Tammy Lynn Michaels Speaks Up About Split

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Tammy Lynn Speaks Up About Split
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          May 23, 2010
          
        
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When Melissa Etheridge and Tammy Lynn Michaels announced last month that they were ending their nine-year relationship, Etheridge insisted that the split was the result of a mutual decision. But now Michaels is suggesting otherwise.

Michaels first spoke up about the break up in a blog post that was quickly deleted. And now, as The Huffington Post reports, she's returned to her blog to discuss the pain of the breakup.

Read the post here.

        
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