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The Real Remarks of Melody Barnes


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Remarks made Monday by senior Obama official Melody Barnes to students at Boston College School of Law caused a stir when some attendees said she expressed her support for same-sex marriage during a question and answer session.

The Huffington Post reported that if the accounts were accurate, “Barnes becomes perhaps the highest-ranking White House official to signal support for same-sex marriage.”

The Advocate screened a copy of the recording (available below), which was provided by the college’s communications department and should be posted to their website at 1:00 p.m. on Friday.

The questioner, Boston College law student Paul Sousa, voiced a number of concerns about what he called President Barack Obama’s “separate but equal” stance on same-sex marriage, before asking, “What I would like to know is whether or not you support equal civil marriage rights for gay and lesbian Americans, and if so, are you speaking or will you speak with President Obama on this civil rights matter?”

Barnes responded: “I appreciate your question, and I also belong to United Church of Christ. And I guess I would respond in a couple of different ways. One, I appreciate, I really appreciate your frustration and your disappointment with the president’s position on this issue. He has taken a position, and at the same time, he has also articulated the number of ways that he wants to try and move the ball forward for gay, lesbian and transgendered Americans, including signing the repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act, and a whole host of other things that we’ve started to do to model as a leader in terms of what the federal government is doing, as well as to encourage changes both in the military, in the workplace, and certainly with regard to hate crimes. I accept that that is very different than what you are talking about. And what you’re talking about is something that is quite fundamental.

“With regard to my own views, those are my own views. And I come to my experience based on what I’ve learned, based on the relationships that I’ve had with friends and their relationships that I respect, the children that they are raising, and that is something that I support. But at the same time, when I walk into the White House, though I work to put all arguments in front of the president, as you say, I also work for the president. And we have very robust policy conversations, very robust constitutional conversations with the White House counsel, and others about these issues, and we’ll see what happens from there. At this point, all I can say to you is that his plans right now are to move the ball forward in the ways that I’ve described. He hasn’t articulated a shift in his position there, and that is something that at this moment I accept as it being, it is what it is, even as we continue to have a national, or we continue to have a conversation with him about it.”

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Reader Comments
  • Name: Joe Lyman
    Date posted: 11/14/2009 7:16:30 PM
    Hometown: Medford, Massachusetts

    Comment:

    I think everyone here has made salient points. But the fact remains: Why did the White House attempt to place a gag order on BC's releasing the video tape? If Melody Barnes answered a question indicating that she was for equal rights for African Amercians or equality for women. Wouldn't the Whitehouse simply ask Ms. Barnes: did you indeed answer a question saying that you were for equality for African Americans or Women? And she'd likely answer 'Yes, I said that while speaking at Boston College". Yet this is an unfair double standard that the LGBT as a monority group has to experience. The question remains: Is granting this minority group equality as non-controversial as the Obama administration has alluded to in the past? And if not--then why the attempted gag order for BC's copy of the videotape?

  • Name: maybair
    Date posted: 11/14/2009 1:38:17 PM
    Hometown: lansing

    Comment:

    Eric, I couldn't agree more. Her answer was perfect for the question. I also agree that those who whine (e.g. Obama is the worst president ever omg!!!!) are not really helping. The ones that are just peachy with his performance are not helping. We should be sane, and organized. We should demand our rights at every corner. Only political pressure will work. To be honest, Obama has done more for LGBT causes in the past months than all the presidents before him ever did. But he also promised more than he's currently delivering. We have to push him to do the right thing, something he said all citizens should do; push their elected leaders to fulfill their promises.

  • Name: Eric
    Date posted: 11/14/2009 12:20:01 AM
    Hometown: Long Beach

    Comment:

    I don't know why you're all making such a fuss. This women answered the question she was asked. She is in favor of marriage equality and she has discussed it with the President. As she said Obama is not willing to change his position at this time. I don't think this is news to anybody. Pissing and moaning about Obama's reluctance to act on our issues or being a self hating fag who is thankful for any little crumbs thrown our way will accomplish nothing. As we have seen recently (via the March on Washington D. C.) the only way to get the president to act on our issues is by applying political pressure.

  • Name: Franz
    Date posted: 11/13/2009 6:44:22 PM
    Hometown: Seattle

    Comment:

    President Obama's problem is his party. Gay and Lesbian Americans are not demanding anything that should not be given immediate attention. Being fired from your job or discharged because you are gay, I don;t see why we should wait. He's just not pushing it because he will lose half of his party, but I think that he will have way more backlash without any action on gay rights. They might be able to blame us for hurricanes, earthquakes, deformed babies, that pot boiling over on the stove, but when the mid-term elections come around next year, it won't be pretty for either party, but it won't be our fault.

  • Name: Kel
    Date posted: 11/13/2009 5:43:31 PM
    Hometown: Seaside

    Comment:

    It is ridiculously premature to be talking about one term or two terms. I am as dissappointed as the next person about the gay rights issues - but President Obama hasn't even been in office a year - and he was left a huge catastrophy to fix. Could we all just try to put the country first for a while and let our individual wants and needs wait a little bit longer? I have every confidence that he will come around and do what is right - but right now he has bigger issues to deal with - he has to save the country first. If at the end of his third year we still see no progress - then it's time for pitch forks and torches to the castle - but really, cut the guy some slack - he has the hardest job in the world and he is getting precious little help - mostly whining. He has a huge mess to fix - I'm going to give him some time to do it.

  • Name: Bruce Majors
    Date posted: 11/13/2009 4:28:37 PM
    Hometown: DC

    Comment:

    Nidal Hasan on Obama's transition team (list on page 32) http://www.gwumc.gwu.edu/hspi/policy/PTTFProceedingsReport.pdf

  • Name: Richard
    Date posted: 11/13/2009 4:00:27 PM
    Hometown: Memphis

    Comment:

    I voted for President Obama, and while I have been disappointed in the glacial advance of some issues, he is orders of magnitude better than anyone the Republicans can or will put forward. He is first and foremost a pragmatist who understands the very serious danger of a backlash should he force certain issues. I have faith that he fully intends to keep his word when it comes to gay rights, but I also have faith he will not act in haste and with complete disregard for the strong feelings on the other side. I assure you, doing so could all too easily have it all blow up in our face. I am old. I cannot afford to have everything we've gained be lost and the movement set back twenty years. Patience grasshopper.

  • Name: robert
    Date posted: 11/13/2009 3:43:36 PM
    Hometown: atlanta

    Comment:

    And one more just because you have gay friends, it does not make you gay rights advocate. I am sick and tired by all these politicians answering the questions with “I HAVE A GAY FRIEND REMARK”. It gets old after some times, Sarah Palin too has gay friends, so what we all know what she thinks about gay rights.

  • Name: robert
    Date posted: 11/13/2009 3:25:49 PM
    Hometown: atlanta

    Comment:

    I was too a big supporter of Bema, I am off course disappointed. We need president’s help and we need it now. Even though many of us are unhappy with Democratic Party, no Civil Right Legislation will pass if Republicans win. We have to stay in support of Democrats since we have no choice. We need to work toward repeal of DOMA, and it has to be done next year. I understand he has a lot on his plate, but our rights can not wait and I am not patient about it, so I invite everyone to continue to show disappointment in the Democratic Government, and press them on all levels to advance our rights. But I beg all my gay brothers and sister to stay loyal and vote Democrat since we have no choice. I hope Democrats will appreciate what we have done for the party in general.

  • Name: John D'Ambra
    Date posted: 11/13/2009 3:24:26 PM
    Hometown: Butler, NJ

    Comment:

    Gary, when you make a promise you KEEP THAT PROMISE. The President made a PROMISE that he would support moves to make certain that ALL AMERICANS TREATED AND ALLOWED EQUALITY. IT IS IN THE CONSTITUTION among other documents written by this country's founders. He has not visibly kept that promise; let alone gone out of his way to stand up for those of us who are self-respecting gay men and women. The women in this article skirts the issue by speaking yet saying nothing to answer the question...



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