily Mail published a salacious, anti-trans story about her. Wachowski decided she wanted to control her narrative by telling the world herself about her gender identity.

The celebrated director, writer, and producer demonstrated a deep knowledge of trans issues, including high rates of murder and poverty, especially for trans women of color.

"I am one of the lucky ones. Having the support of my family and the means to afford doctors and therapists has given me the chance to actually survive this process. Transgender people without support, means and privilege do not have this luxury. And many do not survive. In 2015, the transgender murder rate hit an all-time high in this country. A horrifying disproportionate number of the victims were trans women of color. These are only the recorded homicides so, since trans people do not all fit in the tidy gender binary statistics of murder rates, it means the actual numbers are higher.

"And though we have come a long way since Silence of the Lambs, we continue to be demonized and vilified in the media where attack ads portray us as potential predators to keep us from even using the goddamn bathroom. The so-called bathroom bills that are popping up all over this country do not keep children safe, they force trans people into using bathrooms where they can be beaten and or murdered. We are not predators, we are prey."

Wachowski also expressed skepticism at the binary description of gender, saying womanhood isn't really a destination. Read the open letter here.

Wachowski joins her sister in coming out as trans -- Lana came out in 2012. The women directed the beloved lesbian film Bound as well as the Matrix trilogy, and, along with Tom Tykwer, the adaptation of David Mitchell's Cloud Atlas. The sisters also created, wrote, and directed Sense8, the acclaimed Netflix series that stars trans actress Jamie Clayton.

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Neal Broverman is the Editorial Director, Print of Pride Media, publishers of The Advocate, Out, Out Traveler, and Plus, spending more than 20 years in journalism. He indulges his interest in transportation and urban planning with regular contributions to Los Angeles magazine, and his work has also appeared in the Los Angeles Times and USA Today. He lives in the City of Angels with his husband, children, and their chiweenie.
Neal Broverman is the Editorial Director, Print of Pride Media, publishers of The Advocate, Out, Out Traveler, and Plus, spending more than 20 years in journalism. He indulges his interest in transportation and urban planning with regular contributions to Los Angeles magazine, and his work has also appeared in the Los Angeles Times and USA Today. He lives in the City of Angels with his husband, children, and their chiweenie.