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Famed Drag Performer Heklina Found Dead in London

Famed Drag Performer Heklina Found Dead in London

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Heklina was in the city to perform in Mommie Queerest with fellow drag legend Peaches Christ.

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Famed drag performer Heklina has died.

Fellow drag star Peaches Christ posted on Twitter and Facebook about finding Heklina, known as Stefan Grygelko outside of drag, dead in a hotel in London. The two were performing in Mommie Queerest, a musical parody of Mommie Dearest, at the Soho Theatre in that city.

“I do not know the cause of death yet. I know this is shocking news and I am beyond stunned, but I wanted to let folks know what has happened,” Peaches Christ wrote. “Heklina is not just my best friend, but a beloved icon of our community. I am a mess. Given this crisis, please do not try to contact me as I am utterly heartbroken, stunned, and focusing on what needs to get done next. I shall be in touch.”

The theater also sent a tweet of sympathy.

Heklina was a veteran of the San Francisco drag scene. She first became famous with the show Trannyshack (which was eventually renamed Mother), premiering in 1996 at the city’s Stud bar and later moving to the larger DNA Lounge. The performance offered “a uniquely queer riff on the political, social, racial, and gender controversies of the day,” according to The Bay Area Reporter.

The show featured female performers, known as “faux queens,” and drag kings in addition to drag queens. “Heklina threw out the rulebook on what it meant to be a drag performer,” the Reporter notes.

In 2015, Heklina, with others, opened another San Francisco bar, Oasis. She later sold her interest in the bar and moved to Palm Springs, Calif., in 2019. She often returned to San Francisco, hosting a monthly party, “Daytime Realness,” at the city’s El Rio bar. She opened the season there March 18, The San Francisco Standard reports.

She was also famed for her appearances as Dorothy Zbornak in onstage re-creations of episodes of the sitcom The Golden Girls. “The long-running show became an annual holiday tradition in San Francisco,” the Reporter relates.

Tributes are pouring in.


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Trudy Ring is The Advocate’s senior politics editor and copy chief. She has been a reporter and editor for daily newspapers and LGBTQ+ weeklies/monthlies, trade magazines, and reference books. She is a political junkie who thinks even the wonkiest details are fascinating, and she always loves to see political candidates who are groundbreaking in some way. She enjoys writing about other topics as well, including religion (she’s interested in what people believe and why), literature, theater, and film. Trudy is a proud “old movie weirdo” and loves the Hollywood films of the 1930s and ’40s above all others. Other interests include classic rock music (Bruce Springsteen rules!) and history. Oh, and she was a Jeopardy! contestant back in 1998 and won two games. Not up there with Amy Schneider, but Trudy still takes pride in this achievement.
Trudy Ring is The Advocate’s senior politics editor and copy chief. She has been a reporter and editor for daily newspapers and LGBTQ+ weeklies/monthlies, trade magazines, and reference books. She is a political junkie who thinks even the wonkiest details are fascinating, and she always loves to see political candidates who are groundbreaking in some way. She enjoys writing about other topics as well, including religion (she’s interested in what people believe and why), literature, theater, and film. Trudy is a proud “old movie weirdo” and loves the Hollywood films of the 1930s and ’40s above all others. Other interests include classic rock music (Bruce Springsteen rules!) and history. Oh, and she was a Jeopardy! contestant back in 1998 and won two games. Not up there with Amy Schneider, but Trudy still takes pride in this achievement.